im in love with my boyfriend but im not to sure if he loves me back ''/ . how do i make him fall in love with me ?How do you make a boy fall in love with you ?
You cant make anyone love you....
Thats like being fake =/
Just be yourself and if he doesnt love u for hu u are
then u gotta move on and find someone else and so does he ...
becuz u can not make anyone love u for trying to be somethin else....your boyfriend should love u for hu u are...
Talk to ur bf and tell him that u feel he doesnt love u, and wait for his reply to see what he has to say for himself....
Hopefully its good news :)
Good Luck
xHow do you make a boy fall in love with you ?
Hun do yuu want to make anybody fall in love with yuu if he doesn't want to ???? Always think of yurself first then others bcoz this world is cruel n even yur bf can ditch yuu sometime. everygirl in it's own place is unique. So be unique n let him fall in love with yuu :)
The Ultimate question! You cant make him fall in love with you but you can give him a shove. Ok do everything he likes. Be more and more ';sexy';!!!!! But what ever you do don't be obsessive or annoying. He will not like that!!
You have to be funny,intelligent,have a job,be rich,have your own place,have a car.
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You cant make sum1 fall in love with u just be normal and if he likes you he will fall in love with you eventually I hope. Best of luck
You can't make him but you sure can ask him.
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Is there any possible way to make someone fall in love with you?
There is this person I am totally in love with. The problem is he is a staff member, and I am a college student. This is sort of forbidden, i guess. But I know I love him, and I cant get him out of my head. Are there any ways to show him how much I care? I know we could work the situation out. Are there any ways to make someone fall in love with you?? Please help me I am going completly crazy.Is there any possible way to make someone fall in love with you?
Wow! You are brave; so I'm dying to know what happened and what his reaction was?? Please tell us...Is there any possible way to make someone fall in love with you?
I'd be feeling the same way if that happened. But now, is the time to move on; and don't forget that this will be another great lesson for you in life and it will only make you better and stronger ::) You go girl!!! (Keep your chin up). Go rent the movie ';Bandits'; (should cheer u up).
You can't MAKE people fall in love with you.
They either do or don't
I'd say your chances aren't that good with this particular guy. Your already proclaiming your love for him and you haven't even been on a date?!
Aim for guys that aren't ';forbidden';, you know, the guys you actually interact with.
mabey you could invite him out for coffie and desert sometime. i don't see why you can't go out as friends and see where things go from there. good luck....
No it is impossible to MAKE it happen.
Respectful and caring behaviors help to get the ball rolling.
It is rather easy though to prevent someone from ever loving you, disrespectful words or actions....then you are history.
why don't you just get up some courage tell him how you feel...
Tell him there's something you find very original and interesting but you'd like to know what that is by going to lunch with him sometime. Keep it short; keep it casual; and don't tell him you love him till he tells you first in his own original way.
Wow! You are brave; so I'm dying to know what happened and what his reaction was?? Please tell us...Is there any possible way to make someone fall in love with you?
I'd be feeling the same way if that happened. But now, is the time to move on; and don't forget that this will be another great lesson for you in life and it will only make you better and stronger ::) You go girl!!! (Keep your chin up). Go rent the movie ';Bandits'; (should cheer u up).
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You can't MAKE people fall in love with you.
They either do or don't
I'd say your chances aren't that good with this particular guy. Your already proclaiming your love for him and you haven't even been on a date?!
Aim for guys that aren't ';forbidden';, you know, the guys you actually interact with.
mabey you could invite him out for coffie and desert sometime. i don't see why you can't go out as friends and see where things go from there. good luck....
No it is impossible to MAKE it happen.
Respectful and caring behaviors help to get the ball rolling.
It is rather easy though to prevent someone from ever loving you, disrespectful words or actions....then you are history.
why don't you just get up some courage tell him how you feel...
Tell him there's something you find very original and interesting but you'd like to know what that is by going to lunch with him sometime. Keep it short; keep it casual; and don't tell him you love him till he tells you first in his own original way.
How do I make a girl fall in love with me?
She told me I was cute. She told me she wanted to go out with my but she has a boyfriend and she says she wants to break up with him. Everyday little by little they fall in love with each other more and more. How do I make her break up with him and go out with me. How do I make a girl fall in love with me?
She might be saying it to not hurt your feelings. And it takes two to be in relationship. So whatever the path she is on, let it be so. Be patient. If she can so easily break up with her current boyfriend to get with you, wouldn't it be easy to break up with you to get another boyfriend? Please think this through, especially if you have any evil plans.
TonyHow do I make a girl fall in love with me?
Alright, no problem! Have a good one :D
Tony
Just talk a little bit with her, then make a sweet complament when your about to leave, and she will remember what you said to her, and you will be in her head for the whole day or even longer, then just give her a quick glance, with a love eye.DON'T STARE, It's ike a pattern, First Talk to her LITTLE for a COUPLE OF SECONDS or 1 MINUTE, then the next day don't talk and she will be running after you to talk to her some more, LOkk, just do what I told you and I GRANTEE YOU, SHE WILL BE RUNNING AFTER YOU.!
There is nothing called making somebody to fall in love with you
It is either you fall in love with somebody or you do not.
What you are thinking may not work
She chose the other boy as bf and you as a sideshow so if she wants to go out with you she needs to do the breaking up not you
If you still trust her Good luck
dont make her break up with him. that is just wrong. talk to her more and get her to like you. she might break up with him. then you can go out with her. dont MAKE her break up with him. that is not a good way to deal with this.
She might be saying it to not hurt your feelings. And it takes two to be in relationship. So whatever the path she is on, let it be so. Be patient. If she can so easily break up with her current boyfriend to get with you, wouldn't it be easy to break up with you to get another boyfriend? Please think this through, especially if you have any evil plans.
TonyHow do I make a girl fall in love with me?
Alright, no problem! Have a good one :D
Tony
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Just talk a little bit with her, then make a sweet complament when your about to leave, and she will remember what you said to her, and you will be in her head for the whole day or even longer, then just give her a quick glance, with a love eye.DON'T STARE, It's ike a pattern, First Talk to her LITTLE for a COUPLE OF SECONDS or 1 MINUTE, then the next day don't talk and she will be running after you to talk to her some more, LOkk, just do what I told you and I GRANTEE YOU, SHE WILL BE RUNNING AFTER YOU.!
There is nothing called making somebody to fall in love with you
It is either you fall in love with somebody or you do not.
What you are thinking may not work
She chose the other boy as bf and you as a sideshow so if she wants to go out with you she needs to do the breaking up not you
If you still trust her Good luck
dont make her break up with him. that is just wrong. talk to her more and get her to like you. she might break up with him. then you can go out with her. dont MAKE her break up with him. that is not a good way to deal with this.
How do u make 2 sims on Sims 2 PC to fall in love?
For instance; Isaac Perry grew up and move out of his parents house and he lived at a house on his own. Then Samantha Reed moves out of her parents house and meets and moves in with Isaac Perry. I know i make Isaac and Samantha chat alot and tell jokes alot. But howcome when Isaac wants to ask Samantha out on a date, Samantha refuses. Is it because do u think Isaac is not attracted to Samantha? How can I make them fall in love? Please help!!!!How do u make 2 sims on Sims 2 PC to fall in love?
Get them to talk more. Build up their friendship (make sure it's at least 90) then get the guy (or girl, depending) to make a move on the other then go from there..How do u make 2 sims on Sims 2 PC to fall in love?
have sex
Lock them in a tiny room and don't let them out until they've produced a child. Although that could kill them too... Ah well, sacrifices! That's what Sims is all about!
But seriously, have Isaac buy her gifts. That's really the quickest way to make Sims fall in love. Make them talk about a bunch of different things. Make them entertain each other, play together, etc. Make them hug and kiss. When they're relationship levels are high enough, they'll be willing to take it to the next level.
If not, the next best thing is making them fight to the death!
It's a good thing playing the Sims doesn't control real people in an alternate universe... mine would be one messed up alternate universe...
Get them to talk more. Build up their friendship (make sure it's at least 90) then get the guy (or girl, depending) to make a move on the other then go from there..How do u make 2 sims on Sims 2 PC to fall in love?
have sex
Lock them in a tiny room and don't let them out until they've produced a child. Although that could kill them too... Ah well, sacrifices! That's what Sims is all about!
But seriously, have Isaac buy her gifts. That's really the quickest way to make Sims fall in love. Make them talk about a bunch of different things. Make them entertain each other, play together, etc. Make them hug and kiss. When they're relationship levels are high enough, they'll be willing to take it to the next level.
If not, the next best thing is making them fight to the death!
It's a good thing playing the Sims doesn't control real people in an alternate universe... mine would be one messed up alternate universe...
How can I make someone fall in love with me or how can I make peace with things I cannot changed? Please help ?
I love someone so much but this person does not love and this person fakes actually is a ';he'; and I am getting frustrated. He knows that I am in love and now he is taking advantage of me and that hurts so bad. Now I want to revenge. Please help I have been a stupid irresponsible idiot. Now I need help, I have learned from my stupid mistakes.How can I make someone fall in love with me or how can I make peace with things I cannot changed? Please help ?
You can't make any one love you. Don't get revenge, won't make you feel any better. Learn from your mistakes, walk away and get on with you life. If you keep thinking about it, and drowning yourself with what if's and how come's you'll miss a REAL opportunity pass you by :o)
Good Luck!How can I make someone fall in love with me or how can I make peace with things I cannot changed? Please help ?
I know you love him, but i think the best thing for you to do is just give each other space. Spend time apart, do things with other friends. Itll be hard, i know, but he should know that you cant be taken advantage of. You need a real man, not someone who'll use you because you care for them more than they care for you.I hope everything works out =)high speed usb myspace names
You can't make any one love you. Don't get revenge, won't make you feel any better. Learn from your mistakes, walk away and get on with you life. If you keep thinking about it, and drowning yourself with what if's and how come's you'll miss a REAL opportunity pass you by :o)
Good Luck!How can I make someone fall in love with me or how can I make peace with things I cannot changed? Please help ?
I know you love him, but i think the best thing for you to do is just give each other space. Spend time apart, do things with other friends. Itll be hard, i know, but he should know that you cant be taken advantage of. You need a real man, not someone who'll use you because you care for them more than they care for you.I hope everything works out =)
How do I make him fall back in love with me?
im still in love... i did something to hinder our relationship... Now he is so distant.. I miss the old us. How do I get him back the way I used to have him?
*I didn't cheatHow do I make him fall back in love with me?
It will be difficult. It takes a long time to build trust and a single act to destroy it (regardless of an intentional act or just a silly mistake). Even if you do build the trust back, it is unlikely that it will ever be the same again.How do I make him fall back in love with me?
give him time...
*I didn't cheatHow do I make him fall back in love with me?
It will be difficult. It takes a long time to build trust and a single act to destroy it (regardless of an intentional act or just a silly mistake). Even if you do build the trust back, it is unlikely that it will ever be the same again.How do I make him fall back in love with me?
give him time...
How do I make an older guy fall in love with me?
I like this older guy and I want to know what I need for him to fall in love with me. He has plenty of money so its not hard for him to find girls to be with. I know I have to play hard to get, but what else can I talk about to be able to communicate at his level? What do men like to talk about? Please give me any suggestions. I know you can't make anybody fall in love or make him like me, but I can work very hard and then if it doesn't work then I will know.How do I make an older guy fall in love with me?
Like how much older? Just read the newspaper so you know everything that's going on in your area and in the world and then you will sound sophisticated. You don't even have to read the whole thing just read the main parts of the articles then you're good to go.How do I make an older guy fall in love with me?
Eat it, trust me he will love you
Sports, beer, food.
3 things that would make most guys fall into your arms (sometimes literally)
How old are you? You seem to have no idea what men want. How old is he?
he is in love with you already. just waiting on you to give him the ok.
Like how much older? Just read the newspaper so you know everything that's going on in your area and in the world and then you will sound sophisticated. You don't even have to read the whole thing just read the main parts of the articles then you're good to go.How do I make an older guy fall in love with me?
Eat it, trust me he will love you
Sports, beer, food.
3 things that would make most guys fall into your arms (sometimes literally)
How old are you? You seem to have no idea what men want. How old is he?
he is in love with you already. just waiting on you to give him the ok.
How can i fall in love with a man of dream and make him to marry me?
please i need to get a good man and a caring man.please i want to know how to fall in love with him and make him to marry me.please help meHow can i fall in love with a man of dream and make him to marry me?
im always open
(conditions apply)How can i fall in love with a man of dream and make him to marry me?
It's a turn off if you sound so desperate.
im always open
(conditions apply)How can i fall in love with a man of dream and make him to marry me?
It's a turn off if you sound so desperate.
How did I make The man I love fall in love me?
I was fall in love with one man and i really love him but I didn't know he love me or not! some time I think I love but it just my think.can you help me to know did he love me? how did i make that man love me? how can I tell him I LOVE HIM?How did I make The man I love fall in love me?
just tell him..
just tell him..
What to do if your bf breakup with you, reason he ran out of love. How do I make him fall in again?
You can't. If he doesn't want to be with you any more, there's nothing you can do but accept it.What to do if your bf breakup with you, reason he ran out of love. How do I make him fall in again?
Don't do anything.... step back see if he calls you back if he doesn't, move onWhat to do if your bf breakup with you, reason he ran out of love. How do I make him fall in again?
You can't ';make'; someone fall in love with you. Chances are.. He doesn't even know the first thing about love and was merely infatuated with you.
I'm going to assume that you're still pretty young by your statement above and say that you should just move on and continue to live your life. Go out and have fun with your girlfriends, date other people, and if he ever comes around.. Maybe you two can be friends or move things past that if you would like, but chances are.. You won't remember him by that point.
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Don't do anything.... step back see if he calls you back if he doesn't, move onWhat to do if your bf breakup with you, reason he ran out of love. How do I make him fall in again?
You can't ';make'; someone fall in love with you. Chances are.. He doesn't even know the first thing about love and was merely infatuated with you.
I'm going to assume that you're still pretty young by your statement above and say that you should just move on and continue to live your life. Go out and have fun with your girlfriends, date other people, and if he ever comes around.. Maybe you two can be friends or move things past that if you would like, but chances are.. You won't remember him by that point.
Hope this helps. ;)
How do you make a guy fall in love?
I've been friends with this guy for a while like really good friends. and he's liked me more than a friend a couple of times. and I think I like him now. But How do I make him like me? I try to make up AIM status's about love to make him like jealous. We have so much in common and we always talk about that. We always talk about how we both love eminem and that kind of music.We always talk and he always said he was excited to go to high school with me but when it started he barely talked to me. He was always with my friend. How do I make him fall for me again? or if so more? I have a feeling that i might love him.How do you make a guy fall in love?
Maybe you are not his type ?
Maybe you are not slim enough or smart enough , maybe he want to be your friend only ? I do not situation ...
You absolutely may love him , does not mean somebody must love you back ?How do you make a guy fall in love?
He knows you like him and he aint interested.Move on is my suggestion.
If he's liked you before, then tell him!
Maybe he just layed low or lost hope.
Sadly you can't make anyone fall for you.
Maybe you are not his type ?
Maybe you are not slim enough or smart enough , maybe he want to be your friend only ? I do not situation ...
You absolutely may love him , does not mean somebody must love you back ?How do you make a guy fall in love?
He knows you like him and he aint interested.Move on is my suggestion.
If he's liked you before, then tell him!
Maybe he just layed low or lost hope.
Sadly you can't make anyone fall for you.
How to make a guy fall in love with you?
okay,so i want to know how to make a guy fall in love with you? you are just friends now so what is the next step to make him fall in love with you?How to make a guy fall in love with you?
You can make a guy interested in you, you can't make him fall in love with you.
What makes a guy fall in love are factors that are determined by his own values. The conditions are different for someone who likes to go out drinking and smoke weed every day, than for someone education and career oriented. One might fall for a girl that can party and keep up with him, the other is going to value intellect and drive.
Your best bet is to interact and get to know him as much as possible. Find out his goals and what he wants. These are going to give clues as to what his underlying values are. Present yourself in such a way as to play up to these values as best possible.
Now if you're just friends trying to take things to the next level, focus more on likes and less on loves for now. Interact as much as possible to use shared experiences to make connections between the two of you. Show consideration for him and express your interest. Look for interactions for physical contact. Hugs, touching, rough him up a bit, snuggle up if cold. After you initiate some sort of physical contact demonstrate encouragement. Basically want to show him there's little chance of rejection if he tries something.How to make a guy fall in love with you?
you cant.
we are programmed to love beer, hotdogs, pizza porn fast cars, and fast women.
you dont ';MAKE'; people fall inlove with you. it just happens.
you can not make a guy. you hang around alot, be yourself and if it happens it happens and if not move on.
Be smelly.
Don't use make up.
Show him your boobs.
you can't. if he wants to be with you he will. end of story. don't try to make it happen if it hasn't already it wont'
yea u cant
You cant make someone fall in love with u darlin... u could become everything u think he wants but then he has fallen for an idea not u...these kind of relationships are doomed... just keep being yourself look out for signs if u feel comfy enuf ask him.x
why on earth do you want to 'make' a guy fall in love with u?
If a guy doesn't love you for who you are, whats the point?
Be yourself..and if its meant to be it will be. If not someone who is meant to be for you will soon come along. Enjoy single life mean while.
Good luck x
You cant make someone fall in love with you-If they love you it will happen.If not then it wont.Simple
you can't
Just ask him on a date! He will say yes or no! as simple as that! if you go on a date you and him will get to know eachother and he might fall in love with you! if he doesn't don't try again! just stay friends! if he does i guess you are a lucky girl!
go out to lunch, or to the movies, then start hanging out, he will eventually be with you and then love him the best you can and look him in the eyes and kiss him and whisper in his ear ';i love you'; and smile and walk away. it works
You just cant make someone fall in love with you. If he's going to feel the same, then he is. All you can do is be yourself, don't mold yourself in what he likes, be yourself. If you try and make him, it might push him away because he'll notice it, unless he's an idiot. And if you do succeed in making him, then you'll never know if he really does love you, or if he might've fell in love with you on his own. Just hope for the best!
Hope this helps and good luck Need anymore help? Just e-mail me. Id be more than happy to help!
Clarissa
You can make a guy interested in you, you can't make him fall in love with you.
What makes a guy fall in love are factors that are determined by his own values. The conditions are different for someone who likes to go out drinking and smoke weed every day, than for someone education and career oriented. One might fall for a girl that can party and keep up with him, the other is going to value intellect and drive.
Your best bet is to interact and get to know him as much as possible. Find out his goals and what he wants. These are going to give clues as to what his underlying values are. Present yourself in such a way as to play up to these values as best possible.
Now if you're just friends trying to take things to the next level, focus more on likes and less on loves for now. Interact as much as possible to use shared experiences to make connections between the two of you. Show consideration for him and express your interest. Look for interactions for physical contact. Hugs, touching, rough him up a bit, snuggle up if cold. After you initiate some sort of physical contact demonstrate encouragement. Basically want to show him there's little chance of rejection if he tries something.How to make a guy fall in love with you?
you cant.
we are programmed to love beer, hotdogs, pizza porn fast cars, and fast women.
you dont ';MAKE'; people fall inlove with you. it just happens.
you can not make a guy. you hang around alot, be yourself and if it happens it happens and if not move on.
Be smelly.
Don't use make up.
Show him your boobs.
you can't. if he wants to be with you he will. end of story. don't try to make it happen if it hasn't already it wont'
yea u cant
You cant make someone fall in love with u darlin... u could become everything u think he wants but then he has fallen for an idea not u...these kind of relationships are doomed... just keep being yourself look out for signs if u feel comfy enuf ask him.x
why on earth do you want to 'make' a guy fall in love with u?
If a guy doesn't love you for who you are, whats the point?
Be yourself..and if its meant to be it will be. If not someone who is meant to be for you will soon come along. Enjoy single life mean while.
Good luck x
You cant make someone fall in love with you-If they love you it will happen.If not then it wont.Simple
you can't
Just ask him on a date! He will say yes or no! as simple as that! if you go on a date you and him will get to know eachother and he might fall in love with you! if he doesn't don't try again! just stay friends! if he does i guess you are a lucky girl!
go out to lunch, or to the movies, then start hanging out, he will eventually be with you and then love him the best you can and look him in the eyes and kiss him and whisper in his ear ';i love you'; and smile and walk away. it works
You just cant make someone fall in love with you. If he's going to feel the same, then he is. All you can do is be yourself, don't mold yourself in what he likes, be yourself. If you try and make him, it might push him away because he'll notice it, unless he's an idiot. And if you do succeed in making him, then you'll never know if he really does love you, or if he might've fell in love with you on his own. Just hope for the best!
Hope this helps and good luck Need anymore help? Just e-mail me. Id be more than happy to help!
Clarissa
How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You?
IVE BEEN DATING THIS GUY LIKE FOR 2 OR 3 WEEKS I THINK SOMETIMES I FEEL THAT I LOOK KINDA DESPERATE BUT IM NOT HE LIKES ME CAUSE I STARTED GOING OUT WITH HIM CAUSE MY FRIEND TOLD ME THAT HE LIKES ME I LIKE HIM TO BUT I STILL DON'T LOVE HIM SO I JUST WANT HIM TO FALL IN LOVE WITH ME CUASE I NEVER HAD SOMEONE WHO RESPECT ME AND LOVE ME ( IM NOT LUCKY WITH LOVE) HOW DO I MAKE HIM LOVE ME FOR REAL HE SEEMS A GOOD GUY SO FAR ...I JUST DONT WANT HIM TO RAN AWAY FROM MEHow to Make a Man Fall in Love With You?
sorry, but you cant just MAKE a man fall in love with you. its much more than just him liking your looks. its a connection that you have to wait and find.How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You?
ran away from me? two words to make due fall in love: PUT OUT!! ON FIRST DATE!!
You desperate? Naw.
Be your self! be funny , charming , listen to his problems, give him a chance to get the good side of you but honey three weeks is not enough time ! enjoy your self ok
Have a nice time and enjoy the relationship dopnt strrugle the guy that will love u is there and if is this one it would show soon.
whats the rush?
Unfortunately, you can't make people fall in love with you. That's why it's so special when it happens of it's own accord. Just go with the flow and your love life will work itself out.
Seduce him?
sorry, but you cant just MAKE a man fall in love with you. its much more than just him liking your looks. its a connection that you have to wait and find.How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You?
ran away from me? two words to make due fall in love: PUT OUT!! ON FIRST DATE!!
You desperate? Naw.
Be your self! be funny , charming , listen to his problems, give him a chance to get the good side of you but honey three weeks is not enough time ! enjoy your self ok
Have a nice time and enjoy the relationship dopnt strrugle the guy that will love u is there and if is this one it would show soon.
whats the rush?
Unfortunately, you can't make people fall in love with you. That's why it's so special when it happens of it's own accord. Just go with the flow and your love life will work itself out.
Seduce him?
How can i make him fall back in love with me?
We where madly in love,we have a 4yr od daughter toghether, i love him and miss him now i realise that he wasnt all that bad, i want him back but dunno how to go about. any tips? its our childs 4th birthday party this monday and now we are actully gettin on and not rowing,everyones gonna be there, what should i do?How can i make him fall back in love with me?
I am guessing he broke up with not too long ago. Girl what u gotta do now is kinda critical. Any false clingy move on ur part will make him think breaking up with u was a good move. once that's done, it's hard to get him back. I know u feel like a wreck right now but u HAVE to PRETEND everything is fine and u're doin right as rain without him. That'll make him doubt maybe he made a mistake coz u don't seem to need him. And psychologically this'll mess with his mind and make him think he needs YOU more than u need him.
So do this:
1. Do NOT talk to him about getting back etc. Instead be confident about urself. Be calm and sweet and coy with him. Compliment him on his (pretend u're searching for a word to tell him) very insignificant something. Like ';I like your.........cufflinks'; (this would further mess with his mind later that he only looked good when u guys were together. or that he looks terrible without u. BUT u're so nice to tell him something nice) Have small talk then scurry off like u're busy or having a good time with other people.
2. If there's a hot guy at the party, flirt with him. But not like a prostitute. At the same time play coy with ur ex.
3. Treat him like a guest. Don't expect work from him and refuse even if he asks. Unless the point where he really begs to do something then pretend to think it over and u're doin HIM a favour that u're giving him something to do. (Again he would feel like u've really moved on with ur life being like u've become independent)
4. He would definitely call more often after all these. but u still need to play the game. Temptations would be great to just jump the gun and pretend the breakup never happened. But if u give it up too soon, again he will feel victorious and leave again. Give it time. Play hard to get. Pretend u've got a 100 stuff to do (And partaking in several activities for real would be a good idea too. and build ur self- confidence too) But still be nice to him. Make each calls a little longer than the last.
5. In the mean time, SERIOUSLY think about this. Do you really want him back? ';He wasn't all that bad'; (U do know that many women who get beaten by their spouses say the same thing right?) If u thought he was bad during the rship there is deifintely something wrong. Don't let ur low self confidence now do the thinking for u just for a security from a loser. You're so much better than that. You're a woman!! Do think and pray if he's good for you.How can i make him fall back in love with me?
look up on the internet. Try '; Getting him back'; stuff like that. Or just start dating someone new, that will make him come around real quick !
If he's going to be there, take him aside and tell him how you feel. It's possible that he's been waiting to hear this!
if he is interested invite him to spend the weekend with you and your daughter, then have a talk,
I know very few people that it ever worked out, getting back together again, all the old stuff came back up, people never change
Talk to him.
date around until he catches that old feeling
You said it '; now ya realise he wasn't so bad, the split was your choice so admit that before everyone and that you made a stupid bad , selfish choice and want to right it, but he needs ta make that decision this time and you need ta accept it. you set it free , if it comes back it was meant ta be
You cant MAKE anyone fall in love with you. Act like your normal self and maybe he will come around and see that you are changed for the better.
If you were so smug to give him the heave ho, then realise he wasn't so bad, for the sake of his own self confidence he shouldn't take you back.
The first thing that you need to do, is figure out what caused you two to separate in the first place. Once you figure that out, you might be able to figure out how to actually fix the issue. The hard question for you to answer, is do you only want him back, because being with him is better then being single? I have seen that so many times. Lets get back together, but nothing changes. It is very easy to fall back into the same routine.
You have a 4 year old to think about. Is it going to be healthy having you and your ex together? If you keep hooking back up, then breaking up, how will that look to your 4 year old.
I would try to do what is in the best interest for your daughter. If that means staying single, then stay single, if it means trying to work things out, then try to work things out. If you try to work things out, you have to give it 100%, otherwise your just putting your daughter through rougher times.
I wish you the best in what ever you end up deciding.
honesty. during the party watch him and make him see you watch him. then just before the party is done or just before he leaves, pull him aside and open your heart. let it be known that you still want him. just be prepared to give him time to let it sink in.
i don't know what caused the break up but it sounds as though you got tired of him or the stuff he did. if this is the case then you need to tell him you were wrong about the problems.
depends in a lot of factors..like what kind of relationships you have, and so on..but i think before you ask him to come back into your life, you need to be sure that you do want him back, and that its not just because you feel lonely and are finally realising that you daughter needs her father..you broke up for a reason remember that// now that you now what you want, i think you should talk to him..tell him exactly what you feel, and i mean exactly dont try to play games...
..well...you can't actually make anyone fall back in love with you darling...but it certainly wouldn't be the worst thing to sorta kinda wanna try maybe...that part's gonna be up to you though reasonably. Nobody can make anyone love anybody truly. It's a chemical, physical, mystical, mental timing kind of thing here hun....not to mention everybodys hearts are gonna have to be wide open and available to the idea too really! Do you feel that all of these particular ';ducks'; are kinda sorta getting lined up here for ya hun? Be sweet to the guy and his and your entire family darling...nothing in life is guaranteed otherwise...not even this guy! The grass ended up NOT being greener on the other side of the fence for ya I see. It's sorta kinda like '; karma '; coming back at you darling. It's momma nature balancing the playing field hun. You've heard of all of this kinda stuff before,....haven't you? Try to do the right stuff...instead of the left stuff reasonably. Happy Birthday to your daughter here truly! Hmmmm...!!!
I am guessing he broke up with not too long ago. Girl what u gotta do now is kinda critical. Any false clingy move on ur part will make him think breaking up with u was a good move. once that's done, it's hard to get him back. I know u feel like a wreck right now but u HAVE to PRETEND everything is fine and u're doin right as rain without him. That'll make him doubt maybe he made a mistake coz u don't seem to need him. And psychologically this'll mess with his mind and make him think he needs YOU more than u need him.
So do this:
1. Do NOT talk to him about getting back etc. Instead be confident about urself. Be calm and sweet and coy with him. Compliment him on his (pretend u're searching for a word to tell him) very insignificant something. Like ';I like your.........cufflinks'; (this would further mess with his mind later that he only looked good when u guys were together. or that he looks terrible without u. BUT u're so nice to tell him something nice) Have small talk then scurry off like u're busy or having a good time with other people.
2. If there's a hot guy at the party, flirt with him. But not like a prostitute. At the same time play coy with ur ex.
3. Treat him like a guest. Don't expect work from him and refuse even if he asks. Unless the point where he really begs to do something then pretend to think it over and u're doin HIM a favour that u're giving him something to do. (Again he would feel like u've really moved on with ur life being like u've become independent)
4. He would definitely call more often after all these. but u still need to play the game. Temptations would be great to just jump the gun and pretend the breakup never happened. But if u give it up too soon, again he will feel victorious and leave again. Give it time. Play hard to get. Pretend u've got a 100 stuff to do (And partaking in several activities for real would be a good idea too. and build ur self- confidence too) But still be nice to him. Make each calls a little longer than the last.
5. In the mean time, SERIOUSLY think about this. Do you really want him back? ';He wasn't all that bad'; (U do know that many women who get beaten by their spouses say the same thing right?) If u thought he was bad during the rship there is deifintely something wrong. Don't let ur low self confidence now do the thinking for u just for a security from a loser. You're so much better than that. You're a woman!! Do think and pray if he's good for you.How can i make him fall back in love with me?
look up on the internet. Try '; Getting him back'; stuff like that. Or just start dating someone new, that will make him come around real quick !
If he's going to be there, take him aside and tell him how you feel. It's possible that he's been waiting to hear this!
if he is interested invite him to spend the weekend with you and your daughter, then have a talk,
I know very few people that it ever worked out, getting back together again, all the old stuff came back up, people never change
Talk to him.
date around until he catches that old feeling
You said it '; now ya realise he wasn't so bad, the split was your choice so admit that before everyone and that you made a stupid bad , selfish choice and want to right it, but he needs ta make that decision this time and you need ta accept it. you set it free , if it comes back it was meant ta be
You cant MAKE anyone fall in love with you. Act like your normal self and maybe he will come around and see that you are changed for the better.
If you were so smug to give him the heave ho, then realise he wasn't so bad, for the sake of his own self confidence he shouldn't take you back.
The first thing that you need to do, is figure out what caused you two to separate in the first place. Once you figure that out, you might be able to figure out how to actually fix the issue. The hard question for you to answer, is do you only want him back, because being with him is better then being single? I have seen that so many times. Lets get back together, but nothing changes. It is very easy to fall back into the same routine.
You have a 4 year old to think about. Is it going to be healthy having you and your ex together? If you keep hooking back up, then breaking up, how will that look to your 4 year old.
I would try to do what is in the best interest for your daughter. If that means staying single, then stay single, if it means trying to work things out, then try to work things out. If you try to work things out, you have to give it 100%, otherwise your just putting your daughter through rougher times.
I wish you the best in what ever you end up deciding.
honesty. during the party watch him and make him see you watch him. then just before the party is done or just before he leaves, pull him aside and open your heart. let it be known that you still want him. just be prepared to give him time to let it sink in.
i don't know what caused the break up but it sounds as though you got tired of him or the stuff he did. if this is the case then you need to tell him you were wrong about the problems.
depends in a lot of factors..like what kind of relationships you have, and so on..but i think before you ask him to come back into your life, you need to be sure that you do want him back, and that its not just because you feel lonely and are finally realising that you daughter needs her father..you broke up for a reason remember that// now that you now what you want, i think you should talk to him..tell him exactly what you feel, and i mean exactly dont try to play games...
..well...you can't actually make anyone fall back in love with you darling...but it certainly wouldn't be the worst thing to sorta kinda wanna try maybe...that part's gonna be up to you though reasonably. Nobody can make anyone love anybody truly. It's a chemical, physical, mystical, mental timing kind of thing here hun....not to mention everybodys hearts are gonna have to be wide open and available to the idea too really! Do you feel that all of these particular ';ducks'; are kinda sorta getting lined up here for ya hun? Be sweet to the guy and his and your entire family darling...nothing in life is guaranteed otherwise...not even this guy! The grass ended up NOT being greener on the other side of the fence for ya I see. It's sorta kinda like '; karma '; coming back at you darling. It's momma nature balancing the playing field hun. You've heard of all of this kinda stuff before,....haven't you? Try to do the right stuff...instead of the left stuff reasonably. Happy Birthday to your daughter here truly! Hmmmm...!!!
How can i make him fall in love with me?
im 22 n my guy 25. we've been together for 6months. so far he only likes me n he doesnt pay much attention to me. the reason could b tht finally we hve 2 separate coz he wants 2 leave the country for a couple of years.i really like him very much. he is a serious guy, he is a boss, talkative, cool, handsome, n its fun to be with him.
could u gimme some suggestions? wht u guys would like ur girl to do?How can i make him fall in love with me?
He wants to leave for a couple of years and he hasn't suggested taking you with him? Maybe you're not what he's after sorry.hair remover sanskrit name
could u gimme some suggestions? wht u guys would like ur girl to do?How can i make him fall in love with me?
He wants to leave for a couple of years and he hasn't suggested taking you with him? Maybe you're not what he's after sorry.
How can I make him fall in love with me.?
I like this guy and I eventually want more from him we are like roomates but we deal with each other but I know he sees other people but he is good to me and my family and we n ever argue and he hides nothing from me. I love his style and he says I am the closest thing to a girlfriend in his life.How can I make him fall in love with me.?
u can't make him fall in love w u, but if he does love u, sooner or later u guys will happen.How can I make him fall in love with me.?
take your time. what happens happens. you cant make someone love you.
You can't make a person fall in love with you.
What you can do is be who you are and hope he finds that lovable.
He is hinting something...';closest thing to a girlfriend in his life';.....
First of all, you can never ';make'; someone fall in love with you! But the fact is, this guy is good to you, and your family, and you get along well with each other. That's a start! Just be yourself and continue hanging out as friends. If there ever comes a time when you feel like he might be interested in you as more than that, then take the initiative and ask him on a date. See where it goes from there.
u cant make a guy fall in love with u it just doesnt happen like that try telling him how u feel and hope he feels the same way and if he doesnt suggest being just friends u dont want somthing like that to screw up a relationship
You sound like a very sweet person, but no one can make someone love another, love is a gift, and this gift can be taken away. Just be yourself and don't push it, if it is meant to happen it will.
He considers you his best friend. If he was interested in you for a girl friend he would let you know it.
I used to wonder how I could MAKE someone love me, or GET someone to go out with me etc.
Eventually I started to understand that I had a very controlling attitude. After I stopped trying to Make, or GET people to do the things I wanted them to do, I started to feel a lot less frustrated.
You got to be yourself and be extra charming. Try hinting that you really like him alot and that you like his style and everything about him, and that it will be nice to be his gf.
You can't exacly make someone love you, but if you take the time to be better friends with him, unexpected things can happen.
start to flirt with him alot if you like him and see what happens thats kinda like me and my best freind because i likd him and i started to flirt and stuff like thta and we are almost going out but he hasn't asked me out becasue he went on vacation and he is not getting back till later and his best freinds said that he really likes me and that he talks abiut me all the time so hopes it works out with you and him hope this helps
u can't make him fall in love w u, but if he does love u, sooner or later u guys will happen.How can I make him fall in love with me.?
take your time. what happens happens. you cant make someone love you.
You can't make a person fall in love with you.
What you can do is be who you are and hope he finds that lovable.
He is hinting something...';closest thing to a girlfriend in his life';.....
First of all, you can never ';make'; someone fall in love with you! But the fact is, this guy is good to you, and your family, and you get along well with each other. That's a start! Just be yourself and continue hanging out as friends. If there ever comes a time when you feel like he might be interested in you as more than that, then take the initiative and ask him on a date. See where it goes from there.
u cant make a guy fall in love with u it just doesnt happen like that try telling him how u feel and hope he feels the same way and if he doesnt suggest being just friends u dont want somthing like that to screw up a relationship
You sound like a very sweet person, but no one can make someone love another, love is a gift, and this gift can be taken away. Just be yourself and don't push it, if it is meant to happen it will.
He considers you his best friend. If he was interested in you for a girl friend he would let you know it.
I used to wonder how I could MAKE someone love me, or GET someone to go out with me etc.
Eventually I started to understand that I had a very controlling attitude. After I stopped trying to Make, or GET people to do the things I wanted them to do, I started to feel a lot less frustrated.
You got to be yourself and be extra charming. Try hinting that you really like him alot and that you like his style and everything about him, and that it will be nice to be his gf.
You can't exacly make someone love you, but if you take the time to be better friends with him, unexpected things can happen.
start to flirt with him alot if you like him and see what happens thats kinda like me and my best freind because i likd him and i started to flirt and stuff like thta and we are almost going out but he hasn't asked me out becasue he went on vacation and he is not getting back till later and his best freinds said that he really likes me and that he talks abiut me all the time so hopes it works out with you and him hope this helps
How do I make him fall in love with me?
He's in quite a few of my classes. He's sooo hot. But thats not why i like him. He's nice to me and if I look in his eyes he'll look back in meaning. He makes me feel good and gives me shivers ... what do I do... I asked him out but he said no and now I just want him more... this is not just a phase so please don't say that.... I need soo much help I want him to love me back.. I know from soo many people that he loves me back and I can tell too but he wont do anything... I made the first move now why cant he move back? HELP!How do I make him fall in love with me?
All you can do is be yourself... It's better to be liked for who you are, than liked for someone you are not. If he really likes you, give him time... maybe he's worried about buying or spending money that he doesn't have. Perhaps he is going through some family problems or something. Patience, in the meantime have funHow do I make him fall in love with me?
u can't make someone fall in love with you.
it just happens.
make him fall in love with you the same way you make everyone else fall in love with you
Look into his eyes and brainwash him...if that doesn't work, look into his brain and eyewash him...
he likes u wait for him to respond.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
You can't force some one to love you, stop being so damn desperate.
You cant MAKE someone fall in love with you.
Be yourself, and if he doesn't love you for you, then thats not the kind of guy you want.
And if he did love you...wouldn't he have said yes?
just a thought
u makin it too easy for him.....keep him guessing...
im not even gonna read the novel you wrote there, the first line is enough, YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU. you shouldn't even try. don't change anything about yourself or act in a way that you normally wouldn't for someone else. someone will love you for you and vice versa
Well in contradiction to your question, you cant MAKE anyone love you back. Now to answer what is wrong...he is probably just scared, just keep trying and try to get him to feel more comfortable around you and become better friends with him, then you can try asking him out again.
If you made the first move, then back off some. Look busy chatting with friends or whatever. Just depends on the guy. Some guys have to feel like they are chasing you or they become uninterested.
I guess it's kind of a game. Some people are game players, some are not.
He already knows how you feel about him, so now you just have to wait. The ball's in his court. If you keep trying with him, and he doesn't respond, then you're going to come off creepy and clingy, and it's going to drive him away. Act cool about it, like you're not worried at all. Be SO CONFIDENT. Keep telling yourself, ';Well, if he doesn't want me, plenty of other guys do.'; Even if it's not true, tell yourself that, because if you have that attitude, then he'll realize that you're worth his time.
Get a lock of his hair, and burn it under a weeping willow and a full moon. Then take the ash, seal it in a jar with a mustard seed and three drops of witch hazel. Bury it in your backyard. In the morning, he will be yours.
Okay here's what you need to do. Sometime in/before/after (you pick) write him a note. Doesn't have to be long just write like, ';hey how is your day'; or ';hey do you have any homework?'; Anything to spark a conversation. He should write back to you and answer your question. Then, you can at least start by talking to him on paper, and then after a few note-passings, maybe he'll make a bigger move. Good luck!!
Myth: You can make someone fall in love you.
That's one of many true tragedies of life. You can't force someone to love you. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
And at this early stage, it's not love you're experiencing. That comes much later.
He's shy and afraid. Don't push. Be patient. Anything worth having is worth waiting for. And you CAN';T make someone fall in love with you, it has to come from within them. Just flirt with him. If he really likes you, he'll come around.
awwww!!!!! that is so sweet!! sorry.
back to business. go up to him and say ';hi'; then he will have to respond and ask him ';do you like me'; casually and then, of course, he will have to respond. if he says ';no'; then ask him ';will you ever like me?'; and if he says ';yes'; then tell him how you feel. be emotional. :)
Men HATE desperate women. You can not make him love you! But you can be nice, leave him alone.......speak, smile, but let him move at his own space. I am in the same situation but I can not force anything
you can't make someone love you ...
if he does not like you for who you are ...forget about it
when people try to make someone love them they change all their own characteristics to suit the person of intrest and yah the guy or girl may fall in love with the character you have made ,but not the real you...fall in love with someone that loves you for you..good luck
hes playing hard to get! he wants to know how much u really like him.. keep trying but make it subtle. wear cute clothes and make ur hair pretty. keep talking to him, but just small talk and always smile at him. hope that helped!
Give him space, be cool and pay attention but not stalker like attention. lol. See what he likes and become involved because if you love him there's a good way u guys are connected somehow. ;) Good luck!
Why can't you just take no for an answer? He said no, get over it. People are lying to you because they feel bad. You're desperate, obviously. Or else you wouldn't be on Yahoo! Answers talking about him.
He smiles back at you when you stare at him because he's a nice guy. You're making yourself think he likes you. Get real. Move on.
Give him space and the time to do ask you out on his own if he wants. Guys do not always like to fell pressured or fell like they cant be the man and do the asking. But as far as how to make him love you, there is no way that you can do that!!!!! it has to be him and his heart that loves you, but be yourself and give him time and space,maybe there is some reason why he cant go out with you like he has a girl or his parents willnot let him?
u cant make some one fall in love with you because if everyone had the power to do that it would be a mess but my mom goes to this store that is for people that believe in other things that we dont believe their should be one around you city umm its like candles that ';protect you'; and alot of other things like for example i have seen on tv ';movies'; that they put something under their bed or something so they would fall in love iwth you but idk if it would i really dont know alot of this but my aunt knows alot of thigs like that but she lives in houston .
in tankz giving day we went and seh made me a '; lipia'; that means like this process that will tell you wants wrong with you an everything .. i really dont like that but i thing it works becusse i always had nightmares and i couldnt sleep right and in the morning when i wake up and take a shower i could feel someone looking at me but here was nobody .. it sees that when my parents went out of the state we had to stay with my aunt and that my uncle try to rape me ..lucky me right..
he didnt ..
any ways
you should find out who does that kind of stuff
its like ojo
hope you know what ojo means because i cant make it more simple liek when someone is jealous of something and for ';protection'; they put an ege under their beds with water in a cup
umm hope this helps you
you cant make someone love you...they do or they dont...just be yourself and he will or he may not....if you ask him and he said no then just leave it alone...find another...he may have someone already...
All you can do is be yourself... It's better to be liked for who you are, than liked for someone you are not. If he really likes you, give him time... maybe he's worried about buying or spending money that he doesn't have. Perhaps he is going through some family problems or something. Patience, in the meantime have funHow do I make him fall in love with me?
u can't make someone fall in love with you.
it just happens.
make him fall in love with you the same way you make everyone else fall in love with you
Look into his eyes and brainwash him...if that doesn't work, look into his brain and eyewash him...
he likes u wait for him to respond.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?…
You can't force some one to love you, stop being so damn desperate.
You cant MAKE someone fall in love with you.
Be yourself, and if he doesn't love you for you, then thats not the kind of guy you want.
And if he did love you...wouldn't he have said yes?
just a thought
u makin it too easy for him.....keep him guessing...
im not even gonna read the novel you wrote there, the first line is enough, YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU. you shouldn't even try. don't change anything about yourself or act in a way that you normally wouldn't for someone else. someone will love you for you and vice versa
Well in contradiction to your question, you cant MAKE anyone love you back. Now to answer what is wrong...he is probably just scared, just keep trying and try to get him to feel more comfortable around you and become better friends with him, then you can try asking him out again.
If you made the first move, then back off some. Look busy chatting with friends or whatever. Just depends on the guy. Some guys have to feel like they are chasing you or they become uninterested.
I guess it's kind of a game. Some people are game players, some are not.
He already knows how you feel about him, so now you just have to wait. The ball's in his court. If you keep trying with him, and he doesn't respond, then you're going to come off creepy and clingy, and it's going to drive him away. Act cool about it, like you're not worried at all. Be SO CONFIDENT. Keep telling yourself, ';Well, if he doesn't want me, plenty of other guys do.'; Even if it's not true, tell yourself that, because if you have that attitude, then he'll realize that you're worth his time.
Get a lock of his hair, and burn it under a weeping willow and a full moon. Then take the ash, seal it in a jar with a mustard seed and three drops of witch hazel. Bury it in your backyard. In the morning, he will be yours.
Okay here's what you need to do. Sometime in/before/after (you pick) write him a note. Doesn't have to be long just write like, ';hey how is your day'; or ';hey do you have any homework?'; Anything to spark a conversation. He should write back to you and answer your question. Then, you can at least start by talking to him on paper, and then after a few note-passings, maybe he'll make a bigger move. Good luck!!
Myth: You can make someone fall in love you.
That's one of many true tragedies of life. You can't force someone to love you. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
And at this early stage, it's not love you're experiencing. That comes much later.
He's shy and afraid. Don't push. Be patient. Anything worth having is worth waiting for. And you CAN';T make someone fall in love with you, it has to come from within them. Just flirt with him. If he really likes you, he'll come around.
awwww!!!!! that is so sweet!! sorry.
back to business. go up to him and say ';hi'; then he will have to respond and ask him ';do you like me'; casually and then, of course, he will have to respond. if he says ';no'; then ask him ';will you ever like me?'; and if he says ';yes'; then tell him how you feel. be emotional. :)
Men HATE desperate women. You can not make him love you! But you can be nice, leave him alone.......speak, smile, but let him move at his own space. I am in the same situation but I can not force anything
you can't make someone love you ...
if he does not like you for who you are ...forget about it
when people try to make someone love them they change all their own characteristics to suit the person of intrest and yah the guy or girl may fall in love with the character you have made ,but not the real you...fall in love with someone that loves you for you..good luck
hes playing hard to get! he wants to know how much u really like him.. keep trying but make it subtle. wear cute clothes and make ur hair pretty. keep talking to him, but just small talk and always smile at him. hope that helped!
Give him space, be cool and pay attention but not stalker like attention. lol. See what he likes and become involved because if you love him there's a good way u guys are connected somehow. ;) Good luck!
Why can't you just take no for an answer? He said no, get over it. People are lying to you because they feel bad. You're desperate, obviously. Or else you wouldn't be on Yahoo! Answers talking about him.
He smiles back at you when you stare at him because he's a nice guy. You're making yourself think he likes you. Get real. Move on.
Give him space and the time to do ask you out on his own if he wants. Guys do not always like to fell pressured or fell like they cant be the man and do the asking. But as far as how to make him love you, there is no way that you can do that!!!!! it has to be him and his heart that loves you, but be yourself and give him time and space,maybe there is some reason why he cant go out with you like he has a girl or his parents willnot let him?
u cant make some one fall in love with you because if everyone had the power to do that it would be a mess but my mom goes to this store that is for people that believe in other things that we dont believe their should be one around you city umm its like candles that ';protect you'; and alot of other things like for example i have seen on tv ';movies'; that they put something under their bed or something so they would fall in love iwth you but idk if it would i really dont know alot of this but my aunt knows alot of thigs like that but she lives in houston .
in tankz giving day we went and seh made me a '; lipia'; that means like this process that will tell you wants wrong with you an everything .. i really dont like that but i thing it works becusse i always had nightmares and i couldnt sleep right and in the morning when i wake up and take a shower i could feel someone looking at me but here was nobody .. it sees that when my parents went out of the state we had to stay with my aunt and that my uncle try to rape me ..lucky me right..
he didnt ..
any ways
you should find out who does that kind of stuff
its like ojo
hope you know what ojo means because i cant make it more simple liek when someone is jealous of something and for ';protection'; they put an ege under their beds with water in a cup
umm hope this helps you
you cant make someone love you...they do or they dont...just be yourself and he will or he may not....if you ask him and he said no then just leave it alone...find another...he may have someone already...
How can i make him fall in love with me?
about a year ago i was standing infront f my collage and i found him so different than any other guy abut i didn't know him a year later after i broke up with my best friend i became a member of a new group and by chance he was one of this group i treated him so normal but after 2 or 3 meetings i found my self staring alot at him any way i found my self in love he is so gintel gute smart he is so christian and that;s one of his best qualities
his best friend is my best friend she offered her help to me and she did she made me knew alot about him and i knew that he was a broken hearted because of a girl played with him as a gameand she always come and go but after he knew about my love to him he took a desigen to forget her and when my best friend which is his bestfriend to asked him why i finly took this desigon he said he must have taken it a long time ago she asked him is thre a new love he said no and she told him that he must give him self a chance to think about me with the 2How can i make him fall in love with me?
wow....okay u cant force him to love you and unfortuneately you dont have a love potion that can make him think he loves you. lol...jk...look u really really like/love this guy and he knows. it sounds like hes kinda stuck. he knows that u like him alot and he doesnt want to hurt u but then again he sounds like he doesnt rly see u like that. especially after u yelled at him over the phone. im gunna have to say to let him go. i know u like him alot but its just getting to awkward for him and you. you cant even act yourself around him and hes giving u a tough time. and if after this long, he still cant give u a straightup answer on if he likes u or not...then hes not worth waiting for. maybe ignore him for a bit....just dont rly talk to him...i mean dont be rude and snobby about it, just wen u see him smile, dont talk to him unless he talks to you first, stop trying to get ur friend to hook yall up, try not staring at him for hours at a time during these meetings. just give him the general idea that youve stopped liking him. youll have to do this for maybe a month, then he might open up to you a bit and yall can become better friends.How can i make him fall in love with me?
You can't make someone fall in love with you.
sorry but you cant make anyone fall in love with someone
contact a voodoo witch doctor
you can't make anybody fall in love with you. the best thing you can do is be yourself, be truthful with the person you want to love you and hope that they feel the same way
Wow, the public school system has failed another...so sad. Is there a question somewhere in there?
You can't make anyone fall in love with you.
Just be yourself,if it's meant to be it will happen.
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You cant make someone fall in love with you, it has to just happen.
You can't make anyone fall in love with you.
you cant make someone love you hun. as nice as that sounds, but dont talk through your friend. your not a child. go talk to him your self. ask him to hang out
Men are not pets!!!
You can't just offer him a treat or scratch his belly or give him a new toy and have him fall in love with you. He has to choose to do so and you can't affect that choice. If you're so into the fact that he's Christian, you should know that god can't make someone love him. So how could a human ever do it?
There is no way to ';make'; someone fall in love with you. You need to be a little more mature about this. Just talk to the guy, and see if you have things in common and if you ';click';. Stop worrying about all the other he-said/she-said BS.
Take it slow and easy - broken hearts take time to mend and trust again.
good luck
There is no way for you to make someone fall in love with you
sorry, you can't make him fall in love with you, but the closest thing to that question, is to be friendly to him, nice to him, BUT, remember to be careful with your activities and movements with him, he's a on a recovery mode right now, this means that he's just starting to get over it, why don't you give him some time, and be friends with him, the best thing to do...
Me personally I dont think you can make someone fall in love with you...it takes time..love is a big step in a relationship and you said he has been heart broken once b4 so he's going to need time especially when he's a christian man
you cant make that happen but you have to cast a love spell on him
First of all you can't make him fall in love with you. All you can do is try being a friend and letting him see you as you truly are. Spending time together will let you both know if there is something between you. When the time is right you will feel it. Let him know how you feel and let him make up his mind if he feels the same way.
Okay one, you need to work on your spelling, no periods or anything, damn take an english class or something. Two, you can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you. If he wants to be with you he'll show you. He's obviously going through a hard time from what that girl did to him. He'll come to you if he wants you since he already knows your feelings, give him a little time.
First change Your avatar,secondly think with reason and don't be confused.
you cannot make anyone fall in love with anyone. it just happens. so what you can do is stop acting crazy when you are aruond him. and prove him wrong about thinking that you are in the group only to be beside him unless that IS the reason. be yourself, and if that isnt enough for him, then maybe it simply isnt meant to happen...he doesnt know what he is missing
move on, time to do do something else, meet someone else, you cannot force love!
frist go and be just his friend then try to were his fav colour dresses and proporse him
his best friend is my best friend she offered her help to me and she did she made me knew alot about him and i knew that he was a broken hearted because of a girl played with him as a gameand she always come and go but after he knew about my love to him he took a desigen to forget her and when my best friend which is his bestfriend to asked him why i finly took this desigon he said he must have taken it a long time ago she asked him is thre a new love he said no and she told him that he must give him self a chance to think about me with the 2How can i make him fall in love with me?
wow....okay u cant force him to love you and unfortuneately you dont have a love potion that can make him think he loves you. lol...jk...look u really really like/love this guy and he knows. it sounds like hes kinda stuck. he knows that u like him alot and he doesnt want to hurt u but then again he sounds like he doesnt rly see u like that. especially after u yelled at him over the phone. im gunna have to say to let him go. i know u like him alot but its just getting to awkward for him and you. you cant even act yourself around him and hes giving u a tough time. and if after this long, he still cant give u a straightup answer on if he likes u or not...then hes not worth waiting for. maybe ignore him for a bit....just dont rly talk to him...i mean dont be rude and snobby about it, just wen u see him smile, dont talk to him unless he talks to you first, stop trying to get ur friend to hook yall up, try not staring at him for hours at a time during these meetings. just give him the general idea that youve stopped liking him. youll have to do this for maybe a month, then he might open up to you a bit and yall can become better friends.How can i make him fall in love with me?
You can't make someone fall in love with you.
sorry but you cant make anyone fall in love with someone
contact a voodoo witch doctor
you can't make anybody fall in love with you. the best thing you can do is be yourself, be truthful with the person you want to love you and hope that they feel the same way
Wow, the public school system has failed another...so sad. Is there a question somewhere in there?
You can't make anyone fall in love with you.
Just be yourself,if it's meant to be it will happen.
Would you mind answering this?
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Please read all the details.
You cant make someone fall in love with you, it has to just happen.
You can't make anyone fall in love with you.
you cant make someone love you hun. as nice as that sounds, but dont talk through your friend. your not a child. go talk to him your self. ask him to hang out
Men are not pets!!!
You can't just offer him a treat or scratch his belly or give him a new toy and have him fall in love with you. He has to choose to do so and you can't affect that choice. If you're so into the fact that he's Christian, you should know that god can't make someone love him. So how could a human ever do it?
There is no way to ';make'; someone fall in love with you. You need to be a little more mature about this. Just talk to the guy, and see if you have things in common and if you ';click';. Stop worrying about all the other he-said/she-said BS.
Take it slow and easy - broken hearts take time to mend and trust again.
good luck
There is no way for you to make someone fall in love with you
sorry, you can't make him fall in love with you, but the closest thing to that question, is to be friendly to him, nice to him, BUT, remember to be careful with your activities and movements with him, he's a on a recovery mode right now, this means that he's just starting to get over it, why don't you give him some time, and be friends with him, the best thing to do...
Me personally I dont think you can make someone fall in love with you...it takes time..love is a big step in a relationship and you said he has been heart broken once b4 so he's going to need time especially when he's a christian man
you cant make that happen but you have to cast a love spell on him
First of all you can't make him fall in love with you. All you can do is try being a friend and letting him see you as you truly are. Spending time together will let you both know if there is something between you. When the time is right you will feel it. Let him know how you feel and let him make up his mind if he feels the same way.
Okay one, you need to work on your spelling, no periods or anything, damn take an english class or something. Two, you can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you. If he wants to be with you he'll show you. He's obviously going through a hard time from what that girl did to him. He'll come to you if he wants you since he already knows your feelings, give him a little time.
First change Your avatar,secondly think with reason and don't be confused.
you cannot make anyone fall in love with anyone. it just happens. so what you can do is stop acting crazy when you are aruond him. and prove him wrong about thinking that you are in the group only to be beside him unless that IS the reason. be yourself, and if that isnt enough for him, then maybe it simply isnt meant to happen...he doesnt know what he is missing
move on, time to do do something else, meet someone else, you cannot force love!
frist go and be just his friend then try to were his fav colour dresses and proporse him
How do i make him fall in love with me again ?
Right well basically i was with this boy for 4 months he randomly came out with wanting a break i was heart broken butt i did dent want a break so decided its better we aren't together because breaks just ruin things anyway. Every-time i see him or his smile or hear his name i melt.
its been 4 weeks and he wants to meet up and chat he was the first relationship i felt comfortable in my first proper love and i don't wanna loose him when we talk is there anything i can do or say to make this better ?
please help
amber xxHow do i make him fall in love with me again ?
get harry potter to cast a love spell on himHow do i make him fall in love with me again ?
well amber just stay in his heart and mind! don't be obsessive but still talk to him be there for him prove to him you really care and if that doesn't work maybe flirt iwht some other guys to see if he might get jealous if you two belong together it'll happen hope i helped!
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I didn't even read the details. But to answer your question, you can't MAKE anyone
do anything, they have free will. If he likes you as a person, what makes you uniquely
you, he could love you. If he doesn't like who you are as a person, he won't.
well maybe he wants to get back together maybe he still loves u too
That wouldnt be love if your actualy tring.....you have better chances finding a baby with wings and a bow n arrow.
contrary to the first answer, there are no love spells. however, there are spells that can put the person in a lust over someone.
Well, my 1st boyfriend was like this too. I ended up just talking to other guys and he seemed to han around me more.. i wasnt trying to make him jealous but guys get jealous really fast. After i texted him a little id make up guys and say i was talking to them, then he would always ask me if i liked them and if they liked me, well we later got back together but he moved away so we broke up for good :(
something i do to make guys jealous is wear other guys hoodies and clothes, they hate it :)
can u help me.. please :)
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He's contacted you to meet up and chat, right? He's obviously still interested in you. So keep that in mind, and let him take the lead and say what he has to say before you give anything away as to how you feel. Then you will know how he feels and can react with that knowledge to your advantage.
Don't say anything about how he broke up with you, don't over analyze everything that he says or has done in the past. Just go with the flow, follow his lead, and start over fresh, like the sun rising over a meadow filled with wild flowers and kissed with morning dew. (Sorry, I got carried away!)
You can do this Amber, good luck.
You can't actually MAKE somebody fall in love with you. It has to be the a mutual feeling. Tell him how you feel, or just flirt. Make contact, and hug him when you see him. Text and call him often. You don't have to tell him that you still have feelings until you two are good friends again. Otherwise, he might think that your going on too strong, plus it's extremely difficult to tell somebody that you have feelings for them, especially in this situation. I hope this helped, and good luck!
its been 4 weeks and he wants to meet up and chat he was the first relationship i felt comfortable in my first proper love and i don't wanna loose him when we talk is there anything i can do or say to make this better ?
please help
amber xxHow do i make him fall in love with me again ?
get harry potter to cast a love spell on himHow do i make him fall in love with me again ?
well amber just stay in his heart and mind! don't be obsessive but still talk to him be there for him prove to him you really care and if that doesn't work maybe flirt iwht some other guys to see if he might get jealous if you two belong together it'll happen hope i helped!
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I didn't even read the details. But to answer your question, you can't MAKE anyone
do anything, they have free will. If he likes you as a person, what makes you uniquely
you, he could love you. If he doesn't like who you are as a person, he won't.
well maybe he wants to get back together maybe he still loves u too
That wouldnt be love if your actualy tring.....you have better chances finding a baby with wings and a bow n arrow.
contrary to the first answer, there are no love spells. however, there are spells that can put the person in a lust over someone.
Well, my 1st boyfriend was like this too. I ended up just talking to other guys and he seemed to han around me more.. i wasnt trying to make him jealous but guys get jealous really fast. After i texted him a little id make up guys and say i was talking to them, then he would always ask me if i liked them and if they liked me, well we later got back together but he moved away so we broke up for good :(
something i do to make guys jealous is wear other guys hoodies and clothes, they hate it :)
can u help me.. please :)
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He's contacted you to meet up and chat, right? He's obviously still interested in you. So keep that in mind, and let him take the lead and say what he has to say before you give anything away as to how you feel. Then you will know how he feels and can react with that knowledge to your advantage.
Don't say anything about how he broke up with you, don't over analyze everything that he says or has done in the past. Just go with the flow, follow his lead, and start over fresh, like the sun rising over a meadow filled with wild flowers and kissed with morning dew. (Sorry, I got carried away!)
You can do this Amber, good luck.
You can't actually MAKE somebody fall in love with you. It has to be the a mutual feeling. Tell him how you feel, or just flirt. Make contact, and hug him when you see him. Text and call him often. You don't have to tell him that you still have feelings until you two are good friends again. Otherwise, he might think that your going on too strong, plus it's extremely difficult to tell somebody that you have feelings for them, especially in this situation. I hope this helped, and good luck!
How to make him fall in love with me again..?
we were more than friends before and then broke up because of misunderstandings...i know that he still love me but afraid of what will happen again but i love him so so so much..give me some quotes on this situation...advices also...thank you...How to make him fall in love with me again..?
you cant make someone love you!How to make him fall in love with me again..?
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You can't make some-one fall in love with you. You can't make some-one do any-thing. If your feelings for him are that strong, and it's not confused with infactuation, then these need to be voiced, even if you don't like his answers, you'd hate it even more if you said nothing. This way if he doesn't feel the same then you can move on. If he does, he may just need to hear it from you first... Good luck.Will giving my 6 week old make sure a college coach
you cant make someone love you!How to make him fall in love with me again..?
';women use sex to get love';.... try sex...
You can't make some-one fall in love with you. You can't make some-one do any-thing. If your feelings for him are that strong, and it's not confused with infactuation, then these need to be voiced, even if you don't like his answers, you'd hate it even more if you said nothing. This way if he doesn't feel the same then you can move on. If he does, he may just need to hear it from you first... Good luck.
How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
My father in law is of the Christian faith and so am I
but the hole time I was dating my wife he would tell her
things like I'm not the man that god ment for her to
be with and he knows this because God told him so
so one night he ask her to take a ride with him and
i couldn't come along he said so they went off for about 3 hours
when she came back to me she told me to go home because she couldn't
marrey me because off of things that her dad had told her about me
but he didn't know me at all I had never seen the man more then and few hours
at that time in my life so how could he say all these bad things
baout me when he didn't even know me at so i was from la and my wife was from ky
she told me to go. i was very upset I felt that i did nothing wrong other then falling in love
with her.but when i told her if i go i don't want so much as a letter or a phone call from you. then she started
crying and told me she was only do what her that family wanted her to do because her dad had
Manipulate in to thinking that god would turn his back on her if she married me because it's not what god
wanted for her.he would keep telling her that she had a better destiny and if married she would be doomed if she married
and evertime we would have a special moments like our first kiss or first dance they would kill the moment by calling her
up and telling all these things about god they had her under so much confusion in fact to days befor we got married my brother in law sent her a text message that said give me one more shot to talk you out of it.marrying this guy.
but they didn't know we were getting married we just ran off and did it and me and her are not kids are anything like that
I am 26 and she 27 at the time...but they act like I should be begging them for forgiveness becuse we ran off and got married and didn't tell anyone and it makes me just want to hit her father mean i never would but thats the way i feel. i think my wife sometimes thinks that our marriage is doom because of all she had let her family put me threw but i still
love her very much she fears as we are getting ready to have kids that they will try to kill this special time for me as
well..i just trying to know what i should do with thses people. how can i ever trust them around my kids when i know what they have told my wife?
銆€How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
you married into ONE CRAZY FAMILY.
if she is stupid enough to think that GOD actually talks to her dad and that loving GOD would doom anyone or anything then you should take her to therapy or something. ( a priest might work too )
move to another city or something. get away from crazy talkHow do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
Hmmm the most important thing is to reassure your wife. This has to be done whether you have kids or not. I think first you need to speak to a priest and explain your problem. Then you can speak the three of you and he can reassure her that god does not think your marriage is doomed etc. Finally, her father also needs to speak to a priest (preferably the same one) and/or a mental health expert (but that's another story).
The thing is, your faith should be bringing you closer to each other, not be used as a tool to destroy your lives. I don't know how religious you are, or how things work with the church where you live, but it's obviously very important for your wife, this is why I suggest you try to show her how actually god wants her to be married and happy. It's your wife you care about, not your father in law.
Finally, hard as it may be, control your temper. Just think that you want to prove to your wife how good you are for her, not that you are a bad person who wants to cut her off from her family. But at the same time, if you can reassure her and she can trust you, she will not listen to them anymore, and your kids will be happy regardless of what in-laws say. Not to mention that most in-laws soften when grandkids arrive :)
you also don't mention if you ever tried to respectfully talk to her father and ask him what bothers him about you. maybe you could convince him as well, especially if a priest also supports you.
good luck with everything!
My father in law is of the Christian faith and so am I
but the hole time I was dating my wife he would tell her
things like I'm not the man that god ment for her to
be with and he knows this because God told him so
so one night he ask her to take a ride with him and
i couldn't come along he said so they went off for about 3 hours
when she came back to me she told me to go home because she couldn't
marrey me because off of things that her dad had told her about me
but he didn't know me at all I had never seen the man more then and few hours
at that time in my life so how could he say all these bad things
baout me when he didn't even know me at so i was from la and my wife was from ky
she told me to go. i was very upset I felt that i did nothing wrong other then falling in love
with her.but when i told her if i go i don't want so much as a letter or a phone call from you. then she started
crying and told me she was only do what her that family wanted her to do because her dad had
Manipulate in to thinking that god would turn his back on her if she married me because it's not what god
wanted for her.he would keep telling her that she had a better destiny and if married she would be doomed if she married
and evertime we would have a special moments like our first kiss or first dance they would kill the moment by calling her
up and telling all these things about god they had her under so much confusion in fact to days befor we got married my brother in law sent her a text message that said give me one more shot to talk you out of it.marrying this guy.
but they didn't know we were getting married we just ran off and did it and me and her are not kids are anything like that
I am 26 and she 27 at the time...but they act like I should be begging them for forgiveness becuse we ran off and got married and didn't tell anyone and it makes me just want to hit her father mean i never would but thats the way i feel. i think my wife sometimes thinks that our marriage is doom because of all she had let her family put me threw but i still
love her very much she fears as we are getting ready to have kids that they will try to kill this special time for me as
well..i just trying to know what i should do with thses people. how can i ever trust them around my kids when i know what they have told my wife?
銆€How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
you married into ONE CRAZY FAMILY.
if she is stupid enough to think that GOD actually talks to her dad and that loving GOD would doom anyone or anything then you should take her to therapy or something. ( a priest might work too )
move to another city or something. get away from crazy talkHow do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
Hmmm the most important thing is to reassure your wife. This has to be done whether you have kids or not. I think first you need to speak to a priest and explain your problem. Then you can speak the three of you and he can reassure her that god does not think your marriage is doomed etc. Finally, her father also needs to speak to a priest (preferably the same one) and/or a mental health expert (but that's another story).
The thing is, your faith should be bringing you closer to each other, not be used as a tool to destroy your lives. I don't know how religious you are, or how things work with the church where you live, but it's obviously very important for your wife, this is why I suggest you try to show her how actually god wants her to be married and happy. It's your wife you care about, not your father in law.
Finally, hard as it may be, control your temper. Just think that you want to prove to your wife how good you are for her, not that you are a bad person who wants to cut her off from her family. But at the same time, if you can reassure her and she can trust you, she will not listen to them anymore, and your kids will be happy regardless of what in-laws say. Not to mention that most in-laws soften when grandkids arrive :)
you also don't mention if you ever tried to respectfully talk to her father and ask him what bothers him about you. maybe you could convince him as well, especially if a priest also supports you.
good luck with everything!
How can I make him fall in love with me again?!?
Ok heres the story: It was a bad break up. He said I had no time for him but that was because I was graduating. And now I have all the time in the world for him. And I quit my part time job as a dance teacher just to make more time for him. I still love him and we've been together for about a year and a half. He said that if I give him the same feelings as I did to him at the beginning of the relationship then he will come back to me.
How can I do that?How can I make him fall in love with me again?!?
First of all, your basing your life around a guy who is thinking ONLY of himself. You just graduated from school, he should have been more supportive than a cry baby. You quit your job (BAD MOVE) and still he's bitching. Mama, let me tell you something coming from a guy, you can NOT make a guy fall in love with you just like a guy can't make a girl do the same. It's a feeling felt so deep inside that when it explodes time seems to fly by, nothing else matters and the only thing more important than breathing is you. Get you job back first of all and never never EVER do that again for some guy. Second, don't chase him because if he knew better, he would've known that an educated woman is better than 2 dumb b*tches in the bed.
Here's another tip for ALL you ladies out there, ALWAYS have enough money saved up in case you ever have to leave a man because the worst thing is a woman having to and wanting to leave and not being able to afford to.
So hun, yes, time was invested in your relationship, but if he didn't care about you enough to support your goals and dreams and to wait it out a little longer, than he isn't worth it. He's being selfish, but don't tell him that. He'll either deny it or you would have just given him to answer he needs just so that he can say I'm sorry after you've told him of course that you were through with his cry baby attittude.How can I make him fall in love with me again?!?
He doesn't sound like a guy you would want to spend that much energy on. Look at how manipulative he is: you quit your job for him! He puts conditions on your behavior and specifies which feelings you're supposed to have to make him like you! I'm afraid you could keep giving up work and activities for him, keep modifying your feelings to please him, and it still wouldn't be enough. He gets a kick out of bossing you around. You can do better than him! Go back to the jobs and activities you love, and hold out for a guy who likes you for being independent and involved!
Try talking to him about it. Tell him you feel the same way about him as you did before and explain to him that you have all the time in the world now to be with him. Just ask him for a second chance.. Good luck
How can I do that?How can I make him fall in love with me again?!?
First of all, your basing your life around a guy who is thinking ONLY of himself. You just graduated from school, he should have been more supportive than a cry baby. You quit your job (BAD MOVE) and still he's bitching. Mama, let me tell you something coming from a guy, you can NOT make a guy fall in love with you just like a guy can't make a girl do the same. It's a feeling felt so deep inside that when it explodes time seems to fly by, nothing else matters and the only thing more important than breathing is you. Get you job back first of all and never never EVER do that again for some guy. Second, don't chase him because if he knew better, he would've known that an educated woman is better than 2 dumb b*tches in the bed.
Here's another tip for ALL you ladies out there, ALWAYS have enough money saved up in case you ever have to leave a man because the worst thing is a woman having to and wanting to leave and not being able to afford to.
So hun, yes, time was invested in your relationship, but if he didn't care about you enough to support your goals and dreams and to wait it out a little longer, than he isn't worth it. He's being selfish, but don't tell him that. He'll either deny it or you would have just given him to answer he needs just so that he can say I'm sorry after you've told him of course that you were through with his cry baby attittude.How can I make him fall in love with me again?!?
He doesn't sound like a guy you would want to spend that much energy on. Look at how manipulative he is: you quit your job for him! He puts conditions on your behavior and specifies which feelings you're supposed to have to make him like you! I'm afraid you could keep giving up work and activities for him, keep modifying your feelings to please him, and it still wouldn't be enough. He gets a kick out of bossing you around. You can do better than him! Go back to the jobs and activities you love, and hold out for a guy who likes you for being independent and involved!
Try talking to him about it. Tell him you feel the same way about him as you did before and explain to him that you have all the time in the world now to be with him. Just ask him for a second chance.. Good luck
How to make him fall in love?
so theres dating..and then theres L word. Ive never got that far because i either dump them b4 that because i wasnt interested, there was no chemistry or we had nothing in common...or they wernt the commitment type of guys..whom i tend to attact.
im not really asking how to make a guy fall in love with me..because thats really not possible to answer correctly...what i want to know is...guys what makes you fall in love with a girl%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;?? give us the inside scoop all you romeo's out there!!!!!
and serious answers only please,,,!How to make him fall in love?
Im not a guy but
-Confidence. Don't be shy!
-Always starting a convosation
-Laugh at all his jokes. Even if there not funny, it looks like your interested.
-Smile! Catch his eye and smile
-Fling your hair, Bite your lip
-Things in common with the man.
-Touch him, give him a hug. As i said, confidence.
-Be gentle with him
-Be yourself!!!!!!
:)
im not really asking how to make a guy fall in love with me..because thats really not possible to answer correctly...what i want to know is...guys what makes you fall in love with a girl%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;?? give us the inside scoop all you romeo's out there!!!!!
and serious answers only please,,,!How to make him fall in love?
Im not a guy but
-Confidence. Don't be shy!
-Always starting a convosation
-Laugh at all his jokes. Even if there not funny, it looks like your interested.
-Smile! Catch his eye and smile
-Fling your hair, Bite your lip
-Things in common with the man.
-Touch him, give him a hug. As i said, confidence.
-Be gentle with him
-Be yourself!!!!!!
:)
How do I make him fall in love with me?
So there's this guy and I'm completely, utterly, unmistakably infatuated with him. I liked him more than I've ever liked any guy...EVER. He's goofy, mysterious, guitar-playing, moody, the whole package. I'd say we're at friends level but not super close. He usually ignores me or spits out sarcastic comments. We've talked a few times but he never seemed too interested. (I know for a fact he doesn't have a girlfriend or love interest.)
Now the problem is, that because I work at Hollister he thinks I'm a vapid, superficial, airhead. Which is not true at all, but because I like him so much I tend to give off ditzy/goofball vibes when I'm around him out of shyness.
How can I show him that I really am smart and witty, and make myself completely irresistible to him? I don't know how to be witty around him because all my thoughts just go out the window everytime he's around. I want to be the girl of his dreams.
Should I learn guitar? Re-do my look? Create a new image? What can I do?How do I make him fall in love with me?
First off, the way you talk around him probably adds to the way he thinks of you. But since there's nothing you can do about that...
There's no secret to making someone fall in love with you. Trust me, if there was, no one would even be in this section. The only thing is to just try to get him to like you as you are, without changing yourself into something you're not. If you're so sure that he's the one for you, then you wouldn't have to change your image, personality, outlook, etc. I think that learning guitar was an interesting comment though. It could help, maybe...maybe.
And um...If you want him to not think of you as a superficial airhead, stop being so shy. Yeah, it sounds harder than it is, but all you have to do is whatever you would normal if he wasn't around. If you can't get someone to like you as you are then they're not worth the effort. Unfortunately...sigh...
Anyway, good luck and i hope it works out for you in the end.
Now the problem is, that because I work at Hollister he thinks I'm a vapid, superficial, airhead. Which is not true at all, but because I like him so much I tend to give off ditzy/goofball vibes when I'm around him out of shyness.
How can I show him that I really am smart and witty, and make myself completely irresistible to him? I don't know how to be witty around him because all my thoughts just go out the window everytime he's around. I want to be the girl of his dreams.
Should I learn guitar? Re-do my look? Create a new image? What can I do?How do I make him fall in love with me?
First off, the way you talk around him probably adds to the way he thinks of you. But since there's nothing you can do about that...
There's no secret to making someone fall in love with you. Trust me, if there was, no one would even be in this section. The only thing is to just try to get him to like you as you are, without changing yourself into something you're not. If you're so sure that he's the one for you, then you wouldn't have to change your image, personality, outlook, etc. I think that learning guitar was an interesting comment though. It could help, maybe...maybe.
And um...If you want him to not think of you as a superficial airhead, stop being so shy. Yeah, it sounds harder than it is, but all you have to do is whatever you would normal if he wasn't around. If you can't get someone to like you as you are then they're not worth the effort. Unfortunately...sigh...
Anyway, good luck and i hope it works out for you in the end.
How to make him fall in love?
okay. so my boyfriend broke up with me but now were back together..and he doesnt seem like hes still into me. what do i do to make him fall really hard??How to make him fall in love?
You can't make anybody feel anything.How to make him fall in love?
you cant force love on someone - if he doesnt feel it off his own back then you cant make him love you - just be yourself - if thats not good enough for him then hes not the guy for you
xx
you shouldn't have to try to make someone love you, i know from experience. :(
be yourself, and if he doesn't like you then it's his own damn fault.
nothing ... you can't really make any one fall and if they do they eventually get back up and it doesn't ever really work out
You can't force someone to fall in love with you.
Just be really cute.
Like laugh at his jokes and be really sweet.
ignore that the best theory if u let him now how much crazy u r 4 him he'll do everything to make u prove it n if u ignore he'll get closer to you don't let guys know everything that's on your heart as they tend to take advantage on the same
you cannot force anyone to love you.If he will want he will come back to you without you expecting this.
SWALLOW.
Just try to make things the way they were before and if you can't do that then try to make it as close as possible. Show him that you want him to love you, you can't force it, but you can try your best to get it there.
When you first start dating people your a complete diff person when it ends. Try being the way you were when you and him first started dating. When you first start dating someone you usually care about your appearance more and when you date for awhile you gain bad habits. I had the SAME exact problem and it worked for me.how does a toner video tape works girly myspace
You can't make anybody feel anything.How to make him fall in love?
you cant force love on someone - if he doesnt feel it off his own back then you cant make him love you - just be yourself - if thats not good enough for him then hes not the guy for you
xx
you shouldn't have to try to make someone love you, i know from experience. :(
be yourself, and if he doesn't like you then it's his own damn fault.
nothing ... you can't really make any one fall and if they do they eventually get back up and it doesn't ever really work out
You can't force someone to fall in love with you.
Just be really cute.
Like laugh at his jokes and be really sweet.
ignore that the best theory if u let him now how much crazy u r 4 him he'll do everything to make u prove it n if u ignore he'll get closer to you don't let guys know everything that's on your heart as they tend to take advantage on the same
you cannot force anyone to love you.If he will want he will come back to you without you expecting this.
SWALLOW.
Just try to make things the way they were before and if you can't do that then try to make it as close as possible. Show him that you want him to love you, you can't force it, but you can try your best to get it there.
When you first start dating people your a complete diff person when it ends. Try being the way you were when you and him first started dating. When you first start dating someone you usually care about your appearance more and when you date for awhile you gain bad habits. I had the SAME exact problem and it worked for me.
How to make him fall in love?
Does anyone know any potions that would make michael phelps fall in love with meHow to make him fall in love?
try this, and if it fails there's always rohypnol :)How to make him fall in love?
just be ur self ,fall in love not by plannig its came natural so just act natural and if it happend will be true love if not move on found ur sole mate :)
try this, and if it fails there's always rohypnol :)How to make him fall in love?
just be ur self ,fall in love not by plannig its came natural so just act natural and if it happend will be true love if not move on found ur sole mate :)
How can i make him fall in love with me?
Im in love with this guy but how can i get him to feel the same? how can i make him like me when we meet and catch his eye?How can i make him fall in love with me?
you cant make someone fall in love with you. just be your selfHow can i make him fall in love with me?
VOODOO
you cant make a guy fall in love with you trust me i tryed that
If your trying to catch his eye, its not love yet. But smile at him, that ussually makes our day, and makes us curious.
you cant...it's called free will...
You can not make someone fall in love with you.
Think of it this way: Would you want someone to make you fall in love with them? Or would you prefer to fall in love with someone naturally?
You can't. Why would you want to MAKE someone feel something that they wouldnt otherwise be genuine?
If he's someone that's meant to be worth your time (at this point in your lifetime) then, he'll be eventually.
If you're friends and hang out quite alot, going out together alot more could make it easier for you to see if hes just good at hiding his feelings, if its worth attempting to flirt anyway or if you should just go back to fishing!
For now, just enjoy where you're at and the thrills of finding out (if you dare!).
you cant make someone fall in love with you. just be your selfHow can i make him fall in love with me?
VOODOO
you cant make a guy fall in love with you trust me i tryed that
If your trying to catch his eye, its not love yet. But smile at him, that ussually makes our day, and makes us curious.
you cant...it's called free will...
You can not make someone fall in love with you.
Think of it this way: Would you want someone to make you fall in love with them? Or would you prefer to fall in love with someone naturally?
You can't. Why would you want to MAKE someone feel something that they wouldnt otherwise be genuine?
If he's someone that's meant to be worth your time (at this point in your lifetime) then, he'll be eventually.
If you're friends and hang out quite alot, going out together alot more could make it easier for you to see if hes just good at hiding his feelings, if its worth attempting to flirt anyway or if you should just go back to fishing!
For now, just enjoy where you're at and the thrills of finding out (if you dare!).
How do I make him fall in love with me again?
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and two months. We have a very serious relationship and basically live together. Our families also get along very well. We have been talking about marriage and our future plans together. I am finishing university in a month and he is in his second year of graduate studies. We are planning to move in together in September. Yesterday we got in a fight and afterwards he told me that he loves me,and that his love for me is becoming stronger everyday but that he is not in love with me anymore. What should I do do make him fall in love again?How do I make him fall in love with me again?
I've been married 27 years. I love my husband, %26amp; he loves me. But that first attraction, falling in love, mad infatuation bit comes %26amp; goes. It's wonderful when it springs back, but it takes some effort. I go out of my way to surprise him by showing up at his job just in time for lunch and we go out to lunch together, and it's fun. He surprises me by showing up where I work with my dog, and we spend my lunch break together. Instead of staying in with the television on an evening, one or the other of us will suggest going to a park to feed bread to the geese. Just simple things, but it's the shaking up of the routine, and spending time in places where we aren't having external entertainment, but being given the opportunity to really look at eachother, share some laughter, and enjoy eachother's company, that keeps the love alive. It gives us the opportunity to appreciate one another. Ruts are easy to fall into, and get comfortable in. But the longer you stay in a rut, the deeper it gets. And it can get hard to climb out of one after too long. Get out there with him and start enjoying eachother again!How do I make him fall in love with me again?
If you think you can ';make'; someone fall in love with you, then you are not ready to be in love.
I'm confused, he told you that he loves you and its becoming stronger everyday, but he is not in love with you anymore?
You don't have to do anything to make him fall in love with you. If he really loves you, then he will love you unconditionally. If not then maybe you and him are not meant for each other. Maybe you'll find someone else who is better than him. You might not be able to accept it now, cos you've never met this someone else yet. Just move with the flow. After all you're still young. :)
If he still wants to be with you, and says he loves you and that his love is becoming stronger everyday, he is in love with you. The lust and fun exciting part is gone, but that doesn't mean hes not in love. i think he used the wrong wording.
Try doing something fun just the two of you every week. bowling, mini golf, exercising together. video games. Something fun and only talk about fun stuff. This will help bring back some fun times to your relationship.
**** him...plain and simple.!!
u can never force somone to love you, if its true, u wouldnt hace to force it.
move on.
nothing...he loves you or he doesnt....sorry...
I've been married 27 years. I love my husband, %26amp; he loves me. But that first attraction, falling in love, mad infatuation bit comes %26amp; goes. It's wonderful when it springs back, but it takes some effort. I go out of my way to surprise him by showing up at his job just in time for lunch and we go out to lunch together, and it's fun. He surprises me by showing up where I work with my dog, and we spend my lunch break together. Instead of staying in with the television on an evening, one or the other of us will suggest going to a park to feed bread to the geese. Just simple things, but it's the shaking up of the routine, and spending time in places where we aren't having external entertainment, but being given the opportunity to really look at eachother, share some laughter, and enjoy eachother's company, that keeps the love alive. It gives us the opportunity to appreciate one another. Ruts are easy to fall into, and get comfortable in. But the longer you stay in a rut, the deeper it gets. And it can get hard to climb out of one after too long. Get out there with him and start enjoying eachother again!How do I make him fall in love with me again?
If you think you can ';make'; someone fall in love with you, then you are not ready to be in love.
I'm confused, he told you that he loves you and its becoming stronger everyday, but he is not in love with you anymore?
You don't have to do anything to make him fall in love with you. If he really loves you, then he will love you unconditionally. If not then maybe you and him are not meant for each other. Maybe you'll find someone else who is better than him. You might not be able to accept it now, cos you've never met this someone else yet. Just move with the flow. After all you're still young. :)
If he still wants to be with you, and says he loves you and that his love is becoming stronger everyday, he is in love with you. The lust and fun exciting part is gone, but that doesn't mean hes not in love. i think he used the wrong wording.
Try doing something fun just the two of you every week. bowling, mini golf, exercising together. video games. Something fun and only talk about fun stuff. This will help bring back some fun times to your relationship.
**** him...plain and simple.!!
u can never force somone to love you, if its true, u wouldnt hace to force it.
move on.
nothing...he loves you or he doesnt....sorry...
How do I make him fall in love with me again?
My husband of 5 yrs asked me for a divorce on June 5th and we were debating to actually do it until yesterday he told me he doesn't want to get a divorce now. He wants to try and wait for a while and give it some time. He decided he was being to rash about it and he realized how many people he was hurting over this. He wants to drop it. I am fine with that but the only question is he does still show signs that he cares and loves me in a way but he told me he is not in love with me but will always love me. My question is how do i make him fall back in love with me? I have never dealt with this kind of thing and I am clueless where to start other then trying different things where I have my freedom and he has his freedom and we still plan to spend time together at least once a week to start over. So any suggestions. lolHow do I make him fall in love with me again?
That's a good sign that he wants to give your marriage another try. Have you guys considered marriage counseling? That will help figure out what issue's the marriage has and how to move foward. He loves you so that right there is half the battle. You guys are going to have to start all over for him to fall in love again. Going on dates is good. Trying new things is necessary. Try to spice things up in the bedroom again. Buy new outfits and get sexy with it. He's your husband so you should already feel comfortable. Do some role playing. That's a very intense kind of game. You can have him meet you some where for some drinks and when you show up try wearing a wig and your best heels and hit on him as if you were a different person.
You definitely need to do new things to make him fall back in love with you. Play a little hard to get sometimes. Don't jump to everything he wants. Men like a little fiestyness. And be confident. Confidence is definitely sexy. Have some fun with it and hopefully you guys can get that spark again. Good Luck!How do I make him fall in love with me again?
you can't make someone fall in love with you . if it is going to happen it will happen on its own.
it depends on why he wanted to divorce u from the first place can u please explain more anyway f it was for certain reasons than dont do it anymore ...
try going on a date with him.
even if your married.
Start by doing the things that you did to get him in the first place! what it took to get him is whats it takes to keep him! Good Luck!
you can't
just let things develop if they are going to work out they will and if not, move on
I'm not sure about the LOL. It's definitely not a LOL situation.
He cares about you and wants to have another go, and realistically, sometimes you can't fall back in love with someone but you can still love them. The question becomes, is that enough in a marriage.
Go back to your courtship rituals. Spend time looking good for him, making a nice meal for him, being attentive to him. We lose a lot of our carefree-ness when we've settled into a relationship, and while he needs to know that doesn't always STAY throughout an entire marriage, it doesn't hurt to have that show up once in awhile.
You're in a tough situation, but it seems he is definitely trying to think things through to give you both as much opportunity as possible to make things work.
Good luck.
First, please realize that you cannot make anyone do anything.
People will do what they decide for themselves or agree with. In your case, ';love'; is something that has to come naturally to him. You can do all sorts of ';romantic'; things, but it still comes down to him.
You know. You can lead a horse to the river but you can't make him drink? You know that saying, I'm sure.
He does love you if he wants to stay and try. Only time will tell. Give him his space and be there when he needs you.
Well, start dating again .
Remember when you used to be dating? What did you do? Dress nice, take extra time, get your hair done, go out and eat, dance, take a day trip, picnic, go swimming and lay around under a tree after just talking - even see a funny movie? I think sometimes people get wrapped up in everyday trials, problems, finances and it can be hard BUT a married couple still has to date and find some romantic time for one another.
Anyway, that is what my husband and I try to do. We are going on 5 years and still date and take little weekend trips.
I hope this helps and I wish you the very best!
Try fulfilling some of his fantasies.
No, not sexual (yet), but others such as watching or going to games with him, or just whatever he's into.
Guys need to know they are important and admired and all that stuff.
It's so true that their egos need fed on a regular basis. Not because they are jerks but for the same reason women need to feel beautiful and loved and respected.
Whatever he's into, get more involved than you ever have been before and he will start to see something new and fresh and fall in love it with it.
Well over the past 5 years the two of you must have changed some how. You need to re-capture your relationship to the way it was when the two of you fell in love. What made him fall in love with you? What made you fall in love with him? It's important to remember what attracted you to each other in the first place. Five years of seeing each other every single day can take a toll on some relationships. The space is good, but when you are together, make sure that you are enjoying the time and not arguing. If you focus on what makes you happy about him, and not what upsets you, then you will be a lot happier in the end and you two will get along much better. Your relationship is obviously worth the effort so try yyour best.
You have to start over. That means treating your relationship like it's brand new. Date each other like you did in the beginning. Make him your priority again, like he was back then. Over time, the feelings if they were genuine to begin with will return.
That's a good sign that he wants to give your marriage another try. Have you guys considered marriage counseling? That will help figure out what issue's the marriage has and how to move foward. He loves you so that right there is half the battle. You guys are going to have to start all over for him to fall in love again. Going on dates is good. Trying new things is necessary. Try to spice things up in the bedroom again. Buy new outfits and get sexy with it. He's your husband so you should already feel comfortable. Do some role playing. That's a very intense kind of game. You can have him meet you some where for some drinks and when you show up try wearing a wig and your best heels and hit on him as if you were a different person.
You definitely need to do new things to make him fall back in love with you. Play a little hard to get sometimes. Don't jump to everything he wants. Men like a little fiestyness. And be confident. Confidence is definitely sexy. Have some fun with it and hopefully you guys can get that spark again. Good Luck!How do I make him fall in love with me again?
you can't make someone fall in love with you . if it is going to happen it will happen on its own.
it depends on why he wanted to divorce u from the first place can u please explain more anyway f it was for certain reasons than dont do it anymore ...
try going on a date with him.
even if your married.
Start by doing the things that you did to get him in the first place! what it took to get him is whats it takes to keep him! Good Luck!
you can't
just let things develop if they are going to work out they will and if not, move on
I'm not sure about the LOL. It's definitely not a LOL situation.
He cares about you and wants to have another go, and realistically, sometimes you can't fall back in love with someone but you can still love them. The question becomes, is that enough in a marriage.
Go back to your courtship rituals. Spend time looking good for him, making a nice meal for him, being attentive to him. We lose a lot of our carefree-ness when we've settled into a relationship, and while he needs to know that doesn't always STAY throughout an entire marriage, it doesn't hurt to have that show up once in awhile.
You're in a tough situation, but it seems he is definitely trying to think things through to give you both as much opportunity as possible to make things work.
Good luck.
First, please realize that you cannot make anyone do anything.
People will do what they decide for themselves or agree with. In your case, ';love'; is something that has to come naturally to him. You can do all sorts of ';romantic'; things, but it still comes down to him.
You know. You can lead a horse to the river but you can't make him drink? You know that saying, I'm sure.
He does love you if he wants to stay and try. Only time will tell. Give him his space and be there when he needs you.
Well, start dating again .
Remember when you used to be dating? What did you do? Dress nice, take extra time, get your hair done, go out and eat, dance, take a day trip, picnic, go swimming and lay around under a tree after just talking - even see a funny movie? I think sometimes people get wrapped up in everyday trials, problems, finances and it can be hard BUT a married couple still has to date and find some romantic time for one another.
Anyway, that is what my husband and I try to do. We are going on 5 years and still date and take little weekend trips.
I hope this helps and I wish you the very best!
Try fulfilling some of his fantasies.
No, not sexual (yet), but others such as watching or going to games with him, or just whatever he's into.
Guys need to know they are important and admired and all that stuff.
It's so true that their egos need fed on a regular basis. Not because they are jerks but for the same reason women need to feel beautiful and loved and respected.
Whatever he's into, get more involved than you ever have been before and he will start to see something new and fresh and fall in love it with it.
Well over the past 5 years the two of you must have changed some how. You need to re-capture your relationship to the way it was when the two of you fell in love. What made him fall in love with you? What made you fall in love with him? It's important to remember what attracted you to each other in the first place. Five years of seeing each other every single day can take a toll on some relationships. The space is good, but when you are together, make sure that you are enjoying the time and not arguing. If you focus on what makes you happy about him, and not what upsets you, then you will be a lot happier in the end and you two will get along much better. Your relationship is obviously worth the effort so try yyour best.
You have to start over. That means treating your relationship like it's brand new. Date each other like you did in the beginning. Make him your priority again, like he was back then. Over time, the feelings if they were genuine to begin with will return.
Relationship advice; make him fall in love
To make it easier im plugging in names
Older brother- Tom
Younger Brother- Jerry
Me and Jerry Have been good friends since october. We had phone conversation almost everynight. We both had physical attraction but nothing more than friends ever came to mind. Then i met Tom. Me and tom hit it off perfectly we messed around and almost fell in love but he had a girlfriend and i had a boy i wanted to go out with *Bob*. So we decided to just let things get cold. But me and jerry were still good friends at this time. Me and bob went out and broke up and i kind of forgot all about tom and i guess he forgot about me. One day sparks flew between me and jerry and we ended up messing around. TOm found out and go so angry. And since then i got really messy i got into the wrong typ of crownd and had sort of a bad rep. Alot of drunken mistakes. Tom and i are on ok grounds now. Jerry and i are really good friends better than ever. Hes the type that hes so attractive he doesnt want to settle down with a girl friend right now and also hes heard about my rep. And Im like a guy friend to him and me and him are ';partners in crime';. Of course ive fallen deeply for him. And i always play around n tell him i like him and b like JK and he laughs it off or says u know you love me. And i know we would be perfect together. And today i told him how i feel over text and he didnt reply at all. and 4 hours later he texted me about nothing to do with my text earlier. I want to know how to make him fall in love. ive asked all of my friends but there answeres are common sense and i need it from some one who doesnt know us very well maybe that will help. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP!!! =[Relationship advice; make him fall in love
you can't *make* him fall in love with you.
and to be honest, you don't sound worth it. slut. sort yourself out.Relationship advice; make him fall in love
Okay we don't know what you mean when you say you want to make him fall in love but you don't want to ';make'; him fall in love. What's the diff?
I'm gonna guess your both dudes with the way you put 'best guy friend'.Don't worry I'm not against gays or there rights.
Call him and tell him your feelings. With texts you don't know his reaction but at least f your talking you can hear it in his voice his honest answer. Or do it in person just ask to speak alone and then tell him and then you could see his reaction. Because with text he might have read it,likes you too,but was to nervous to comment on it. Or maybe he doesn't and wasn't ready to tell you his feelings toward you.
lmao @ the first answer...get rid of beauty marks playing hd movies on computer
Older brother- Tom
Younger Brother- Jerry
Me and Jerry Have been good friends since october. We had phone conversation almost everynight. We both had physical attraction but nothing more than friends ever came to mind. Then i met Tom. Me and tom hit it off perfectly we messed around and almost fell in love but he had a girlfriend and i had a boy i wanted to go out with *Bob*. So we decided to just let things get cold. But me and jerry were still good friends at this time. Me and bob went out and broke up and i kind of forgot all about tom and i guess he forgot about me. One day sparks flew between me and jerry and we ended up messing around. TOm found out and go so angry. And since then i got really messy i got into the wrong typ of crownd and had sort of a bad rep. Alot of drunken mistakes. Tom and i are on ok grounds now. Jerry and i are really good friends better than ever. Hes the type that hes so attractive he doesnt want to settle down with a girl friend right now and also hes heard about my rep. And Im like a guy friend to him and me and him are ';partners in crime';. Of course ive fallen deeply for him. And i always play around n tell him i like him and b like JK and he laughs it off or says u know you love me. And i know we would be perfect together. And today i told him how i feel over text and he didnt reply at all. and 4 hours later he texted me about nothing to do with my text earlier. I want to know how to make him fall in love. ive asked all of my friends but there answeres are common sense and i need it from some one who doesnt know us very well maybe that will help. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP!!! =[Relationship advice; make him fall in love
you can't *make* him fall in love with you.
and to be honest, you don't sound worth it. slut. sort yourself out.Relationship advice; make him fall in love
Okay we don't know what you mean when you say you want to make him fall in love but you don't want to ';make'; him fall in love. What's the diff?
I'm gonna guess your both dudes with the way you put 'best guy friend'.Don't worry I'm not against gays or there rights.
Call him and tell him your feelings. With texts you don't know his reaction but at least f your talking you can hear it in his voice his honest answer. Or do it in person just ask to speak alone and then tell him and then you could see his reaction. Because with text he might have read it,likes you too,but was to nervous to comment on it. Or maybe he doesn't and wasn't ready to tell you his feelings toward you.
lmao @ the first answer...
How do i make him fall in love with me again?
Recently I went out with my friends. My boyfriend called me and I told him I was at a restaurant, when I was at my guy friends house with some girlfriends of mine, and we were all drinking. Then he called back and said well the restaurant is closed. so i said we are all at bobby's house, dont worry i'll be right home. but he said get your stuff and leave, because i lied to him. i didnt mean to lie with him, it was just cause i was drinking. im not justifying what i did, it was not really lying because i had been at the restraunt before we went to bobbys house. But now he says he fell out of love with me because he can't be in love with someone who is dishonest. by the way we have been together one year and a month or so. So now that we have made up, i still dont know what to say to him or how to act around him now that he says he doesnt love me anymore. i am just trying to be myself but i still dont know how to i make him fall in love with me again? I love him %26amp; want him to trust me.How do i make him fall in love with me again?
It's not what you want to hear, but cut your losses, and let the guy go. Trust is NUMBER ONE in a relationship, and you've broken the seal. Next time you have a relationship...keep it REAL!How do i make him fall in love with me again?
Ok First off, if he breaks up with you over something so trivial like that, he's not really in love with you...You dont fall out of love because your night was ruined and your girlfriend wasn't where she said she was. Sounds like he's insecure, and the problem is him and not you. Do yourself a favor, dont waste you time going after him...Because he'll pull that **** again...
you can't make anyone fall in love with you for 1 and 2 if he says he dont love you any more cuz of that then he never loved you to begin with. no one falls out of love overnite it takes time.
Buy him a 12 pac of beer and call him.
Trust is important in a relationship and it does not matter how big or small the matter is. For some people, once they cannot trust you, they never will and he even said that he does not love you anymore, I think that is very clear. I recommend you to apologize and move on! I understand that you are thinking that it was not such a huge issue about whether you are at the restaurant or friend's place, even for the drinking,,,,but if he really does not trust you and you cannot change that, move on!
let him go. it's not worth it. it's just a waste of time.
First of all the dude is lieing to you..
NObody can turn love on or off that just dont happen..Give it time and he will come back ..onless he had something going on and he just was waiting for you to slip even if you did or not..
It is difficult, because when we fall in love with someone we give that person our trust, and when they lie to us, we don't know what else they lied to us about. Why don't you tell him the truth? Just tell him you thought he'll be upset if he knew you were drinking with friends, that you love him, that you don't want to lose him, that you are sorry. Don't try to make excuses... If you love the guy, he probably still loves you but he is hurt and confused. Switch off the computer, go and have a heart to heart with him... He'll come round. You have been together for a year, so it must be something there worth fighting for...good luck!
I agree with the first two answers. Most probably he did not love you. That guy was using you to get what he wanted. Sorry to say that. He is not genuine. But in the future, if you care about someone you have to make them trust you. Just say it like it is. ';Honey I am at the restaurant now, but I am not sure where I am headed from them because I have some friends here with me'; Then he would have no cause to mistrust you.
Worst Case Senario...Speaking from experience, you could waste years of your life staying together. He might never completely trust you again, withholding the affection you crave, turning you into a nagging shrew until he finally dumps you for good.
It's not what you want to hear, but cut your losses, and let the guy go. Trust is NUMBER ONE in a relationship, and you've broken the seal. Next time you have a relationship...keep it REAL!How do i make him fall in love with me again?
Ok First off, if he breaks up with you over something so trivial like that, he's not really in love with you...You dont fall out of love because your night was ruined and your girlfriend wasn't where she said she was. Sounds like he's insecure, and the problem is him and not you. Do yourself a favor, dont waste you time going after him...Because he'll pull that **** again...
you can't make anyone fall in love with you for 1 and 2 if he says he dont love you any more cuz of that then he never loved you to begin with. no one falls out of love overnite it takes time.
Buy him a 12 pac of beer and call him.
Trust is important in a relationship and it does not matter how big or small the matter is. For some people, once they cannot trust you, they never will and he even said that he does not love you anymore, I think that is very clear. I recommend you to apologize and move on! I understand that you are thinking that it was not such a huge issue about whether you are at the restaurant or friend's place, even for the drinking,,,,but if he really does not trust you and you cannot change that, move on!
let him go. it's not worth it. it's just a waste of time.
First of all the dude is lieing to you..
NObody can turn love on or off that just dont happen..Give it time and he will come back ..onless he had something going on and he just was waiting for you to slip even if you did or not..
It is difficult, because when we fall in love with someone we give that person our trust, and when they lie to us, we don't know what else they lied to us about. Why don't you tell him the truth? Just tell him you thought he'll be upset if he knew you were drinking with friends, that you love him, that you don't want to lose him, that you are sorry. Don't try to make excuses... If you love the guy, he probably still loves you but he is hurt and confused. Switch off the computer, go and have a heart to heart with him... He'll come round. You have been together for a year, so it must be something there worth fighting for...good luck!
I agree with the first two answers. Most probably he did not love you. That guy was using you to get what he wanted. Sorry to say that. He is not genuine. But in the future, if you care about someone you have to make them trust you. Just say it like it is. ';Honey I am at the restaurant now, but I am not sure where I am headed from them because I have some friends here with me'; Then he would have no cause to mistrust you.
Worst Case Senario...Speaking from experience, you could waste years of your life staying together. He might never completely trust you again, withholding the affection you crave, turning you into a nagging shrew until he finally dumps you for good.
How can I make him fall in love with me?
I love him and he likes me a bit but he doesn't want a relationship right now, he said he wants to be friends. If you read my previous question you will understand better.
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What can I do to make him fall in love with me? Should I stop chasing him for a while and see if he comes after me?How can I make him fall in love with me?
You can't make him fall in love. He does that on his own. But you can be around if/when he becomes interested in more of a relationship.
Be friends, be good friends, you both will learn more about each other that way.
He's more likely to loose respect for you if ';something happens'; before he has real feelings about you.
Wait, shop around while you wait.How can I make him fall in love with me?
You can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you.
you can't make anyone do ANYTHING... unless they want to.
Least of which... LOVE YOU.
The obvious answer is you can't ';do'; anything, as you can't change another person.
show him your hooters!
You can't make someone fall in love. Just be there for him, have fun, and something might happen.
Simple answer to your question: no. You can't make anyone fall in love with you. Pull yourself together and move on.
you should try to make him kinda jelious. try dateing another guy and make sure he can see you guys together.. thats usually works
You can't MAKE someone feel something that they're not feeling at the moment. Give him time. He may have just gotten out of a bad relationship. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. :)
im in the exact same boat as you but with a girl..obviously..lol
unfortunately, there really is nothing you can do but be yourself and if he doesnt see how much you care about him and how special you are then its his loss my dear. it will take time to realize that and it will hurt, but in the end you will be better off.
You shouldn't have to ';make'; someone love you. Would it really be love if that was to happen? Tell him how you feel and be yourself. If it is ment to be it will be worth waiting for
you cant make someone love you. it is just something that happens. dont be the girl who will have sex with someone just so that maybe that guy you like will love you if you do this. You will have to be yourself and do what you think is right. This way you wont have something to look back on and regret.
sweetie, he isn't worth it
you have a lot going for you and he's only going to get in the way of what you really truly want
ok, first you get some of his toenail clippings....
lol
in the words of a now famous book... ';He's just not that into you';... he said doesnt want a relationship right now, that means you should move on... nobody finds desperation attractive, so quit chasing him.. not for a while.. quit chasing him PERIOD...
you'll find the right person, he's just not it
good luck
I really don't believe you can physically, intimately, sexually, mentally and most important EMOTIONALLY make someone fall in love with someone else. Love just happens. (But that's just my opinion). Sorry.
you could try that or as I said before, just sit down and get it all out in the open. Do you really like feeling this way? I know its easy for me to say, but I've been where your at and I've always asked myself ';why didn't i do this sooner?';
I hve d same opinion as others u cant force ne1 2 love u
n if he says he isnt ready 4 a long relationship now give him sum time just b gud frnds mite b he will come 2 u wen he realises u r d perfect match 4 him
so be patient n remember wats urs will come back 2 u n wats not will never remain long wid u!!!
Stop obsessing. If he knew what was going on I think it would freak him out a little. If he doesnt want to date you then you cant force him too. Every girl goes thru this, you just have to move on.
the simple answer is that you CANT make anybody fall in love with you and even if you could because then you would honestly know that they didnt fall in love with you on their own it was because of something that you did to make him believe that he loved you. the best thing to do is sit back and relax for a while and see what happens quit chasing him so hard, you know he doesnt want a relationship so dont try to force him into one because its only going to push him away in the end and that wont help you either. if he really does like you then hell realize that you wont wait forever and hopefully hell get some sense and do something but if he doesnt make a move or try to see what can happen then you probbly dont wanna be with him anyway.
For past relationships that I have been in I think I have learned that you can not ';make'; him fall in love with you. If he really likes you then in time it will happen.
i had experiance this before ,it just like fighting in aloseing game,if you r love him by the time the frindship will not be enogh for u you ll ask for more but he cant give u and you ll lose the fight and lose yourself and ending with broken heart
my advice for u ;leave him and avoide the pain
and stop fighting
You can't make anyone fall in love with you. And at least he's being honest and not leading you on -- ';I don't want a relationship right now'; means ';I don't want a relationship with you.'; Let him go, stop chasing him, and get on with your life. He may like you or enjoy your company, but he doesn't have feelings for you. Best to move on.
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What can I do to make him fall in love with me? Should I stop chasing him for a while and see if he comes after me?How can I make him fall in love with me?
You can't make him fall in love. He does that on his own. But you can be around if/when he becomes interested in more of a relationship.
Be friends, be good friends, you both will learn more about each other that way.
He's more likely to loose respect for you if ';something happens'; before he has real feelings about you.
Wait, shop around while you wait.How can I make him fall in love with me?
You can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you.
you can't make anyone do ANYTHING... unless they want to.
Least of which... LOVE YOU.
The obvious answer is you can't ';do'; anything, as you can't change another person.
show him your hooters!
You can't make someone fall in love. Just be there for him, have fun, and something might happen.
Simple answer to your question: no. You can't make anyone fall in love with you. Pull yourself together and move on.
you should try to make him kinda jelious. try dateing another guy and make sure he can see you guys together.. thats usually works
You can't MAKE someone feel something that they're not feeling at the moment. Give him time. He may have just gotten out of a bad relationship. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. :)
im in the exact same boat as you but with a girl..obviously..lol
unfortunately, there really is nothing you can do but be yourself and if he doesnt see how much you care about him and how special you are then its his loss my dear. it will take time to realize that and it will hurt, but in the end you will be better off.
You shouldn't have to ';make'; someone love you. Would it really be love if that was to happen? Tell him how you feel and be yourself. If it is ment to be it will be worth waiting for
you cant make someone love you. it is just something that happens. dont be the girl who will have sex with someone just so that maybe that guy you like will love you if you do this. You will have to be yourself and do what you think is right. This way you wont have something to look back on and regret.
sweetie, he isn't worth it
you have a lot going for you and he's only going to get in the way of what you really truly want
ok, first you get some of his toenail clippings....
lol
in the words of a now famous book... ';He's just not that into you';... he said doesnt want a relationship right now, that means you should move on... nobody finds desperation attractive, so quit chasing him.. not for a while.. quit chasing him PERIOD...
you'll find the right person, he's just not it
good luck
I really don't believe you can physically, intimately, sexually, mentally and most important EMOTIONALLY make someone fall in love with someone else. Love just happens. (But that's just my opinion). Sorry.
you could try that or as I said before, just sit down and get it all out in the open. Do you really like feeling this way? I know its easy for me to say, but I've been where your at and I've always asked myself ';why didn't i do this sooner?';
I hve d same opinion as others u cant force ne1 2 love u
n if he says he isnt ready 4 a long relationship now give him sum time just b gud frnds mite b he will come 2 u wen he realises u r d perfect match 4 him
so be patient n remember wats urs will come back 2 u n wats not will never remain long wid u!!!
Stop obsessing. If he knew what was going on I think it would freak him out a little. If he doesnt want to date you then you cant force him too. Every girl goes thru this, you just have to move on.
the simple answer is that you CANT make anybody fall in love with you and even if you could because then you would honestly know that they didnt fall in love with you on their own it was because of something that you did to make him believe that he loved you. the best thing to do is sit back and relax for a while and see what happens quit chasing him so hard, you know he doesnt want a relationship so dont try to force him into one because its only going to push him away in the end and that wont help you either. if he really does like you then hell realize that you wont wait forever and hopefully hell get some sense and do something but if he doesnt make a move or try to see what can happen then you probbly dont wanna be with him anyway.
For past relationships that I have been in I think I have learned that you can not ';make'; him fall in love with you. If he really likes you then in time it will happen.
i had experiance this before ,it just like fighting in aloseing game,if you r love him by the time the frindship will not be enogh for u you ll ask for more but he cant give u and you ll lose the fight and lose yourself and ending with broken heart
my advice for u ;leave him and avoide the pain
and stop fighting
You can't make anyone fall in love with you. And at least he's being honest and not leading you on -- ';I don't want a relationship right now'; means ';I don't want a relationship with you.'; Let him go, stop chasing him, and get on with your life. He may like you or enjoy your company, but he doesn't have feelings for you. Best to move on.
How can I make him fall in love with me?
I am talking with a guy that he likes me and I like him, but I want to make him really fall in love with me. How can I do this? How should I act and behave to him?How can I make him fall in love with me?
Hard to force love !!!! BUT !
I pursued my partner for almost 6 months and it took 14 months before we got together!!
The 6 months where spent talkin, so I would say your already doin da right thing. Share ideas thoughts, and see what u actually have in common. ( u may find u dont really want to be in love with u lol)
But seriously find out as much as u ca bout him and let him understand u, cant promise anythin but it worked fantastically for me !( he didn't want to be with me when we first met)
Good luck Dee xx
Hard to force love !!!! BUT !
I pursued my partner for almost 6 months and it took 14 months before we got together!!
The 6 months where spent talkin, so I would say your already doin da right thing. Share ideas thoughts, and see what u actually have in common. ( u may find u dont really want to be in love with u lol)
But seriously find out as much as u ca bout him and let him understand u, cant promise anythin but it worked fantastically for me !( he didn't want to be with me when we first met)
Good luck Dee xx
How to make him fall in love?
we talked a bout falling in live with one an other, but how do i really make him fall?
should we spent more time?
how should i be with him?
whats the right thing to do to makr him fall?
Im in a early stage in this relationship, 4 day to be exact,
what does couple do to fall in love?
How to make him fall in love?
you cant make some1 love u..its just a natural feeling that will happen by itself...
it took me 2 years to realise i lov my ex..n now am back with him..he had let me go away 2 years back as i didnt lov him..n he waited for me..
after 2 years i realise my lov for him..n here i am with him..u see u cnt make some1 lov u..it just happens when it'll happen..be patientHow to make him fall in love?
let it all out....talk about lots of things...it just has to feel right too.
don't ';make it happen';
because then it's just forced fake love, and you don't want that.
should we spent more time?
how should i be with him?
whats the right thing to do to makr him fall?
Im in a early stage in this relationship, 4 day to be exact,
what does couple do to fall in love?
How to make him fall in love?
you cant make some1 love u..its just a natural feeling that will happen by itself...
it took me 2 years to realise i lov my ex..n now am back with him..he had let me go away 2 years back as i didnt lov him..n he waited for me..
after 2 years i realise my lov for him..n here i am with him..u see u cnt make some1 lov u..it just happens when it'll happen..be patientHow to make him fall in love?
let it all out....talk about lots of things...it just has to feel right too.
don't ';make it happen';
because then it's just forced fake love, and you don't want that.
How to make him fall in love with me?
I really like this boy in college and i cant stop thinking about him..but i don't even know if he notices me..I know he doesnt like me but i do..and i want to know how to make him fall in love with me..how to become irresisstable and addict him to me..please help..How to make him fall in love with me?
You can express your feeling to him.If he likes you, it is good.If he not just forgot.( i know saying this is easy but try it out)How to make him fall in love with me?
Ya can't MAKE someone fall in love with ya, hon! They either love ya or they don't- simple as! Peace and love! Be lucky! :)
If you're not unattractive, try being in the same area as him (10ft) wearing somethin cute. He'll notice. Find out a little about him, flirt.
i jst wish we had girls lyk u in the subregion
anyway just be yourself and gety closer to him. be a frendHow do you go transferring
You can express your feeling to him.If he likes you, it is good.If he not just forgot.( i know saying this is easy but try it out)How to make him fall in love with me?
Ya can't MAKE someone fall in love with ya, hon! They either love ya or they don't- simple as! Peace and love! Be lucky! :)
If you're not unattractive, try being in the same area as him (10ft) wearing somethin cute. He'll notice. Find out a little about him, flirt.
i jst wish we had girls lyk u in the subregion
anyway just be yourself and gety closer to him. be a frend
I really good boy advice(wat can i say to make a guy fall in love with me)?
wat can i say to the guy i really love............to make him understand that i want him to ask me out..............................his ex gf had asked him out after she made out with another guy she also smokes and drinks........she was doing all this when they were dating..............and i`m afraid that he will say yes................but thing is i need 2 make him fall inlove with me by next week..............cuz thats when his ex comes back...................we r in different states and there is an age diff...........but thing is he says he LIKES me anyway..........i want him to say he loves me not likes me..............................He is an amazing guy and he has helped me through very rough times................I had a friend die and he helped me through it............................I love him a lot...........and i want him 2 feel the same way...................but idk how to get him to show his true feelings................we flirt all the time..if could plz help me........I really good boy advice(wat can i say to make a guy fall in love with me)?
Spend Time with him and Show him why he should pick you. I think that if you are straight forward with him you might get the result that you want. There is no real way to make someone fall in love with you, love is a natural thing. But if you and this guy have the right chemistry then things should work out. Try to show him that you want more from the relationship and play hard to get. Relationship is all about self-marketing, the more they think about you positively, the more likely they will start to like you.I really good boy advice(wat can i say to make a guy fall in love with me)?
It isn't what you say to him, but how you say it and what your body language tells him. Don't try to push the like into love, just be glad at this point he is still saying he likes.
You can't make someone fall in love with you. Would you rather him not love you on his own. If he loved you, then would of told you so........ Don't ever force or pressure anyone as it will only backfire.............
sorry to tell you this girl... but i don't think theres anything you can do or MAKE him do to love you. because that's entirely up to him to decide. not you! if he loves you, then he will love you. but if not, then he just won't do it no matter what. but there's nothing you can do or say for him to say he loves you, or even for him to have those feelings in the first place, since that's entirely up to him.
I understand your situation. Try and spend a lot of time with this guy, but remember, you can never make someone fall in love with you. That's his desicion and his choice. If you flirt a lot, try telling him how you feel. But, whatever happens, there is going to be hurt feelings. His ex will be hurt, the boy will be hurt, and you will be hurt. Be careful. And good luck. ;-)
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Anyways, it's nice that somebody could help you through such a rough time, but you can't force someone to love you. If you try and force things, they won't work out. Just hang out with him, flirt a bit if you are confident, and see if he flirts back. A LOT of people misunderstand flirting, what could be normal some think its flirting, make sure he's paying attention too.
I really want to help you, but its a very weird thing to say ';i need 2 make him fall inlove with me by next week';!!!
Love can't be decided or made!! It happens when it happens!
There is nothing specific to say that makes a guy fall in love with you; it depends on the person, the way you say it, and how deep you know him.
If you're already close as you said, then you shouldn't worry too much, confidence is very important to get a guy to start loving you. Oh, and don't give yourself up to him to make him love you cause this is the worst thing you could do.
All you have to do, is to tell him that you have something serious to say, and take him somewhere quiet. And then start by telling him how a great friend he has been to you, and then explain how your emotions towards him grew and evolved through all that time he's been around you. Then just say that you're really interested in him, but don't say you ';love'; him, just say you like him alot. Tell him you don't need an answer right away, and that he has the right to have time to think of it.
Then act normally, and if he's into you, he'll come say it to your face in no more than two days, but if he doesn't say anything in a week, then he likes you, but he likes also being just a friend, no more..
Good luck..
pull out every trick(charm) in the book !!!
Spend Time with him and Show him why he should pick you. I think that if you are straight forward with him you might get the result that you want. There is no real way to make someone fall in love with you, love is a natural thing. But if you and this guy have the right chemistry then things should work out. Try to show him that you want more from the relationship and play hard to get. Relationship is all about self-marketing, the more they think about you positively, the more likely they will start to like you.I really good boy advice(wat can i say to make a guy fall in love with me)?
It isn't what you say to him, but how you say it and what your body language tells him. Don't try to push the like into love, just be glad at this point he is still saying he likes.
You can't make someone fall in love with you. Would you rather him not love you on his own. If he loved you, then would of told you so........ Don't ever force or pressure anyone as it will only backfire.............
sorry to tell you this girl... but i don't think theres anything you can do or MAKE him do to love you. because that's entirely up to him to decide. not you! if he loves you, then he will love you. but if not, then he just won't do it no matter what. but there's nothing you can do or say for him to say he loves you, or even for him to have those feelings in the first place, since that's entirely up to him.
I understand your situation. Try and spend a lot of time with this guy, but remember, you can never make someone fall in love with you. That's his desicion and his choice. If you flirt a lot, try telling him how you feel. But, whatever happens, there is going to be hurt feelings. His ex will be hurt, the boy will be hurt, and you will be hurt. Be careful. And good luck. ;-)
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Anyways, it's nice that somebody could help you through such a rough time, but you can't force someone to love you. If you try and force things, they won't work out. Just hang out with him, flirt a bit if you are confident, and see if he flirts back. A LOT of people misunderstand flirting, what could be normal some think its flirting, make sure he's paying attention too.
I really want to help you, but its a very weird thing to say ';i need 2 make him fall inlove with me by next week';!!!
Love can't be decided or made!! It happens when it happens!
There is nothing specific to say that makes a guy fall in love with you; it depends on the person, the way you say it, and how deep you know him.
If you're already close as you said, then you shouldn't worry too much, confidence is very important to get a guy to start loving you. Oh, and don't give yourself up to him to make him love you cause this is the worst thing you could do.
All you have to do, is to tell him that you have something serious to say, and take him somewhere quiet. And then start by telling him how a great friend he has been to you, and then explain how your emotions towards him grew and evolved through all that time he's been around you. Then just say that you're really interested in him, but don't say you ';love'; him, just say you like him alot. Tell him you don't need an answer right away, and that he has the right to have time to think of it.
Then act normally, and if he's into you, he'll come say it to your face in no more than two days, but if he doesn't say anything in a week, then he likes you, but he likes also being just a friend, no more..
Good luck..
pull out every trick(charm) in the book !!!
This wiccan guy that likes me is trying to put a spell on me to make me fall in love with him...help??
I recently found this out because he called me one day, and ask me out. I rejected him, and he was like ';I'll soon have you, wether you like it or not babe.'; And I was like..';ya, okay. sure, whatever. And how are you gonna do that?'; And he says, ';I'll cast a spell on you.'; And then hung up.
WHAT THE HELL? He like..constantly sends me I.M's and stuff. How can I tell him that what he believes in, is fake, and won't work at all??This wiccan guy that likes me is trying to put a spell on me to make me fall in love with him...help??
See if his magic mumbo-jumbo can protect him from mace.This wiccan guy that likes me is trying to put a spell on me to make me fall in love with him...help??
Don't tell him, let him keep on dreaming. If he is so convinced it's not going to work but you are convinced it's not you might aswell let him do whatever he wants...since you believe it's not going to work.
You don't have to tell him... Just ignore him.
God bless you !
A restraining order has a way of getting a guy's attention.
Sounds like a jerk. Tell him you're getting a restraining order.
I believe in spells, but above all I believe in free will I'm sure he'll find that out when it doesn't work. As far as IMing you, I'm sure what ever you're using has an ignore feature.
No more fake than you beliefs hun.
Ignore the I.M.S. and stuff,he sounds like a stalker.There is no magic and no such thing as a spell.He is sick and deluded get away from him.
Don't buy what he is saying. You know it's fake right? Then why bother?
TC
It sounds to me like you're already hooked...
He's got you chatting online about him and everything...
Somehow he even got your phone number...
He's a very powerful one!
He's playing at being Wiccan, no real Wiccan would act like that. Pretend the love spell worked, go up to him all doe-eyed then knee him in the fork and tell him to stop being an idiot, remind him that Wicca is a religion not a toy.
No love spell will work if he has such an attitude, so you might as well tell him to go away.
He, or you, is lying about him being Wiccan, or he's a crappy Wiccan and not worth your time.
Wicca isn't about spells. Anyone who says it is is a poseur or an idiot.
No such thing as spells and curses, but he can put a suggestion in your mind and it's up to you to not let it take over your life. Like being on Y%26amp;A asking this question, you have already giving him power over your life.
You need to ignore this stalker, and cut off all communications if you really don't like him.
Goodluck!
I would suspect he's just pulling a ';psyop';: (psychological
operation)...to coin a military phrase.
Your only posted ';proof'; of his religious affiliation is his
comment, You've hardly indicated that he's wearing symbolic
jewlery, or that you've had enough of a converstion with him
to find out anything about his behaviours...or mode of dress.
It reads like he's another male with some over-stimulated
testosterone. That's part of the reason puberty (and teen
years) tend to be regarded as a ';disaster'; by most who've
survived them.
I would suppose you've already had a little visit with your
parents about all this. If not...maybe you should.
Wiccan? Hah! He's a fake - at most he's trying to scare you - not what could be described as the most romantic approach... He certainly has no clue about wicca. Wiccans believe that coercive magic is unethical. Their ';golden rule'; is ';An it Harm None, Do what thou wilt'; subverting someone else's will or trying to make them love you is near enough to rape to be considered a violation of that rule. Also there is the Threefold Law to consider, many Wicca think that whatever you send out will return to you three times... if he IS Wicca and is really attempting to cast a spell on you you can remind him the next time that he will be someone else's unwilling ';love slave'; - 3 times - if he keeps trying to cast this... Either way he's a silly twit - and you can ignore his pathetic ';magical'; threats.
Be careful though... just in case he escalates to more serious nut-bar/psycho type behavior. Maybe that restraining order is a good idea.
If he really is Wiccan, he would know better. As for fake, many believe that about the book religions. A rule we have is NEVER force your will on others. It either won't work or it will backfire. Wicca is 90% spirituality and connection with one's Deities. Magic and spells are secondary or none existant depending on the practitioner.
He sounds more like a stalker and you should nip it in the bud.
His behaviour really does go against Wiccan ethics, and it is likely that he doesn't know a thing about Wicca. Probably hasn't even picked up one Wiccan book...
I recommend talking to your parents and getting them to talk to this guy's parents. If this guy's parents discussed this with their son, guaranteed he would be humiliated enough to stop. And, if he doesn't stop, the parents know about the situation, and can possible exert some control over their horn-dog son.
Also, if you go to the same school, talk to your guidance councilor.
Whats a Wiccan??
Religious??
If you think his beliefs are fake, why are you concerned about his threat of a spell?
Guy sounds like a creep. Treat him like any other creep. Don't answer his emails or IMs. Don't even read them. Ignore him and he will probably go away.
WHAT THE HELL? He like..constantly sends me I.M's and stuff. How can I tell him that what he believes in, is fake, and won't work at all??This wiccan guy that likes me is trying to put a spell on me to make me fall in love with him...help??
See if his magic mumbo-jumbo can protect him from mace.This wiccan guy that likes me is trying to put a spell on me to make me fall in love with him...help??
Don't tell him, let him keep on dreaming. If he is so convinced it's not going to work but you are convinced it's not you might aswell let him do whatever he wants...since you believe it's not going to work.
You don't have to tell him... Just ignore him.
God bless you !
A restraining order has a way of getting a guy's attention.
Sounds like a jerk. Tell him you're getting a restraining order.
I believe in spells, but above all I believe in free will I'm sure he'll find that out when it doesn't work. As far as IMing you, I'm sure what ever you're using has an ignore feature.
No more fake than you beliefs hun.
Ignore the I.M.S. and stuff,he sounds like a stalker.There is no magic and no such thing as a spell.He is sick and deluded get away from him.
Don't buy what he is saying. You know it's fake right? Then why bother?
TC
It sounds to me like you're already hooked...
He's got you chatting online about him and everything...
Somehow he even got your phone number...
He's a very powerful one!
He's playing at being Wiccan, no real Wiccan would act like that. Pretend the love spell worked, go up to him all doe-eyed then knee him in the fork and tell him to stop being an idiot, remind him that Wicca is a religion not a toy.
No love spell will work if he has such an attitude, so you might as well tell him to go away.
He, or you, is lying about him being Wiccan, or he's a crappy Wiccan and not worth your time.
Wicca isn't about spells. Anyone who says it is is a poseur or an idiot.
No such thing as spells and curses, but he can put a suggestion in your mind and it's up to you to not let it take over your life. Like being on Y%26amp;A asking this question, you have already giving him power over your life.
You need to ignore this stalker, and cut off all communications if you really don't like him.
Goodluck!
I would suspect he's just pulling a ';psyop';: (psychological
operation)...to coin a military phrase.
Your only posted ';proof'; of his religious affiliation is his
comment, You've hardly indicated that he's wearing symbolic
jewlery, or that you've had enough of a converstion with him
to find out anything about his behaviours...or mode of dress.
It reads like he's another male with some over-stimulated
testosterone. That's part of the reason puberty (and teen
years) tend to be regarded as a ';disaster'; by most who've
survived them.
I would suppose you've already had a little visit with your
parents about all this. If not...maybe you should.
Wiccan? Hah! He's a fake - at most he's trying to scare you - not what could be described as the most romantic approach... He certainly has no clue about wicca. Wiccans believe that coercive magic is unethical. Their ';golden rule'; is ';An it Harm None, Do what thou wilt'; subverting someone else's will or trying to make them love you is near enough to rape to be considered a violation of that rule. Also there is the Threefold Law to consider, many Wicca think that whatever you send out will return to you three times... if he IS Wicca and is really attempting to cast a spell on you you can remind him the next time that he will be someone else's unwilling ';love slave'; - 3 times - if he keeps trying to cast this... Either way he's a silly twit - and you can ignore his pathetic ';magical'; threats.
Be careful though... just in case he escalates to more serious nut-bar/psycho type behavior. Maybe that restraining order is a good idea.
If he really is Wiccan, he would know better. As for fake, many believe that about the book religions. A rule we have is NEVER force your will on others. It either won't work or it will backfire. Wicca is 90% spirituality and connection with one's Deities. Magic and spells are secondary or none existant depending on the practitioner.
He sounds more like a stalker and you should nip it in the bud.
His behaviour really does go against Wiccan ethics, and it is likely that he doesn't know a thing about Wicca. Probably hasn't even picked up one Wiccan book...
I recommend talking to your parents and getting them to talk to this guy's parents. If this guy's parents discussed this with their son, guaranteed he would be humiliated enough to stop. And, if he doesn't stop, the parents know about the situation, and can possible exert some control over their horn-dog son.
Also, if you go to the same school, talk to your guidance councilor.
Whats a Wiccan??
Religious??
If you think his beliefs are fake, why are you concerned about his threat of a spell?
Guy sounds like a creep. Treat him like any other creep. Don't answer his emails or IMs. Don't even read them. Ignore him and he will probably go away.
I fell in love with a girl that still loves her ex, what do i do?
As soon as i say this i know that you'll think i'm not really in love but i am 17. I know it's love because when i think back to any other girl i have liked i had never experienced such a feeling as this.
Since the first day i met this girl i knew she would change my life. We instantly gelled and began to meet up regularly. My life was so bright when she was around. I have to admit that i was shy around her and she was shy around me but when we were on our own together we got on so well! Some of the best times in my life so far have been with her. We never truly became an 'item' but her friends kept telling her she would be good with me and my friends told me that we suited each other. So from my point of view, and others, it seemed to be somewhat perfect! I told her that i liked her and she told me that she liked me too.
I decided that the right thing to do would be to take her on a romantic date, so i asked her and she said 'not yet'. This shocked me slightly as i couldn't find a reason as to why she wouldn't want to... but then she told me that she still loves her ex. So i understood and gave her space and time to move on.
Our communication started to drop... it was as if she decided to ignore me. In my distress i sent her a huge text telling her how i felt and how things looked from my point of view. She told me we went too fast and that she still loves her ex. She said that she was never looking for a relationship. Obviously this crushed me and i replied saying we should be friends... this never really happened. I spent the next couple of days trying to get over her when she sent me a message saying that she misses me. So we mildly began to talk again and i unfortunately grew to like her again. One day she started to talk to me and brought up her exs as if i never liked her, as if i was just a friend. So i decided to make a pact that i would get over her. So for the last two weeks i have ignored her and cut her out of my life. But everything i do, anywhere i go, the songs i listen to, things i look at... they all remind me of her. I would love to be with her but in reality she just loves her ex (and he just wanted to use her for sex!).
After writting all this i guess i can see that me and her most likely wouldn't work out. What do you think i should do? Get over her? Sweep her off her feet?
Thanks in advance.I fell in love with a girl that still loves her ex, what do i do?
Im a girl who is still in love with her ex so i can understand where she is coming from.
she was honest and told you this, so you would understand.
the thing is she wouldnt be being fair on you if she did start dating you while still having these feelings for the ex.
she obviously liked having you around and it was probably nice for her to have a guy friend around that cared for her.
she is probably very confused at the moment and may like you, but i wouldnt keep your hops up.
just think how you would feel and how confused you would feel, being in love with her and have another girl tell you that she wanted to be with you. im sure you would be scared of the prospect of ruining any possibility of being with the one you love again and of ending up hurting someone who cares for you because you know your heart wont be fully with them.
i would suggest you not make a move, she has explained to you that she is still in love...only she can get over this and it could take sometime.
if you feel you can handle it, be a friend, dont read to much into her getting close, she probably could do with a friend right now and someone who will listen to her.
you can maybe give her advice, but dont be to one sided and try and make her sway to you favour
just dont push things with her, respect what she has told you and let her get through this!I fell in love with a girl that still loves her ex, what do i do?
sweep her of her feet shes not in lov with x :
i fell in love with a woman who denies her heart the fulfillment of a dream, she allows others to write the pages and acts out her ';role'; as if there's no alternative, as if her family or her friends would be so shocked if she should ever think outside the box.... and at almost 3 times your age i can tell you things are equally as soul searching, equally as tough when you can't be with the one who sets your heart aglow. if you truly loved, you CAN'T just forget ..
we have to appreciate the fact that we are on the outside looking in .. and all too often it's so easy for them to go with the flow, so as to not to rock the boat or cause ripples in their social circle.. heaven forbid... and then when they dare to step out of sync, they are heavy with guilt and punish themselves by returning to the shackles of a ';make do'; existence...
patience is a virtue, so they say... does that mean we have to sit in the shadowsand watch the ones we love grow old before their time? watch them pass us by?..
i was placed on the shelf ... my way of thinking is ';at least she knows what shelf she put me on'; ...hm?
Since the first day i met this girl i knew she would change my life. We instantly gelled and began to meet up regularly. My life was so bright when she was around. I have to admit that i was shy around her and she was shy around me but when we were on our own together we got on so well! Some of the best times in my life so far have been with her. We never truly became an 'item' but her friends kept telling her she would be good with me and my friends told me that we suited each other. So from my point of view, and others, it seemed to be somewhat perfect! I told her that i liked her and she told me that she liked me too.
I decided that the right thing to do would be to take her on a romantic date, so i asked her and she said 'not yet'. This shocked me slightly as i couldn't find a reason as to why she wouldn't want to... but then she told me that she still loves her ex. So i understood and gave her space and time to move on.
Our communication started to drop... it was as if she decided to ignore me. In my distress i sent her a huge text telling her how i felt and how things looked from my point of view. She told me we went too fast and that she still loves her ex. She said that she was never looking for a relationship. Obviously this crushed me and i replied saying we should be friends... this never really happened. I spent the next couple of days trying to get over her when she sent me a message saying that she misses me. So we mildly began to talk again and i unfortunately grew to like her again. One day she started to talk to me and brought up her exs as if i never liked her, as if i was just a friend. So i decided to make a pact that i would get over her. So for the last two weeks i have ignored her and cut her out of my life. But everything i do, anywhere i go, the songs i listen to, things i look at... they all remind me of her. I would love to be with her but in reality she just loves her ex (and he just wanted to use her for sex!).
After writting all this i guess i can see that me and her most likely wouldn't work out. What do you think i should do? Get over her? Sweep her off her feet?
Thanks in advance.I fell in love with a girl that still loves her ex, what do i do?
Im a girl who is still in love with her ex so i can understand where she is coming from.
she was honest and told you this, so you would understand.
the thing is she wouldnt be being fair on you if she did start dating you while still having these feelings for the ex.
she obviously liked having you around and it was probably nice for her to have a guy friend around that cared for her.
she is probably very confused at the moment and may like you, but i wouldnt keep your hops up.
just think how you would feel and how confused you would feel, being in love with her and have another girl tell you that she wanted to be with you. im sure you would be scared of the prospect of ruining any possibility of being with the one you love again and of ending up hurting someone who cares for you because you know your heart wont be fully with them.
i would suggest you not make a move, she has explained to you that she is still in love...only she can get over this and it could take sometime.
if you feel you can handle it, be a friend, dont read to much into her getting close, she probably could do with a friend right now and someone who will listen to her.
you can maybe give her advice, but dont be to one sided and try and make her sway to you favour
just dont push things with her, respect what she has told you and let her get through this!I fell in love with a girl that still loves her ex, what do i do?
sweep her of her feet shes not in lov with x :
i fell in love with a woman who denies her heart the fulfillment of a dream, she allows others to write the pages and acts out her ';role'; as if there's no alternative, as if her family or her friends would be so shocked if she should ever think outside the box.... and at almost 3 times your age i can tell you things are equally as soul searching, equally as tough when you can't be with the one who sets your heart aglow. if you truly loved, you CAN'T just forget ..
we have to appreciate the fact that we are on the outside looking in .. and all too often it's so easy for them to go with the flow, so as to not to rock the boat or cause ripples in their social circle.. heaven forbid... and then when they dare to step out of sync, they are heavy with guilt and punish themselves by returning to the shackles of a ';make do'; existence...
patience is a virtue, so they say... does that mean we have to sit in the shadowsand watch the ones we love grow old before their time? watch them pass us by?..
i was placed on the shelf ... my way of thinking is ';at least she knows what shelf she put me on'; ...hm?
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