How can I let him go?.. even though I don't want to?

It's been over a month now since my ex of 2 and a half years and I broke up.. I dumped him, regretted it, he ';rebounded,'; and has been dating her for almost a month now. He came back to me for a couple of days, because she told him she loved him, and he still loved me.. THEN he dumped me, because hurting her was killing him. He sad I broke his heart too much to ever want to be with me. He told me had fallen out of love with me (after 5 days? he either never loved me or he stll does...) I get it, but he stll talks to me.. everyday up until my phone broke, he texted me. Last week he was sending me texts while he was drunk, he asked me if I stll loved him, I said ';yes, but it shouldnt affect you.'; he replied with ';well, it does affect me, but I just won't let it..';



I don't know why he is playing headgames. I met his new girlfriend, and I tried to be nice to her as possible, I also had an awkward run in with them today ( we live in a small town...) I AM cellphoneless, yet today he messages me on facebook saying how nice it was to see me, and asked how I had been...Is he rubbing it in how happy he is now? Because the thought of them together, and seeing them together, still makes me sick to my stomach. They're moving in together June 1st.. I want to let him go, because staying friends seems like a bad idea.. How can I tell him nicely?How can I let him go?.. even though I don't want to?
Tell him this, Listen we had something very good at one time, but it never worked out and it never will. Good luck with your current relationship. Something like that, maybe he will get the hint.How can I let him go?.. even though I don't want to?
I'm having a similar problem, except the role I play is the rebound. This girl simply cant get over her ex of 4 years, and keeps going back to him, but still sees me and it kills me to think that I want to be with her, but she keeps going back to him even though they have both said it would never work and they dont want to be together. It's hard, and i'm struggling to di it myself, but I think when the headgames start, and you feel messed about, it's time to let go and block them out of your life so you can move on. Hard, very hard, it will hurt for a while, but eventually it will just be another knot in the long rope of life. Hope this helps x
Well, yes he knows you still cant get over him. You even know when they are moving in. My advice is the next time he calls,text,facebook, watev tell him to shut the **** up.



But if u want it done nicely. Tell him, that u guys cant be friends anymore maybe just aquaintaces but not friends. I guess u'll have to delete him off facebok too.