the answer is you can't. Love happens naturally and spontaneously, you can't do anything to make someone love you...the only thing you can do is be someone worth loving. The rest is up to them. If that person that you want doesn't love you then it's his loss. Move on and you will find someone worthy of it. Good luck!How do I make him fall in love and want a serious r/ship with me?
You F'd up.
Not just because you opened legs so fast, but because you as the female must ';pick'; the guy with the qualities you need in a relationship.
And as usual you did what most gals do and picked a loser.
And i bet there was a real good quality guy somewhere around who would love you like you want, but you probably ignore him for ';hot pants'; johnny?
One day when you meet a potential husband/fiance, on your wedding night he will know that you are giving him 'seconds'. He wont say it but he will be thinking it.
Good luck.
It's possible that the sexual relationship so early in the emotional relationship, could be confusing and making him wonder if he's ready for that type of commitment.
Many guys are not ready for a serious committment. You cannot MAKE someone fall in love with you, nor force them into a serious relationship.
Things like that take time, and usually way more than just 2 months.
ok girl that is wrong! 2 MONTHS YOU ARE SEX CRAZY!!
You CANT ';make'; him change his mind. All you can do is continue to see him if you want to, and if he falls in love with you or ADMITS he's in love with you, then fine %26amp; you both take it from there. But if he DOESNT admit he's in love with you and he's actually NOT in love with you, that's going to be a very hard bitter pill for you to swallow because you're already in love with him and fallen so hard for him.
feed him....they say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach!
Let it run it's course! Don't be in a hurry! 2 months is too short to know if you really want this. Enjoy the moment and be true to yourself always. Find that balance in your life where you can love someone but also know if it's a passing thing and not hold onto somethig for the sake of it.
Judging you based on how long it took to get physical is not important, what is is that you connect with someone well enough and have mutual love and respect. I say, let it run it's course and don't force anything that isn't meant to be.
enjoy the moment. What will be will be.
Goodluck!
Well first you have to ask yourself, what says to you that, ';He love you?'; Once you determine this, try to figure out what may be stopping him from doing those sort of things? What are you doing or not doing that could possibly make a difference? Remember, it is not his actions that made him first be interested in you...it was yours....
First off when you choose to sleep with someone is your business.But if I were you I would also realize that what you think he feels and what he does feel may be two different things.
There is no way to ';make'; someone fall in love and want a serious relationship just because you want it.Best thing for you to do is keep your head out of the clouds and back on earth and just be yourself.Care about him but don't go tripping all over yourself to try and ';win him over';. If you want to see him become more into you, then have respect for yourself by not letting him play games with you.
Tell him taking it slow is fine but let him know you have deep feelings for him and would like to see it progress.If he is sincere, time will tell.Just don't let him turn you into his booty call girl. If he spends time with you and shows feelings for you, the rest will follow. But if he blows you off all the time but shows up when its convenient for him and wants some form you.More than likely your being played.Only you can protect your heart.Just make sure your always using your head with your heart.
So exzactly what is a man in love to you. If a mans in love with you he will call you all the time, do extra stuff for you that he does not need to do, try to do special things for you like suprise you with something diffrent etc. 2 months is too soon for any man to fall in love with you. Now in love with your pussy then I can see that. He may love you but love many diffrent women too. I know men who respect women and care for them but want a whole bunch and do treat them good. Now if he is saying that he wants the realatioship not to be serious he may feel that your getting to clingy or maybe he is feeling that your not the right one for him but the sex is good so he wants that. That is his way of telling you that he does not see this as a long term thing or maybe he decided your not the one so he told you that so he does not actually have to break up with you because he does not want to hurt your feelings. Maby he slept with you too soon because he has not got none and it ruined his judgement about what he wants in a girl and now that he has slept with you hes afraid you will be hurt and feel like he used you. He may also be hoping that you figure this out on your own. If you still want to pursue this which I would not suggest dont push anything, ask him what he means by not so serious, in my expierence they dont want you no more and are just being nice. Also just be there dont expect anything out of it do not bug him all the time just let things run its course. When you leave him to his self more he may want you more. I would move on though and find someone who does want to have a serious realtionship. The more you push him the more he will pull away.
Duh sleep with him. Do it naked and have some real sex. kiss him in tghe private places and lay on top of him while your naked and just do a lot of sex naked
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