How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?

How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?



My father in law is of the Christian faith and so am I

but the hole time I was dating my wife he would tell her

things like I'm not the man that god ment for her to

be with and he knows this because God told him so

so one night he ask her to take a ride with him and

i couldn't come along he said so they went off for about 3 hours

when she came back to me she told me to go home because she couldn't

marrey me because off of things that her dad had told her about me

but he didn't know me at all I had never seen the man more then and few hours

at that time in my life so how could he say all these bad things

baout me when he didn't even know me at so i was from la and my wife was from ky

she told me to go. i was very upset I felt that i did nothing wrong other then falling in love

with her.but when i told her if i go i don't want so much as a letter or a phone call from you. then she started

crying and told me she was only do what her that family wanted her to do because her dad had

Manipulate in to thinking that god would turn his back on her if she married me because it's not what god

wanted for her.he would keep telling her that she had a better destiny and if married she would be doomed if she married

and evertime we would have a special moments like our first kiss or first dance they would kill the moment by calling her

up and telling all these things about god they had her under so much confusion in fact to days befor we got married my brother in law sent her a text message that said give me one more shot to talk you out of it.marrying this guy.

but they didn't know we were getting married we just ran off and did it and me and her are not kids are anything like that

I am 26 and she 27 at the time...but they act like I should be begging them for forgiveness becuse we ran off and got married and didn't tell anyone and it makes me just want to hit her father mean i never would but thats the way i feel. i think my wife sometimes thinks that our marriage is doom because of all she had let her family put me threw but i still

love her very much she fears as we are getting ready to have kids that they will try to kill this special time for me as

well..i just trying to know what i should do with thses people. how can i ever trust them around my kids when i know what they have told my wife?How do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
start being a total di ck act like spencer lol

no inlaw prbHow do I deal with my father in law and brother in law?
it's got nothing to do with kids.

bible tells born again believers not to marry anyone who is not Christian, biblical born again believer, Jesus Himself told Nicodemus ye must be born again.

talk to a pastor, its imperative.
Tell them both , that God also cam to you one night and spoke to you.



He said '; You were meant to be with her and he only told your father in law that to test his faith';



God talks to everyone, not just your father in law.
He cannot receive such revelation for her. If she really is this religious to where she believes so adamantly in God then she should know that God will not reveal such an incredible revelation to anyone but herself. It sounds to me that she needs to find herself and her own values and beliefs. If she continues to believe what she does, great support her because obviously you loved her through all her beliefs and you KNEW what kind of family you were getting into. I have in law issue's as well and at this point, I allow them to be my husbands parents but I ignore them. They have no respect for me what-so-ever and the feelings not far from mutual. I respect them for raising their son respectively and honorably but I do not respect them for what they stand for. She should not allow her family to be so controlling of her choices. In the scriptures it says to ';Leave your parents and cleave unto your spouse'; She married you with the knowledge that her parents disapproved. Their opinion should no longer manipulate her. She is not going to hell for being married to you, you're not the devil she committed no crime in marrying you.