How can i make him fall back in love with me?

We where madly in love,we have a 4yr od daughter toghether, i love him and miss him now i realise that he wasnt all that bad, i want him back but dunno how to go about. any tips? its our childs 4th birthday party this monday and now we are actully gettin on and not rowing,everyones gonna be there, what should i do?How can i make him fall back in love with me?
I am guessing he broke up with not too long ago. Girl what u gotta do now is kinda critical. Any false clingy move on ur part will make him think breaking up with u was a good move. once that's done, it's hard to get him back. I know u feel like a wreck right now but u HAVE to PRETEND everything is fine and u're doin right as rain without him. That'll make him doubt maybe he made a mistake coz u don't seem to need him. And psychologically this'll mess with his mind and make him think he needs YOU more than u need him.



So do this:

1. Do NOT talk to him about getting back etc. Instead be confident about urself. Be calm and sweet and coy with him. Compliment him on his (pretend u're searching for a word to tell him) very insignificant something. Like ';I like your.........cufflinks'; (this would further mess with his mind later that he only looked good when u guys were together. or that he looks terrible without u. BUT u're so nice to tell him something nice) Have small talk then scurry off like u're busy or having a good time with other people.



2. If there's a hot guy at the party, flirt with him. But not like a prostitute. At the same time play coy with ur ex.



3. Treat him like a guest. Don't expect work from him and refuse even if he asks. Unless the point where he really begs to do something then pretend to think it over and u're doin HIM a favour that u're giving him something to do. (Again he would feel like u've really moved on with ur life being like u've become independent)



4. He would definitely call more often after all these. but u still need to play the game. Temptations would be great to just jump the gun and pretend the breakup never happened. But if u give it up too soon, again he will feel victorious and leave again. Give it time. Play hard to get. Pretend u've got a 100 stuff to do (And partaking in several activities for real would be a good idea too. and build ur self- confidence too) But still be nice to him. Make each calls a little longer than the last.



5. In the mean time, SERIOUSLY think about this. Do you really want him back? ';He wasn't all that bad'; (U do know that many women who get beaten by their spouses say the same thing right?) If u thought he was bad during the rship there is deifintely something wrong. Don't let ur low self confidence now do the thinking for u just for a security from a loser. You're so much better than that. You're a woman!! Do think and pray if he's good for you.How can i make him fall back in love with me?
look up on the internet. Try '; Getting him back'; stuff like that. Or just start dating someone new, that will make him come around real quick !
If he's going to be there, take him aside and tell him how you feel. It's possible that he's been waiting to hear this!
if he is interested invite him to spend the weekend with you and your daughter, then have a talk,



I know very few people that it ever worked out, getting back together again, all the old stuff came back up, people never change
Talk to him.
date around until he catches that old feeling
You said it '; now ya realise he wasn't so bad, the split was your choice so admit that before everyone and that you made a stupid bad , selfish choice and want to right it, but he needs ta make that decision this time and you need ta accept it. you set it free , if it comes back it was meant ta be
You cant MAKE anyone fall in love with you. Act like your normal self and maybe he will come around and see that you are changed for the better.
If you were so smug to give him the heave ho, then realise he wasn't so bad, for the sake of his own self confidence he shouldn't take you back.
The first thing that you need to do, is figure out what caused you two to separate in the first place. Once you figure that out, you might be able to figure out how to actually fix the issue. The hard question for you to answer, is do you only want him back, because being with him is better then being single? I have seen that so many times. Lets get back together, but nothing changes. It is very easy to fall back into the same routine.



You have a 4 year old to think about. Is it going to be healthy having you and your ex together? If you keep hooking back up, then breaking up, how will that look to your 4 year old.



I would try to do what is in the best interest for your daughter. If that means staying single, then stay single, if it means trying to work things out, then try to work things out. If you try to work things out, you have to give it 100%, otherwise your just putting your daughter through rougher times.



I wish you the best in what ever you end up deciding.
honesty. during the party watch him and make him see you watch him. then just before the party is done or just before he leaves, pull him aside and open your heart. let it be known that you still want him. just be prepared to give him time to let it sink in.



i don't know what caused the break up but it sounds as though you got tired of him or the stuff he did. if this is the case then you need to tell him you were wrong about the problems.
depends in a lot of factors..like what kind of relationships you have, and so on..but i think before you ask him to come back into your life, you need to be sure that you do want him back, and that its not just because you feel lonely and are finally realising that you daughter needs her father..you broke up for a reason remember that// now that you now what you want, i think you should talk to him..tell him exactly what you feel, and i mean exactly dont try to play games...
..well...you can't actually make anyone fall back in love with you darling...but it certainly wouldn't be the worst thing to sorta kinda wanna try maybe...that part's gonna be up to you though reasonably. Nobody can make anyone love anybody truly. It's a chemical, physical, mystical, mental timing kind of thing here hun....not to mention everybodys hearts are gonna have to be wide open and available to the idea too really! Do you feel that all of these particular ';ducks'; are kinda sorta getting lined up here for ya hun? Be sweet to the guy and his and your entire family darling...nothing in life is guaranteed otherwise...not even this guy! The grass ended up NOT being greener on the other side of the fence for ya I see. It's sorta kinda like '; karma '; coming back at you darling. It's momma nature balancing the playing field hun. You've heard of all of this kinda stuff before,....haven't you? Try to do the right stuff...instead of the left stuff reasonably. Happy Birthday to your daughter here truly! Hmmmm...!!!