How can i make him fall in love with me again??

i met my hubby when i was 16, im now nearly 21, we got married when i was 18 and had a lovely little boy. but now i just feel he does not notice me anymore. when i went and got my hair done he didnt say anything then when i asked him if he liked it he said he did notice, he just forgot to say anything! i want the man back i fell in love with, please please help!!! ty xHow can i make him fall in love with me again??
I'm sure he is STILL in love with you, it's just that after a few years people forget how to be MADLY in love and then they're just normally in love :)



Don't worry hon, he did notice your hair and was probably thinking you looked very nice that day but forgot to say anything, b/c those are things guys practice more only on the first few dates.



If you want, you could try setting up a date with him. A date night could be romantic and fun. It could be somewhere spontaneous you wouldn't usually go to or you could just cuddle up at home with some microwave popcorn (Pop Secret is an awesome microwave popcron brand) and a good movie(s). You could set up a date just for one day or you could set up a routine date night for each month.



It doesn't have to be the most mind-blowing night ever but it would still be nice, eh? :)



And don't worry, I'm sure he is still in love with you.



PS, try shopping around for nice clothes if you haven't done so in a while and pick some outfits (and maybe some sexy new underwear?) that look great on you. Cuz even if he fails to say anything to you then, new clothes always boosts a gals' morale.How can i make him fall in love with me again??
Try talking with him. Find out if there's something you could be doing for him (in the bedroom and/or outside of it).

You could try things like joining him in the shower and being sensual with him - not necessarily having sex, mind you, but feeling his body and making it known you still find him attractive.

Here's something I found online a while back, and unfortunately I can't find the site anymore. Suffice to say I got it from a Cosmo site and what I'm typing is a printout from there:

';Seven Ways to Make Him Ache for You -

1. Utter the one word that drives him nuts - As lovey-dovey as pet names make him feel, they still don't compare to the electrifying rush your man gets when his name crosses your lips... However, just blurting out his moniker as often as possible isn't going to do it either. You need to make it count.

2. Reach into his pocket for his keys

3. Keep him out of the loop - The funny thing about men is that telling them less about your life makes them long for you more... Edit your small talk and you'll make a discovery: The less you tell him, the more interested he'll become in your day-to-day.

4. Make small changes for big results - Men register eye-catching changes to your appearance, and it draws them to you... There's a catch though: If you want to snag his immediate interest, the change has to be guy-visible.

5. Compliment him the right way - You see, men are super sensitive to gushing... So when you give him props, stick to this tip: The more obscure and exclusive the praise to him, the more genuine it feels.

6. Give him a sensory flashback - Think about when you first fell for your guy. What reminds you both of that time? Figure it out and you've found the secret to conjuring up that new-love rush.

7. Check out his competition - Lust works in bizarre ways. Get this: If you want to renew your man's passion for you, slyly capture the eye of another guy. Men do become more attentive and turned on... when they see them being desired by other men.';



Not all of these will work, but they should give you some ideas. You know your husband best, so you know what will work with him.

I know you want him to make efforts for you, but these tips are small and just enough to bring him back from his rut. Plus... it's fun doing things like these :)



Now, as for the hair... don't take it personal. Seriously. Guys really don't notice things like that unless you did something totally drastic (i.e. Go from long hair to outrageously short, go from blond hair to dark brunette, etc.). You getting it trimmed and/or styled isn't going to catch his eye... it's normal. It sucks, but it's normal.

Some guys will notice it right when their girl walks in the door. My husband is one of these guys, but he's obsessed with my hair. So, unless your guy is one that feels a woman's hair is one of the sexiest things about her, he probably won't notice subtle things - even though they may not be subtle changes to you or your friends, to him they may be just below his radar. It's a guy thing.