I SEE NOBODY BUT HIM...NO ONE IS GOOD ENOUGH DRIVIN MYSELF CRAZY...HOW DO I MAKE MYSELF FALL LOVE...HELP?

I was in a string of bad relationships...the latest broke my jaw and gave me stitches



I met my best friend...He treated me better than ANYONE who ever claimed to be my boyfriend and in love with me. We stayed friends though because he didn't want to be with me.



The problem is that when I meet guys, I compare them to him. If they cant treat me better, or at least equal, to the way my best friend can, I dont want any parts of them...I feel like I settle and sell myself short if I'm not happy with the way i'm being treated. I settled last time and HE tried to kill me...I'm not stuck up, i'm just not going through things like that again



EDIT: for a while i THOUGHT i was in love with my best friend...I found out it was just GREAT APPRECIATION. There is a difference and I recognize itI SEE NOBODY BUT HIM...NO ONE IS GOOD ENOUGH DRIVIN MYSELF CRAZY...HOW DO I MAKE MYSELF FALL LOVE...HELP?
ur a psycho.



but ill tame u baby ; )I SEE NOBODY BUT HIM...NO ONE IS GOOD ENOUGH DRIVIN MYSELF CRAZY...HOW DO I MAKE MYSELF FALL LOVE...HELP?
maybe its a good thing that your best friend can treat you right. i think you have the answer since yo ujust said you have great appreciation for him. and i think its a good thing you compare other guys to his personality. not really him as a person. its like youre setting a standard for yourself. its also the same concept as you dont know right until you know wrong and visa versa
it sounds like you shouldnt be dating anybody or thinking about anybody for quite some time.



you may want to seek counseling and find out why you attract the wrong people.
Gee...I wonder why the last guy broke your jaw?