You can always bring passion back into a relationship with a little romance. Do special things for him. Recreate your first date, write him a poem, or make a pretty card for him. Sit together and talk about the things that first made you fall in love. Act out your sexual fantasies. Just always try new things and talk. Yes the butterflies are fun but it's the long lasting relationships that hotly smolder beneath the coals. There is nothing more amazing than crawling into bed and snuggling up next to a person who loves you as much as you love them.How do I make him fall back in love with me?
I believe that arguing will make each of you stronger and it will teach both of you that you know how to handle eachother when times get tough. You just have to always comminicate and to always do whats right in the best of situations. You want sparks?? You both have to be willing to change. Trust me I know from experience =) I hope it works out!
This may sound stupid,But I had been married 16 years and 7 kids when we went through this.All of a sudden I was sitting there one morning drinking my coffee and looked across the table at my husband and relized that we have been in the kitchen together for 2 hours and the only thing said was ';do you want more coffee?' What had happened to the passing look the little wink that would make me smile and blush. Why didnt we flirt anymore. How did we let ourselves get so compfortable that we are here in the same room but lonely. So I stared at him untill he could feel my eyes and he had to look when he did I simpley winked. He tilted hs head in confussion then there it was a smile that smile he said ';hey you whats up and we laughed.'; then we went upstairs and it was like the first time.After that we made sure to notice eachother. a simple hand across the back when walking past the chair.A wink, a kiss on the check when walking past, It dosent have to be any long romantic outing just letting eachother know your still my man your still my gal. It worked. Then a few years later he got a secratary that I guess flirted more. But by this time I I was going through menapause and he had put on 40 pounds let himself go and his bodily fuctions were no longer making our sons laugh and our daughters screech in disgust.I drove him to his 30 year old and handed her his container for his dentures. As I walked away I said its not always a wink you know? sometimes he falls asleep over his morning coffee. He just sleeps with one eye open.The kids still tell that one and we laugh. but I still remember the day that we rekindled the love and it was real good luck.
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