How do i make him fall in love again, after i hurt him?

this guy was in loveeeeee with me, he was so sweet and loved me just for who i was. to sum it up we're both 18 he was the best guy i never thought i would find at this age, plus he was still a virgin. but at the time a few months ago i just wasn't over someone else. i ended things with him and we stopped talking for 4 weeks then started talking again, he was still single and i started liking him but then all the sudden he has a gf now..i got upset and just cut him off even though he said he still wanted to be friends. we don't speak anymore but we talk when we hang out with a mutual friend, i think i'll be seeing him this saturday and i want to know how to win him back....i don't care if he has a gf..they barely know each other and they just met in their dorms. i know he still has to have some feelings for me, how do i prove that i'm the one for him and how do i show him that i love him and still care about him? but not too forward and flirty, we're just going ice skating.How do i make him fall in love again, after i hurt him?
first: you never ';fall out of love with someone'; thats literally impossible, you just learn to live without them.



second: JUST because he has a girlfriend means nothing. people have untrue, fake relationships all the time..so don't get offended knowing that some random girl is his ';girlfriend';.



third: keep spending time with him. im sure he still has feelings for you. keep your head up and just tell/show him how you feel :)

hope this helped!!How do i make him fall in love again, after i hurt him?
The best thing you can do right now is be a good friend to him. Show him that you're trustworthy and supportive. Don't push for anything more right now. In time he may come to see you as more than a friend. Until then - go out with him and other friends and have fun. Also, don't talk negatively about his new girlfriend to him. This is a surefire way of upsetting him and chances are good he'll distance himself from you completely if you do it.
You can't make someone fall back in love! %26amp;Who said he doesn't love you anymore, just bc he's with someone else doesn't mean anything. Good luck!
Hate to break it to you girl but you cant force love and trying to split them up could kill even the friendship you have. So be his friend for now and when him and his gf break up let him know you will be waiting for him.
you should try to be a good friend. when you're going ice skating, you can let him be with his gf (if shes coming) but you should also try some freindly but teasing gestures like holding his hand. just always smile at him and stuff to give him clues. if he liked you that much before, he has to still like you... pretty soon he'll realize that you're the right one for him. maybe he just got a gf to help him forget about you.
LOL 18 year old virgin isn't necassarily a bad thing rare especially for a guy but it's not necassarily bad thing just means he's shy or waiting for the right person which is a rare quality these days. No one especially if they like you really expects you to be over someone especially if its a recent break up %26amp; just because he asked you or suggested dating doesn't mean he assumed it had to be right then %26amp; there. Again especially when real feelings are involved noone expects feelings to just go away or for you to pick up %26amp; start liking him let alone ';loving him';. You are right feelings don't go away %26amp; this girl probably is a replacement for you since you had said no. Still breaking up a relationship is wrong %26amp; would likely put the relationship with you on unsolid ground to start with. I would just start more openly talking to him about whatever which would show interest then %26amp; when he breaks up you can openly tell him your feelings %26amp; start a new chapter on solid ground with him. Stop being mean to him talk to him %26amp; when or if he becames single again then tell him. Stop assuming %26amp; talk about it. Better to be open %26amp; put it on the table you can adjust or word out the details later or adjust as you need to after that but get your foot in the door by being open about it.



i was friends with a girl for 8 years then finally got the courage to tell her %26amp; when I did I admitted that I didnt think she felt the same %26amp; that even if she did by some miracle did that we both had complicated lives %26amp; that I never would expect it to be easy or immediate I only wanted her to know. I also said how I hoped we could still be friends because all I wanted was for her to be happy. Sadly she didnt feel the same since she stopped talking to me even though I've never interferred in her life %26amp; wouldnt think of changing %26amp; we've both dated other people through our friendship though many who know use always thought openly even assumed we were together. even though she always was telling me how great a guy I was %26amp; how she loved our friendship suddenly I had kooties. STill at least she knew.
well first you have to be there for him..you shouldnt have cut him out like that because you did the same thing by breraking it off...you should go hang out with him and show him that you're his friend and that he can trust you. thats where every relationship starts out, by friendship. and he'll trust you and open up to you and when he and his girlfriend fight, he'll turn to you. but you can't make him love you again if he doesnt. you just have to be there for him and wish him all the happiness in the world.