How do I make him realize why he loves me?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half, It seems like he's getting bored with me. He says he's not that he's just stressed. I still am madly in love with him but it's hard when I feel like I'm not wanted. He never wants to cuddle and very rarely shows affection. What is a way I can make him fall in love with me all over again or spice our relationship up a little bit? What can I do to help our relationship? How do I make him realize why he loves me?
Sometimes the threat of losing someone makes people realize what they have and makes them realize that they don't want to lose it. It's happened to me before just like i'm sure its happened to alot of people. Sometimes you forget what you want even though it's staring you right in the face, So to speak

How can you make a man fall in love you?

There's this man whom i just hear about but havent seen. I feel that i love him. He's a friend to my girl friend whom i stay with. He seems he has guts to see me and so I am. I have this strong feeling that he'll find me attractive and something will happen between us cos he asks much about me. How can we know each other and make him fall in love with me? My friend works at a certain club and he goes there oftenly after work but gosh at that time I find myself at work and he doesn't visit us coz during the weekends he's always busy. What can I do?How can you make a man fall in love you?
Um... ok...

a little weird, you haven't even met the guy and you are plotting to get him to fall in love with you...

Start by meeting him. From there, it's all about the chemistry. You can't make someone fall in love if your not compatible. But you'll know alot more about your compatibility once you meet him.How can you make a man fall in love you?
be yourself...dishonesty is a sign of weakness.
you cant MAKE a person fall for you
either find a way to meet him or keep in in your dreams....... and as for making him fall in love with you ?? no such thing... either he will or he wont...... there is NO remote control to a heart..... God bless
You can't force anyone to fall in love with you. It has to be naturally there already in order for it to happen.
just be yourself, dont pretend to be something you are not...maybe you can call him and ask him out, if he really likes you he'll find some time for you...
You cant MAKE anyone fall in love with you. How do you love someone that you dont even know??? Why would you pursue such nonsense? Please get a REAL life and give up your fantasy.
You cant make some one fall in love with you...If he was really interested he would make time to see you...I would look for someone else...
WELL FIRST OF ALL DONT INVOLVE YOURSELF INTO THIS MESS AS WHEN HE CAN LEAVE YOUR FRIEND FOR YOU THEN LATER HE CAN LEAVE YOU FOR SOMEONE ELSE.
you can't make anybody fall in love with you especially if you have never even talk or seen that person. Arreange a meeting through your friend first and then go from there.
it sounds like ur head over heels with the wrong guy.





men that go to clubs dont exactly look for 'love'





good luck
You cant make ANYONE “fall in love” with you.... If its meant to be it will happen, there has to be a natural connection.. Sure you could make a big facade to make someone fall in love with you. But as time goes on it will fade away an nothing will have been gained.. Just be yourself and if it was meant to be it will an if not there are plenty of other fish in the sea.... :)
go to the club but were somthing flashy and were a skirt or a flashy dress in a tank top with speggity straps on a cold day and bretend your cold and mabey her will notic you and let you borrow his jacet.
just go and talk to him! sit together and talk. u're gonna know what to do next. Maybe u wont find him interesting anymore, maybe u will.. so then u can persue what u really want. But to say i want him to love you, well, that a little bit soon now..
the first thing that you could do is start talking with some sence....because you can't make someone fall in love with you.
you really want to make a guy fall in love with you when you only 'feel' that you love him? Is that really fair to the guy when you're not 100% sure that you're in love with him? I think you should first step away from the idea of making a man love you or you'll be spending too much time making tactics than actually getting to know who this person really is. Then, you can get a group together to go out to your friend's club or somewhere that people can get together and talk (I like hookah!). From there you can get to talk to him and still be among friends if you run out of things to say. You can also start getting acquainted with the idea of whether you really love him or not. If things go well, you can either ask him out for a one on one date sometime in the future or wait to see if he'll make the move. (Most guys like to work for their mate)
what u can do is snap back to reality. u sound a bit insane. Go out there and meet someone the normal way...PLS!
Leave a note on his car window saying '; If you are interested as i am then call me'; give him your number and be sure to leave your name. I promise he will call you within 48hrs....After that if it is meant to be it will.. good luck : )
Yes, you can!!



But for that you'll have to become the woman of his dreams and its quite painful and sometimes impossible to extract all information about his desires and transform yourself into one like that.!! Also theres a risk you might loose yourself completely and afterwards he might not be interested in you. Worst of both worlds!!!



If possible try contacting witches from the medieval times... maybe they can help you transform in short term.



As for long term,



Try having a decent and pleasant relationship with him ... show him your feelings gradually over time .. and if his response is positive according to you then you may go ahead ...



Learn more about him ... and try adjusting to his good desires and make yourself better (like academics, attributes etc).... this way even if in case you fail in this relationship, you wont regret coz you gained something in your personality and youre better choice for someone else..



And besides , he'll also like the changes in you and would love to spend more time with you..



Be serious about this relationship only when you see him making good changes in himself according to you ... Love is always a Give and Take relationship ... Seriously!!



By all means, be very careful and firm on ';physically-going-too-far'; in a relationship. I assume you live away from your parents. Hence, be responsible towards their dreams too.. And if you will, then in future they'll also understand your feelings for this guy... and everything will be merrier!!



All the best!!
Going to your friend's club,and see him.You cant love him without meeting him.

make him a great impression about you.Dressing your best beautifull clothers when you meet him,asking much about him so that you can understand him um...about what he intersting in,or some else.

Dont talk about your bad habit.

Give him your charming smiles.

and........

you can ask your roommate something about him.

And the important thing is : you are always yourself!

Good luck!
finding ur self in love is 1 thing

u r in love is 2nd thing

lovin a person whom u have not seen ......strange

it is just an attraction....i may say cauz ur frnd told u only his +ve things

better u stop thinkin cauz dis wil trouble ur mind.

actually wen u come 2 no dat person face 2 face his reality will shock u

be coool ......meet him .....n den decide





do tell me wat hppned

How can you make someone who's fallen out of love fall back in love?

One of my best friends was told by my boyfriend of eleven months that he wants to break up with me. He just doesn't feel it anymore. He said he's been thinking about this for a while. How long has he not loved me? How long have I been lied to? I love him so much and I just can't bear to lose him. The thought of being without him makes me feel like the world has no purpose for me anymore and I really feel like life is over. He's been distant sometimes, but otherwise he's acted the same. The other day he snapped at me briefly, but by the end of the day he was alright again. He's acting like he normally does, so I don't know when he'll break up with me. Is there a way I can make him fall in love with me again? Don't read that wrong; I don't want to force him to love me. I want to see if there's things I can do that will make him remember why he loved me in the first place and change his mind. I've been trying so hard lately to make our relationship better but he keeps pushing me away...I've tried talking to him but he doesn't reciprocate...I just can't let this die. It sounds bleak, but I can't. Please, please help me.How can you make someone who's fallen out of love fall back in love?
The world without him will NEVER make your life is really over! He doesn't deserve your love. Don't waste your energy on him. I know that at first that it's really so hard to lose the one that you really love, then eventually it'll get better. It just take a lot of time. He's not the only guy breathing in this world. You deserve someone better than him.How can you make someone who's fallen out of love fall back in love?
well im going through the same thing and honestly i feel your pain trying to make something work when the other person doesn't put their effort. All i can say is im just gonna let things go for me honestly m done with how i have to make it work when the other person doesn't want what i want. However you and i may think differently. I am just telling you not to waste your time any more young and we got quite a few years to meet the right guy.
you shouldnt consider yourself as being lied to...it is simply that he doesnt feel the same for you like before and maybe he was trying to keep things as it was that is why he didnt say anything ..and now he think that it is over that is why he is thinking about breaking up .. so he is not cheating..that is what he felt and that is what he will do ..no lying here ...there is two possibilities in here .. the first one is that he really doesnt feel anything for you anymore then you can not do anything and it is really over .. the 2nd thing is that still deep inside feel the love and the care for you but he is bored with the relation and feeling very down which usually happens between two person after a while in a relationship.. now what you have to do now is to change a little bit about yourself .. you dont want to always be negative and nag about what is wrong with your relation and what you should do to make it better and keep on talkin and talking to him about it .. because this will push him away instead of making it bette r.. you should try to remember why in the begining he falled in love with you .. what is in you that attracted him in the first place..try to have more fun with him .. make him feel more fun when you are together .. less naggy .. less serious sometimes .. and try to get a little bit distant from him so he can misses you more .. dont be always around and always available .. even after 11 months .. you should try to make him fall in love again .. when it comes to love .. it is not like you fall in love once and it lasts forever .. you have to always make him fall again and again .. i hope it works for you ..

i want to add ... that it is really worth trying and fighting for our love and eveyrhitng .. but if it doesnt work .. it's not that there is no reason for life without him .. maybe it was the wrong reason .. and you will find the right after..

How do I make a guy fall in love with me?

I'm in love. I know I am. He is the one. I've waited my whole life to meet this guy. But I'm so nervous around him.. I just basically ignore him when he's around. I act like I'm not interested. HELP.How do I make a guy fall in love with me?
You aren't in love. :P You just have a MAJOR crush. You have to get over your fear of being nervous. Once you do that, start a small conversation with him. Like if he's in one of your classes, ask ';Hey. Do you get the homework?'; If he answers yes then go on and say ';Okay well cool. Can you explain to me how to do this during lunch?'; If he says he doesn't get it, say ';Aww. Well that's okay'; and think of something else to say to him. Next time he's around, don't act like you're not interested, smile and give an eye contact to each other. You can always talk to him about anything that goes on in school or where ever you guys basically see eachother.How do I make a guy fall in love with me?
This happened to me a couple times but just try your hardest to stop ignoring him, trust me this way you can talk more and get to know each other more. Don't be scared of rejection because you could be missing out on something great.

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I'm exactly the same with girls I like - just remind yourself that there's every chance he likes you and HE's too shy to tell you, just like you are. You'd be surprised just how often that happens, seriously
hah ignoring him will lead you nowhere

How can i make him fall for me?

there's this guy in my class that has caught my attention lately. Hes nice to me and flirts with me a lot but the only problem here is that he's a total jerk and he cheated on his gf like 19 times. I think the only way he can be loyal to a girl is by being in love with her. Hes a nice guy and i feel that deep down inside he can be a gd person but he jst needs a bit of help. Do you think if i make him fall in love with me he'll be loyal and a bit better with ppl n all this? I rly want to help him n make him fall in love with me.. How can i show him that i should be the one for him, that im there for him and all this? How do i keep in touch with him for the summer when we're not that close? How do i make him fall in love with me?How can i make him fall for me?
I can't understand why you want someone who is ';a total jerk and he cheated on his gf like 19 times'; to be with you. Don't you realise that if he cheated on her like that, he will cheat on you too! Obviously you think he wasn't in love with her, since you say ';I think the only way he can be loyal to a girl is by being in love with her.'; But what makes you think he will be any more in love with you than with his ex? He sounds like a player and guys like that tend to make cheating more of a lifestyle than a habit. You can't ';make'; him fall for you and if I were you, I'd be glad. Unless you really enjoy crying and being messed around, that is.How can i make him fall for me?
He's flirting with you cause he wants to sleep with you. If he's cheated on his GF like 19 times, Im sure he would cheat on you too. He's trouble and I would stay away. I know you already have your mind made up though so.
I've been there. There is no way you can change someone. They have to want to. That person should show that they are willing to change. Sounds to me that you are only putting yourself up for heartbrake.
Dear, Why would you bother ! I have been on the recieving end of two cheaters and trust me you don';t want to go there.
You can't make someone fall in love with you. I've tried - it doesn't work. This guy sounds like a guy that I went to school with. He flirted with me and claimed to like me and even gave me my first kiss - but he was such a liar. In private, he was sweet. In public, he denied our ';relationship';. This guy just needs to grow up. And if he's cheated on his gf before, what makes you think he wouldn't do that to you? Don't get involved with this guy. He sounds like a loser, and you probably don't want that.

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How can I make a Player fall in love with me?

So theres this guy and everyone knows him as a player, and he always use girls for one thing which is sex. And now he has moved on to me but i dont want to have sex with him i want him to really fall inlove with me so then everyone will be in shock. Help please %26lt;3How can I make a Player fall in love with me?
theres a reason they are called players. how they operate is by using girls like you who either love them or want ppl 2 know she was the one who tamed the player. But it never works. Thats why players are still around. Bc they PLAY girls, use them for what they want, and move on. you'll be the same, no matter how much you want differently. theres no magic recipe that makes a player fall in love with you.How can I make a Player fall in love with me?
You can't make a player fall in love with you, he's a douche bag and a loser, just forget about him

How to i make this 1 guy fall in love w/ me?

well i am in 8th grade i am inlove with this 1 guy. we used to go out but we broke up because we never really hung out or talked. but now we are talking more and i like him alot more now. but i am not sure if he likes me. i always catch him staring at me when i am walking in the hallways at school. is that a good sign? please give me some tips to help me make him fall in love w/ me. thank you america!How to i make this 1 guy fall in love w/ me?
well, the person answering this qns (me) is nt a american instead is a singaporean... haha...

Well, it's gd that he is actually stealing peeks at u, it goes to show that u r attracting his attention.. :)

Try 2 spend mre time with him n talk more until u cant get enough of it..

But try to spend lonely times with him n nt always in a big group... That'll work... n ya, try askin him out, like goin 2 e movies n stuff like that.. i m pretty sure, it'll work..

TC babe%26lt;%26lt;How to i make this 1 guy fall in love w/ me?
You can't really 'make' someone fall in love with you, but if you two did go out already, that must mean that you have some kind of connection. Just take things slow, don't rush it. Become really good friends for a while and don't worry about the relationship untill he takes charge. If you're only in the 8th grade, you've got plenty of time for the two of you to form something together. Like I said before, just take it slow and I'm sure if it's ment to be, something will form soon.

Good luck :]

How do I get a guy to fall in love with me?

I really like this guy and I want him to like me back. All that I've tried is that I've had my friends ask him if he liked me and he told them no. I believe him but I don't want to. How can I win his heart and make him fall in love with me?How do I get a guy to fall in love with me?
Its kind of a lost case with guys...im a guy, and if we dont like you, we don't



if you still pursue us, we'd find it annoying...sorry...but we aren't as emotional like girls.How do I get a guy to fall in love with me?
your cant make someone fall in love with you or really even like you. you just need to be yourself.
Invite him over and cook him a HUGE plate of bacon!

How can i make a man fall in love with me? I mean head over heels anything special to woo him?

If he is the one for you, you dont have to do anything but be yourself. He will see you for you as you are as a whole. He will appreciate your positives and negatives, your flaws and perfections. try to appreciate his and he will love you and go no where.How can i make a man fall in love with me? I mean head over heels anything special to woo him?
You can't make anyone fall in love with you. It just happens. Be your true self and if its meant to be it will.How can i make a man fall in love with me? I mean head over heels anything special to woo him?
compliment his life, if hes down bring him up, make his priorites yours and help him reach his goals, accept him for him and give him understanding, thats how my girl got me and I feel like I would be dumb for cheating on that.
Babe I am not sure why you are in such a hurry to find mad head over heels love..

I am 42 years old and I have only found it once....Love is like a clock if you watch it it will never change time...If you let it go thru its time it will find you and it will be your time..



Basicly I am saying..It will happen when it happens...Maybe you are being to picky about the man you are looking for...

You need to back up and look at yourself and see what you have to offer and what you are looking for in a man/boyfriend......If you are only looking at the GQ men, Then love you are looking at the wrong clock...

Maybe look at different places and times of the day...

Or just sit back and be you and let it happen....IT will I promise

How can i get the guy to fall in love with me?

i like this guy. im really confused to know if i love him. at my age we dont even know what love is! i think i dont actually love him but the thought of us being together. hes not the type of person to say LOVE. or anything to it. in a way i liek it because it doesnt spoil or friendship. but in a way i want to know sooooo badly. but then there is another. the one who has been with me. he is friends with the guy and he tells me what he says about me. but he also likes me but wont make a move because he thinks he'll interfer. everyone says i have changed him. he is the type of walkin hormone guy but with me he's sweet and his friends have noticed it. so which one do i try to make fall in love with me? the one who i think i love or just love the thought of it, or the one who i have changed and might already love me but you cant really tell because with other girls he's a walking hormone? im confused!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!How can i get the guy to fall in love with me?
You should ask yourself which guy would make you happy...which one do you love the most...I would say give it some time and see what happens if one of them makes a move pick him

How can an aries make a virgo fall in love with her?

He is already very much ';in like'; with me. However, I feel like we're stuck in this zone where we're more than friends but less than lovers. I am outspoken, but shy as well. He's just boring but I love it! I know I can't just simply talk to him and work this out if he doesn't want to. Any advice anyone?How can an aries make a virgo fall in love with her?
Mission: Loving and Seducing a Virgo Man

The Virgo man is one of the more difficult creatures of the universe to understand. On the outside, he may seem a little detached, and sometimes he even comes off as emotionally unavailable. It's a different story on the inside, although few people are granted entrance.



It's true that Virgo men are generally reluctant to lay their cards on the table when it comes to their emotions, and they have incredibly high standards for themselves and their mates. However, if you can pierce the protective force field this fellow surrounds himself with, you'll find a staunch partner who will always offer you his best. Here is some advice that will help you do just that.



Nurturing Love

To love a Virgo man, you need to make a strong effort to understand him, and this isn't always easy to do. Virgos are perfectionists at heart, and they tend to offer unsolicited advice.



Simply put, they can be honest to a fault and rather blunt in their delivery. What you need to understand is that even though they often lack a filter for their comments, they really only mean to help you improve whatever issue they're talking about. If you are very self-confident and can interpret criticisms in this spirit, regardless of the words used to deliver them, you have a good chance of building a loving relationship with your Virgo.



It's also paramount to understand just how much this man needs your love and your reinforcement of his value to you. Virgo seems self-sufficient on the surface, but underneath is an emotional core that cries out to be loved unconditionally. It takes a generous heart to accept and overlook this man's faults, see through his defense system and love him for exactly who he is. If you can do that, you'll earn his love and his loyalty. This is a guy who will go to the mat for you once he commits.

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How do I make a guy fall in love?

He can get anyone he wants. Me included in that one. But that's the problem. I'm not the only one who wants him. How do I get him to fall in love with %26amp; want ME? Any help would be so greatly appreciated. Thanks.How do I make a guy fall in love?
To answer your question, yes, it is possible to get his attention, but getting his heart is a different story and here is why. I'm not exactly sure that guys who can have anyone they want actually fall for any girl. I mean think about it. When attention and affection is that easy for someone they tend not to value it very much.



Getting his attention is as simple as appealing to his ego. Pretty boys are usually very vain and self centered. Find the one thing he is hung up on about himself and stroke his ego in that direction. You'll have him eating out of your hand like a puppy.



The real question is why are you so hung up on this guy? Is there really anything outstanding about him besides his looks? If not then you may learn the hard way that wanting something that seems unattainable is often far more satisfying than actually possessing it.How do I make a guy fall in love?
dear you will not achieve anything forcefully.Try to give respect to your feelings if anyone is not giving respect to your feelings than why you?why are you making your feelings so common to everyone.if he ignores you then he is not deserving your feelings.

How do I make him love me again?

When my boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago he assured me I'd done nothing wrong. We had a quite sexual relationship and I wish we hadn't taken things so fast, and if I ever got back with him I would definitely take things slower. I've tried getting over him but its not happening. I've cried every single night since he broke up with me and at random points in between. I have problems at home as well and because of everything I'm cutting myself and have overdosed on paracetomol a couple of times. We were best friends before we were a couple and he says he wants to be that again, but he's acting like he hates me and yells at me everytime he talks to me. I've been giving him some space but he keeps emailing me and then gets mad at me when I reply, so I've stopped replying. He has lots of friends that are girls and he grabs them and hugs them when he sees me walk by. What is up with him? He loved me once, can someone please tell me how to make him fall for me again?How do I make him love me again?
There's no way you can make some one fall back in love with you. All you can do is tell him how you feel, how he makes you feel and ask him how he truly feels about you. If he has made it clear that he doesn't want to be with you, all you can do is move on.

If he's not meant for you, it just means there's someone better out there for you even if you don't think so right now.

Ask him if you two can meet somewhere so you guys can talk. It's the only way to straighten things out.



And don't cut yourself or overdose, if he knew that then he may not want to get back together with you. Trust me. Doing that would only push him further away.How do I make him love me again?
If you Really love him,before you breakup, you need just to think about it...you can make him love again...

try to make him jealous,if he did, maybe,he loves someone or maybe he loves you
l don't think that you did something wrong with him but there are something what l couldn't understand very well such as there you say %26gt;%26gt;%26gt; but he's acting like he hates me and yells at me every time he talks to me %26lt;%26lt;%26lt; this sentence says there was something so wrong before you both break up with eachother and the problems are over there .. if it happened after he broke up then l have nothing to say .. there you say also he loved you once .. it has big meaning .. doesnt mean he s gonna love you forever .. it looks complicated from the outside so l need to know lil bit details what happened before he broke up with you.. l mean that s not reason break up with if there is nothing reason becasue you know everything we have in this world has a reason even good or bad.. but truth is truth.. maybe you should give up loving him ?
This might sound mean, it isn't, its hard like most of real life. First, Check yourself before you wreck yourself. If you really want him back the only way is to work on your own problems first. no-one wants to be with a loser, and that's what you look like when you act like he's the only guy in the world or get suicidal. Second, people don't want what is easily obtainable, People want what they can't have, so when you throw yourself at someones feet you should expect to get kicked aside. Start slow like by admitting there are other guys in the world. When you get to the point that you know you can survive without him you might have a chance of getting him back.
You can't make a person love you sweetie. Leave him completely alone for awhile, give him a chance to miss you a little, he may come back around and he may not You need to seek help for yourself so you can cope, move on, and learn to love yourself.

In Dragon Age Origins, how do I make Leliana fall in love with me?

He current standing with me is +71, which is only considered to be ';Warm';.



I am a male human warrior, and I can not seem to get her to become interested in me. The only dialogue I get from her is ';I think you should go';, and ';Lets discuss something'; Obviously the first one is not what I need, and the second one only gives the option to say ';Nevermind, farewell'; or something like that/



Anyone know what to do?In Dragon Age Origins, how do I make Leliana fall in love with me?
Something most people forget is to camp before you travel to get to another location. Speak with her every time your at camp and be nice. Give her gifts while you are at camp.(she likes religion things like the symbols of Andraste) Eventually you can ask her about minstrels being spies in Orlais ask all questions possible. Then leave camp and when you get back to camp she will approach you an tell you that she lied to you... this will begin her personal quest. Go to Denerim to complete the quest (your choice how) Go to camp yet again she will approach you, be nice. You get a lot of points for her to like you. after you hit about +90 you can enter a relationship with her.....then you can go into her tent over and over and over to do....things..... I hope this helped I didn't want to spoil the perfect storyline for everyone so it was a little hard to explain.In Dragon Age Origins, how do I make Leliana fall in love with me?
I'm not sure you can do that but it would be cool if you can, because my dad has that game on his PC........just in case I believe that a rouge is way more better because you can be an assassin and you can be long range and meele..........(you can also do that when your a warrior and mage but a rouge has kinda an equal skill between melee and longrange)..........good luck..=)
It depends on some dialogue choices, if you do her personal quest, if you give her all items/gifts that are suited for her, etc. You need to get her approval up to about 100%.



There's some degree of continuing to play through the game to even find certain gift items. Earlier on, there's only so much you can do, and you have to keep playing to encounter the scenarios and items that can help you boost things further.

How can i make my boyfriend of 3yrs fall in love with me, even tho he want space? how much space should i give?

My boyfriend and I was together for three years and he broke up with me because he said I didn't make him feel the way he use to feel when we first started dating. But he also said that he's not giving up on me and he need time, but he broke up with me on the 1st of march and the first two weeks i blew his phone up and called him everyday, now this past sunday i decided to give him real time, so until april the 2nd im not callin/txtin, or even go to his house (he live right right next door, lmao) but the reason why im giving until april 2nd is because we are goin on a date. when we first started dating we went to go to ';why did I get married'; that was our first movie together and on april the 2nd he agreed to go on a date to go see the 2nd movie ';why did i get married too'; so how much time is enough time for a man after 3yrs? and i really really really honestly truely love him sooooooooooooo much, so how do i make him fall in love with me again? we have been through so much and we have soooooooo much love but i hate that i dont make him have that feelin when we first started datinHow can i make my boyfriend of 3yrs fall in love with me, even tho he want space? how much space should i give?
Umm..honestly that's hard! lol. because you've been with him for so long. Theres nothing more i can say but: Give him wat he wants..which is space. And give him enough space to where he'll come to YOU and talk to you or text you or watever the case may be. Not giving him that space he needs will only make things worse. And see wat happens. Other than that..good luck!

How can I make my Boyfriend fall in love with me again?

Me and my boyfriend have been together over a year. Recently things have changed, hes stopped kissing me as much as he used to and he doesn't tell me he love me unless i say it first. When i spoke to him about it he told me i was pathetic and i get upset over silly little things and i cause arguments over silly little things. Please help, I really love him and I don't wanna lose him i just wanna make him fall back in love with me and get are spark back. Thanks xHow can I make my Boyfriend fall in love with me again?
If he says he still loves you, he does. I guess it's best not to pressure him with your insecurities as guys hate that. What they'd love is a girlfriend who's secure... Good luckHow can I make my Boyfriend fall in love with me again?
gurl guys think completly differnt than us ya know, be carefull and show him all the love in the world let him know your the one!

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He's done. Go find a Guy who will love you forever.
Give him some space, find your independance of job, school, life and friends. When he's seen you're not as sensitive as a baby, (which women mostly are!), then may be he'll run after you. The far you are from a man, the more he wants you. The more you moan to a man, it is a turn off and they start getting frustrated. Believe me, I know it beause if someone keeps giving me a headache, it turns me off too but when i see a person isn't giving me much attention, it attracts me more to want that person. Don't keep asking 'you love me? i love you'

by doing things for each other can prove you love each other.

If you see he's not that interested, find someoene better than him if he's already bored! You deserved to be loved and cared.
I'm sorry, but he is a bit not into you, It hurts but you'll have to find another guy that will love you just the way you are and take care of you....
Do you know what he like? Food or the things you do? There must be something on you that attracts him, use it ^^ Or can you ask him what you did that upset him? Coz i have a guy friend who stop being intimate with her girlfriend as she has always been finding trouble with him no matter what he does. The sight of her doesn't appeal him anymore as the moment he sees her, means more ';trouble';. You must know the problem before giving the remedy. Don't be upset girl, if you try, he'll know ^^
Good question. The sparks tend to lose out of relationship, i've been trying damn hard to rekindle it too. Now i know that i've been trying the wrong way.
keep after him and bug him to dealth about the same old where have you been all my life. are you coming over, are you calling soon. i havent talked to you for 2 minutes now and miss you already. im looking as good as you dear. i lost 20 lbs look at me now you dont know what your missing since cant see how sexy i've become. oh by the way forgot to tell you how much attracted to you by alll of your beautiful pics you put oout there just 4 me. like the beach one the best the one you have now with the 2 empty but full of potential chairs that could be filled up. lol just having fun keeping humor as the saying for the best medicine. and can lift your spirits ...just got to be yourself and if other attracted to personality then have made a match. since looks do count so does physical attraction so lean and firm is a turn on and most people need to do a months work to slim down to achieve a wt loss just needed a motivator like to win a prize such as a sexy guy so more to be revealed as i am half way there talkin from working on inner to outer and just have outer left taking care of it self already. not saying have to wait and see me but just letting know goals and interests and what i think makes work. sending your love out each and every day just to say im here ready to be ready when you feel the willingness 2 call and come over and not let the time roll over...just become a little more bolder like action more than words with no second thoughts as it turns and unfolds your long and desired yearn moi.meeting you half the way i cannot wait for the destined day.my opinion on making someone fall inlove again attraction and promotion. theme quote with staying on the path you fall inlove with first yourself and then you try and sell that love to attracted person sounds like an inticing non threatening way and the most natural..maybe we are already there and just dont know what next? guess dont know answer so i should ask for the answer here.sorry best can do 4 now cheers and stay on path!

How do you make someone fall in love with you when he made it clear the first time that he's not?

I really really like this guy and we have been friends since we were 13 years old. He's my bestfriend. He knows how I feel about him and he has told me that he just doesn't like me the way I do about him. Yes, he loves me but not as much as I would want him to. He just loves me enough to continue being friends.

But i still love him and God forbid it, I would wanna spend the rest of my life with him.

I'd read about how people would just make the people they like fall in love with them without being desperate. How do I do that? How do I make my bestfriend see that we can be more than friends for life but also consider that we could be life partners too?How do you make someone fall in love with you when he made it clear the first time that he's not?
You don't, instead you listen to HIS words that do actually mean something and learn to take no for an answer. How can you say you want to spend the rest of your life with a man whose word you clearly don't respect.How do you make someone fall in love with you when he made it clear the first time that he's not?
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You can't. Let go and move on.
You can't make someone fall in love with you if they don't feel that way. I would suggest staying as really good friends and wait and see if it develops into something else but i would not put my life on hold just incase he decided he wanted me. Perhaps if you dated someone else he may realise that he loves you more than her first thought

Good luck
you cannot 'make' someone feel anything. he doesn't love you - let it go, or you'll end up in bunny-boiler territory.
Honey, you can't. You need to realize that part of loving someone is respecting their boundaries and that isn't always pleasant. In fact, sometimes it's downright painful. Your friend has told you what he's comfortable with, and you need to respect his decision. It is out of your hands.



You may also want to address how much time you're spending together, because clearly this is upsetting you and making you feel badly. So maybe the two of you should take a break so you can sort out your feelings.



I know it's hard, but think about it. You deserve a good partner who loves you just as much as you love him. In the end you wouldn't want to pressure your friend into a relationship because then you would never truly know that he did it out of love for you.



In time things will change as all things do. Put a little distance between you and you'll find that over time you aren't so unhappy about the way things are anymore. Then go out and find a man who is able to give you the love you crave and deserve.

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What could make having sex fall in love with that person?

Some people have sex first then fall in love. I have known friends and that includes me, but never understood why, they had known the person, started liking the person and dating him/her, but once they have sex, they call me to tell me how much in love they are, when just the day before they were just friends.



Why do you think this is?What could make having sex fall in love with that person?
That is lust. Not love. Love is a deeper sense of like for a person based on who they are and how they treat you. Anything that deals with sex first is lust. They fall in love with what is below the belt, not the person as a whole.What could make having sex fall in love with that person?
There's a segment Naked Science did called ';What's Sexy'; which actually scientifically explains the reason some people fall in love after sex.



Here's part 1 (It's a pretty long segment)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-BcGekN6



Just follow the related videos to find the other parts if you're REALLY interested.
they are not really in love, they could have loved the sex, and had lots of lust for this person now, but you cant fall in love over sex or your not really in love. Unless you do before and don't know it and connecting with them like that brings out your feelings.
apparently it is scientifically proven -- something to do with a hormone that is released during sex. Not sure of the whole story though.

What charicteristics in a person make you fall in love with them. Or just make you have a huge crush on?

I usually fall for or have big crushes on guys who are

-Really outgoing

-Know how to have fun, excitings, and spontanuous

-Knows what he wants and is goal oriented

-Have a tint of cockyness but not to the point when it gets annoying

-Is charming

-Is really good with kids

-has alot of friends and are friendly

-Is expressive and is outspoken

what about you?!?What charicteristics in a person make you fall in love with them. Or just make you have a huge crush on?
Everything you just said lol

What charicteristics in a person make you fall in love with them. Or just make you have a huge crush on?

I usually fall for or have big crushes on guys who are

-Really outgoing

-Know how to have fun, excitings, and spontanuous

-Knows what he wants and is goal oriented

-Have a tint of cockyness but not to the point when it gets annoying

-Is charming

-Is really good with kids

-has alot of friends and are friendly

-Is expressive and is outspoken

what about you?!?What charicteristics in a person make you fall in love with them. Or just make you have a huge crush on?
Everything you just said lol

How do i make my man fall back in love with me?

we've been living togegher for two years, the first 6 months was full of attention and loving making, now love making is like a favour from him to meHow do i make my man fall back in love with me?
I see nothing in your words that refer to ';love';. All I see is that you aren't ';gettin'; as much as you used to. If that's all love means to you then I suggest you go your seperate ways. If, however, the reduction of sex is just one part of your problems, then seek some professional help.How do i make my man fall back in love with me?
don't... just leave him be...
you can't ,ake him do anything
TRY TO CHANGE YOUR LOOK. MAKE EVERYTHING SEEM NEW TO HIM
Hold out. Don't give him any. There is nothing a man wants more than something he thinks he can't have.
You can't make anyone fall in love with you, maybe he has lost interest, reinvent yourself.
sorry sweetheart, you can't make someone fall in love/back in love. if he seems to be uninterested in you, he is. leave him and if he loves you, he'll chase you. everything is always good in the beginning, he was trying to get you. now that he has you, the chase has stopped. some men just like the chase, not the catch (if you get my drift).
men are impressed by ''ada'' of girls . i think u hav to spend a lot of time with him. try to tell him how much u love him. take him to romantic places . tell him how u or he proposes him or u. okay

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get over it every day is not a honeymoon try collecting stamps
He probably never really loved you in the first place. He lost interest after 6 months? Are you paying him to hang around you or what?
easy to get tired, lasted only 6 months, talk , communicate and find out what's going on. is it a one way deal. is it a give and take relationship. any other person involve? ask if there's anything you can do to make things better .
Love making is just ONE of the expressions of love. It should not be the only measurement of his feelings for you.



If it is truly love that you had at the beginning then it should be growing not dying. Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't change then thank God you are not married to him and just end the relationship.







Faith ~
Thank you allstar_soft...FINALLY someone else who gets it. One cannot truly ';MAKE'; anyone do or feel anything they don't or don't want to.



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I can probably give you the best advice. Me and my guy lives together too. We are both sexual people so we don't have that problem but I do realize that guys change when you live with them. That's just how it is. I don't know how religious you are but technically we aren't supposed to be living with them until we are married. You can expect for things to happen but just talk to him. Buy sexy lingerie to peak his interest. Once you see that he's interested, give him some every now and then. Not all the time. Make him want you. Every man wants sex as much as they can have it so if you turning up your sex appeal doesn't work then you know some thing's up.



Good luck

How to make a Scorpio guy fall in love with a Virgo guy.?

There is this guy who I like from choir practice (he is gay) and I told him I have a crush on him. But how me a Virgo can make a Scorpio fall in love with me. how can i also show that I like him.How to make a Scorpio guy fall in love with a Virgo guy.?
just be yourself :) dont go trying to change to what you think he might like, because he will see right through that. Be gentle, friendly and trusting with him, because then he might be able to open up and then really love youHow to make a Scorpio guy fall in love with a Virgo guy.?
You already told him that you had crush on him. If he is genuinely interested he will reciprocate, if not then it is his loss.
i think you did the right thing, scorpio like the ';tell it like it is'; type if he's interested he'll make his move.

How do i make my boyfriend fall in love with me all over again or at least love me more?

call me crazy but i have a problem. my boyfriend and I were really good friends. then we started going out. and after around 3 months he told my best friend that he loved me. and i already knew i loved him. and at the 4th month we had our first kiss. the reason why he waited so long is because he said he wanted to go slow and not rush things because he didnt want to loose me. its now 6 months that we have been together. 2 of my friends think ever since we started going out we both have changed, and his bestfriend wants us to break up because of it. also in the last month too was kind of hard for me: his parents got in the way of our relationship, he flirted with this girl like crazy right infront of my eyes, %26amp; because he had done something that almost ruined our relationship totally. I told him it would be awhile before i trusted him again when it happened. recently though he hasnt talked to me as much on the phone and he has stopped texting me. alot of girls seem to like him too. he tellls me he loves me and all but can i really believe it? and worse i really am in love with him. i am so lost and confused and its even worse to think about if he might break up with me because hes getting tired of us or something. and i know that if he is he really doesnt love me at all. so i figured if i could make him love me more or even get him to love me or care about me more maybe i could fix everything. because i dont want to just sit around and iqnore all that could be coming, especially if i had a chance to fix it or change it. So tell me what should i do?How do i make my boyfriend fall in love with me all over again or at least love me more?
I'm sorry to say but I think your relationship is over. If he's not talking to you as much then, like you said, he's not interested anymore. I know you love him and it hurts but why be with someon that doesn't want to be with you. The way you typed up everything it seems like you know you two need to break up but you want some reassurance. I'm here to tell you that it is time. You deserve better than someone who flirts with other girls and keeps your around. He's probably not breaking up with you because he doesn't want to hurt you.



You can't make someone love you again. They have to do it on their own. The best advice I can give is to talk to your friends and ask for their support. Meet up with him and tell him it needs to end. It will be the hardest thing you'll have to do but if you keep busy and hangout with your friends a lot you'll be okay.



You don't need to break it off right away. I suggest slowly stop talking to him and keep yourself busy with other things so you get used to not having him in your life. Once you think you're ready then tell him its over. I hope everything works outs and I hope you're not sad for too long.How do i make my boyfriend fall in love with me all over again or at least love me more?
show him how dedicated you are to the relationship and tell him all this, if he really loves you he will try to fix it too
To say the truth im kinda in the same boat onl with a girl and ima a guy. But some things from a guys perspective would be to show open affection to him. Tell him u love him , look at him like you really do love him and also do things with him physically ( im not sayin go crazy here) but enough to get him wanting u all the time again. tell him how u feel and how much he really means to u. ....... Also if u have any ideas could u e mail me or somethin from the girls piont of veiw ...... lol
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its a website by this guy who writes a lot about what girls (and guys) do wrong in relationships. He writes a lot about what NOT to do when your guy starts drifting off.



However, I have not actually paid for the book/CDs, so he's kind of skirting around the real answers to some of the problems. but if you really analize what he is writing, it's pretty easy to figure out.

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How do you make yourself fall out of love?

I'm in love with a guy that doesn't feel the same and it's so painful to be around him. How do I get over this? Yes I've told him I love him and I'm positive he doesn't love me.How do you make yourself fall out of love?
If it's really love there is no falling out.. the only thing that will numb the pain is time.. I know exactly how you feel, but unfortunately I work with her, and we're good friends, so every day is a fresh kick in the stitches.. Nothing to do but ignore the pain and patch it back up..

I wish you more luck than I've had.. :PHow do you make yourself fall out of love?
Good news and Bad news. You CANT fall our of love....But you can make it better. Keep your distance from him. Do stuff with your best friends, like go shopping, but keep busy. Focus on your school work. Hope I helped. Feel free to email me for more advice.

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You cant D: Im kinda in the same situation. Stay close friends with him and maybe he might fall for you. who knows? but remember theres a lot of people out there.

How can I make my friend fall in love with me???

I really like this guy friend of mine %26amp; I would bend over backwards to make him happy. What can I do to make him fall in love with me?????How can I make my friend fall in love with me???
hang out more with him =) and tell him that!

Good luck!!How can I make my friend fall in love with me???
u can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you. he either likes u or he doesn't.
just be yourself. flirt with him alot. ask him to hang out sometime.
You CAN'T make him fall in love with you. Real love doesn't work that way.



You just have to hang out with him more and possibly actually tell him you like him a lot.
you can not make any one do what they don't want to do. be happy with friendship, if you try to ';make'; it more you may loose the friendship. but think of this, if it what you two have grows to something more you've got your best friend and love in one. if nothing more then friendship grows then you've got a great friend.
Nothing, you can't make anyone love you.

Just be yourself, that's all you can do.

Act interested.
flirt with him

smile

he will notice:)
Talk to him, then leave abruptedly. Do this a few days more. Then kiss him. Then slap him. Then kiss him. Then say something sexy, and dissapear. Then let him find you. And kiss him. Ask him out. Yeah.
Put out.
Just be friend. maybe talk to him and say like';what would happen if you had a friend and they said i like you more than a friend?'; and see what he say's.
Get him interested in you(if hes not already).Once thats happening, then your in bussiness. You should start hanging out with him more(movie, games, ect.) and maybe even start flirting(just hinting that you like him-make a move) It should work =]]. I hope that everything goes well between you two

-good luck hun

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Things need to flow with time... You can't force a person to fall in love with you.... Just like the things you guys do together.

Be yourself, let him have his space too... When you force some one you are going against the current need to flow with it life is on a river and when we resist and go against the flow it never works out... Please go with it, and if its meant to happen it will... And it will be the most beautiful things...

Good Luck...
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You can't
This is one of the hardest questions to answer possible. You need to make him attracted to you before he falls in love and in order to do that you need to become seductive and beautiful. Shocking and confident. Resilient and most of all he needs to be damn jealous of all the other guys.
you can't do anything.





Why does everyone ask this question? Do you really think you can force someone into liking you?



They are either going to like you, or they're not. There is nothing you can do to change their attractiveness towards you.
come on now.

you know you can't make people fall in love with you.

that is something that happens organically.

i wouldn't be too needy with him, though.

you say you'd bend over backwards for him...well...that's good quality to have in A FRIEND, but with a romantic courtship, it's not good to be too available and ';OMG, whatever you want I'll do it.';

Men like a challenge, but don't be too bitchy.

It's a deligate balance...lmao.

Seriously..this love game is tricky.
you can't manipulate love, it just happens if its true love. Just keep being there for him, it might help if you give him hints.
Just show him how special you are, how unique you are...

just be yourself basically :)



gluck =)

How to make a gay Scorpio guy fall in love with a gay Virgo guy.?

There is this guy who I like from choir practice (he is gay) and I told him I have a crush on him. But how me a Virgo can make a Scorpio fall in love with me. how can i also show that I like him.How to make a gay Scorpio guy fall in love with a gay Virgo guy.?
what do horoscopes have to do with being gay?

does that mean all virgos and scorpios are gay?

gosh people!How to make a gay Scorpio guy fall in love with a gay Virgo guy.?
ok, first of all you can't make someone fall in love with you, regardless of their zodiac sign. either he has feelings for you in return or he doesn't.



second, to show him that you like him, just subtly flirt with him every now and again. look at him in the eyes and smile a lot. complement him here and there. joke with him and laugh a lot.



but whatever you do, DO NOT come on too strong. oh my god that is the biggest turn off ever! like don't go up to him and be all like ';so have you ever done anything with a guy before?'; or any other sexual questions like that. ugh, that's so creepy. when gay kids in my neighborhood started finding out i was bi, they started doing that to me all the time. it got really annoying. it's like all they wanted from me was my a$$, and that's definitely not the impression you want to leave with the guy you like. it makes you seem desperate.
Just start by asking him out!
does the horoscope really matter??
Sorry to have to break it to you like this, but astrology is the bunk
dude that zodiac stuff is fake

Guys (or girls), what can I do to make my man truly fall in love with me?

We've been dating for 8 months. We've never had a big fight (just small fights). When I first started seeing, he was so sweet (he bought some teddy bears for his place so that I could cuddle with them when I visited him). He likes to cuddle a lot. One day he told me that he wanted me to feel him more, and I do now. I know he likes me a lot, but how can I make him fall in love with me? I asked him what he's looking for in a girl, his answer wasn't helpful at all. He said, ';thin and Asian'; which describes almost all Asian girls. He always tells me that I'm one of the most beautiful girls he's ever seen and that I'm intelligent. But is there any other qualities that make him in love with me? What should I do?Guys (or girls), what can I do to make my man truly fall in love with me?
Love is a natural feeling that causes actions and reactions indescribable. If he loves you, he loves you. If he doesn't love you, he doesn't. You can't ';make'; someone fall in love with you.



To be sure, ask him if he likes you or loves you. But be sure he knows the difference. When you like someone, you want them to be happy and that's about it. When you love someone, you want to care for them, be with them forever, want them happy and healthy, and protected by any threat that may be posed to him/her.Guys (or girls), what can I do to make my man truly fall in love with me?
flirt with him
Love falls into place itself.

You can't make someone fall in love with you, Otherwise, It isn't actual love.
Don't hurt the guy by making him fall in love, and then breaking his heart.

He obviously likes you, just go with the flow and love will follow.
Be yourself. Sex will make him happy, but it won't make him love you...



So don't make any mistakes.



If he doesn't love you for yourself, he won't love you.
yes true love u cant make someone love u
Show him how much he means to you.

You can't do much since you can't ';force'; him or something into

loving you. Give him time.



Prepare romantic dinners or something like that that demonstrates

how much he means to you, and how special he is.
sounds like a funny guy, I think doing something special for him will probably work.
if u have to play games to make him love u it's not really love is it ...u can't help who sum1 love's no matter what u do ..what should u do..stop being silly as ur gonna cause trouble ..then he'll dump u all because u want him to love u ..just enjoy what u got
nobody can force anybody to fall in love and to try to do otherwise is to bend theri will and thats not good. have you told him you feel comfy with him to talk with? you like his sauce? you like his attitude toward life and tht was before you knew his secret? you like to dance with him? his sense of humor is great? tell him all the things you like about him right down to how you 'remember' how it feels to be physically closer with him and the heat felt matched to your own.so many things taht you can tell him and see if he can tell you what he thinks about when he thinks of you? that would be interesting since he hasnt done that yet has he? so, maybe he doesnt feel the same way but you cant force it - you either gotta wait (but not too long cos that just gets you hurt more!) or you gotta move on. difficult decision but you really cant Make him love you - you can only hope that he feels the same as you do and hope that he says it and Shows it when he Sees you.

How can I make him fall back in love with me???

This question is really for the guys??? Ok so my daughters father and i have been together on and off for almost 4 years now...Even when we were not together he we still were having sex. I am still soooo in love with hime right now that I dont know how to control myself...I know he still loves me and everything but I dont think he is in love with me anymore....I find myself calling him alot not knowing how to act when I am around him, I always wanna lay up under him...I just want to pull my hair out because I dont know what to do with myself....I do notice that when I dont really pay attention to him thats when he is more into me...thats when he will call me like why havent I heard form you and when are you coming to see me again and this and that....what should i do guys ??? should I just start acting like I dont notice him and stop chasing him...or should I keep showing interest and pray that one day we will get back to how we use to be?? somebody please help me I feel miserableHow can I make him fall back in love with me???
thats the problem with girls. you show interest they run. so we learn thats the ways its gonna be and then we adapt

How can i make my best friend fall in love with me?

yesterday i told my best friend Patrick that i love him. he was shocked because its not obvious, suddenly i notice that he wants to be with me very often. is he in love with me? how can i make him fall in love with me even more. is it possible for us to be in a relationship. help???How can i make my best friend fall in love with me?
kiss him out of nowhere.

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Hey does anyone know how to make Vaughn fall in love with you faster on harvest moon island of happiness?

I have him at blue heart level, but i just wanted to know if anyone had any other tricks.Hey does anyone know how to make Vaughn fall in love with you faster on harvest moon island of happiness?
Other than making his favourite item (Porridge), there's not much you can do to speed up the process, especially as he visits only twice a week.



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When you go to festivals contests (and he's there too), try to win, as it will boost the friendship points of everyone that attended.

How can you make a player fall in love with you and make him know that you can be his main girl.?

i like a player but i do not know how to tell him without getting my feelings hurt so what shall i do to get his attention without him turning me down or rejecting me .How can you make a player fall in love with you and make him know that you can be his main girl.?
You already know that you will never be his main girl. That's not his nature. I imagine that every girl that goes with him thinks she's the one, but she's just another in a long line. Trust me, you can't change him. That is one of the biggest mistakes that girls make with guys.How can you make a player fall in love with you and make him know that you can be his main girl.?
Rejection is part of dating. You're going to learn to take a chance or you're going to be dateless.
First of all ... what the hell is a ';Player';? Sounds like an episode of BeBe's Kids or the Hughleys. If you like a player, then you DESERVE all that you are about to receive. Don't be a dang fool.



Oh yeah .. and stop using words like ';player';. Look in the dictionary and see what that word really means.
Be different from what hes had.. like make him want you.. play hard to get.. that always works..but show that u like him
Every female deserves more than a player can give. Guard you heart.
You can't MAKE anyone fall in love with you. The sooner you learn that, the happier you will be in life.
Forget the ';player';...date a dork or someone not so popular...you'll find you have an easier time without all the competition...besides, he'll be happy to have a hottie like you.
Why would you want to do that ? If He's a player...that's what He's gonna be...and that's EXACTLY what you'll become HIS MAIN girl..NOT his ONLY girl...if you can deal with that so be it..if not...don't put yourself thru the drama.
Why would you fall in love with a player? Just by description, the name already tells you that ';his game'; is to play around with other women. Toilet behavior is what I call it; player sounds too damn nice. If a person shows that they have no respect for you by displaying a ';player'; mentality, my question for you is why do you humiliate yourself by chasing after a ';player';?
if you know hes going to turn you down ,admire from a distance .my thought is you only mentioned him hurting you or rejecting you .so there is no chance for you to be accepted from this player . you blowed that one.
You can't make anyone fall in love with you. A player is a player and they usually enjoy playing. They aren't looking for anything else.
u cant force some one to fall in love with you. if they dont like you you cant do anything about it. life it sucks sometimes
Guess what? You can't MAKE someone fall in love with you. You can do things to make them like you, but when you're laying traps and plotting and planning... well, it just don't work like it does on TV and in the movies.

Also, you don't mind being his MAIN girl... so it would be perfect with you to be part of a stable??? You want to be one of many??? You don't like yourself enough... you are willing to ALLOW yourself to be hurt. DUH

How to make someone fall in love with you? My guy friend has tons of admirers and he tells me it all boils dow?

n to manipulating the girls' minds...



Can someone explain?How to make someone fall in love with you? My guy friend has tons of admirers and he tells me it all boils dow?
They don't love him, they are in lust. You can't make someone fall in love. Love is something that will just occur.



And tell the pig to get off his high horse.How to make someone fall in love with you? My guy friend has tons of admirers and he tells me it all boils dow?
you will probably just find them over time, and kind of just connect. it could take a while.

How do I make an arab man fall in love with me?

I have been going out with my cousins high school friend and I loved him for about 3 years anyways i tell him a couple of months ago that I love him and he says just cool and then later on tells me he loves me but now he keeps telling me ';I DON'T KNOW IF U LOVE ME'; and i always tell him I love him. and then he tells me ';EVERY GIRL CAN MAKE A MAN LOVE HER OR HATE HER?'; , he said he wants me to make him fall in love with me more what more can i do what do i do? i want him to know that hes my love and i want him .....help meHow do I make an arab man fall in love with me?
You love this man? Than fight for him. But dont let him use u.How do I make an arab man fall in love with me?
if you have to prove your love to a person that you love there's no point in loving them cuz when you love someone pretty much everyone around you knows about it and if the object of your love keeps demanding you prove it you should just say look pal i love you and there's no way i can prove it to you because of how much i love you and if you can't accept that then rip a wooly one up you and leave me the hell alone cuz i don't wanna out up with ur crap...you shouldn't b made to feel this way because he's insecure... hope that helps

How do i make my ex fall in love with me even though we dont really talk?

me n my ex been together on and off for 3 years n i still feel he's not really in love with me i love him with all my heart and would do anything for him and i want him to feel the same way. we dont really talk that much so how do i make him fall in love with me even though we dont talk?How do i make my ex fall in love with me even though we dont really talk?
You can't make anyone fall in love with you.

There is no Love Potion No. 9,

It's time, you got your head together and move on.How do i make my ex fall in love with me even though we dont really talk?
you are asking the impossible!
I am very sorry. You can not make some one fall in love with you.



You should start to find another person to fall in love with.
you dont make people fall in love with you...it just happens. Just move on...yea its goin to b hard but ya gots to do it and try bein friends for awhile or somethin.
well, talking to her would be a start.... ?? proclaim your love, man! stand on a coffee table and declare your love for her! it will make her swoon at you!


no talk, no love. move on, she's yur X for a reason. start over with someone new.

How does a woman appeal to a man's emotional side - the side that makes him fall in love with her?

I'm trying to see if what I think it is,,is actually making him and I realize...that I could be the one.How does a woman appeal to a man's emotional side - the side that makes him fall in love with her?
Men like to be treated like children at home. Do his laundry, show him you can cook and most important show take care of him when he is sick. Unfortunately, most girls find out that after the wedding, you didn't turn into his wife...you turn into his mother. This is the BIG secret of how divorced women remarry so quickly.How does a woman appeal to a man's emotional side - the side that makes him fall in love with her?
her being her, smiles, giggles, a wink, holding hands, a joke, a poutyfrown. standing next to her guy saying nothing just watching the sun go down, affirm him. little things,

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How do I make him fall out of love??

I broke up wit my bf durin d summer, but now we are back in college he keps tellin me he loves me and now i have even heard strangers talking bout it! I know i will never ever get back with him and i have made that very clear, but he still doesnt seem to get the message! how can i convince him to get over me??? i feel so guilty at the moment and hate the way people think im a ***** just because i dont like him! help me!!How do I make him fall out of love??
Tell him that he deserves someone who will love him and that it isn't you, you can't give him what he deserves.





Also tell him that he can't give you what you want, and let him know that if you stayed together you would end up hating him and as a result he could hate you and you would never want that.





Get him to remember the good times that he had with you and let him know that those won't happen again with you but he could have good times with somebody else.





Let him know what you like about him and stress heavily that OTHER girls will also like these qualities.





What he needs is to be complete with you so he no longer thinks of you but he looks forward to something new with somebody else.





In other words give him hope but make it clear that you two are heading in different directions.





Try not to make him jealous, there is no need to hurt him any more and you don't want to feel any more guilt.How do I make him fall out of love??
you need to take him aside and explain how you feel, and how he is making you feel, if he starts crying tell him to stop being so pathetic and sort his life out, DO NOT cuddle him, it will only give false hope.
Theres not much you can do honey. Just stay well clear I think is best. Don't give the ex any mixed messages. They'll get over it!
Sit down with him privately and tell him ur concerned about the way things are. He should understand and be too embarrassed to carry on. He is prob hurting n doesnt want to end it in his head! carry on with ur life people will settle down. good luck
You can't make him see something your way. You can't control what other people think. Move on with your life and try to avoid the situation. Maybe hook up with someone else and make sure that he sees you out and about and then maybe he will get the picture.
send him a picture of you having sex with someone else... it never fails
Don't you feel guilty, you have done nothing wrong. The relationship was over, you finished it, that is your absolute right. He can't get over you because you are so fab!! You are not a b***h. He will move on, and grow up eventually, just feel sorry for him, he has lost someone as wonderful as you!!!
It sounds like you need to get really ugly with him. If breaking up with him softly isn't working, then you need to get really stern with him. Tell him how you feel. You will have to stand your ground and tell him to GO AWAY! If he doesn't get the message then, you may have to get law enforcement involved. Hopefully it won't go that far.
You can麓t make someone fall out of love with you just like that.





The best you can hope for is that you find someone else and he accepts that, then perhaps he can move on as well.





Just cos he lets people know he still loves you doesn麓t mean that he really does, it麓s like he麓s trying to plant the seeds of doubt in your head.





Stop feeling guilty, It麓s your life and your heart !!!!!!
This isn't your problem, its his. Im afraid that he'll only get over you in time or when he meets someone new. Nothing you can do or say to him will convince him that your not the one for him becasuse thats what he has in his head. Maybe just sit him down and explain how you are feeling about the whole situation.





Tell him that you are really sorry that things have gotten the way that they have between you but it'd be unfair on both of you to be together when you aren't in love with him anymore. Compliment him and say that he's an amazing guy and there is someone out there for him, its just not you.
You don't have to do that. Talk to him heart to heart, and tell him honestly, that you don't love him anymore (not unless, you still have feelings for him).





Because if you continue with the relationship, you're fooling yourself as well. To hell with what other people will say, just follow your heart.
My advice would be to jus deal with it for now and totally ignore him, if u speak to him even in a friendly way he may take it the wrong way. he will soon get the message, even if it does take a while! try to take it as a compliment even though it's annoying! good luck!
You have my sympathy, my ex is still bombarding me with texts 16 months after we split %26amp; he is 37!! I have tried to stay friends as we are both 'adults' but he just keeps asking the same questions over %26amp; over, I get the feeling that he won't stop unless he gets the answers he wants to hear which just isn't going to happen, I have well and truly moved on, I have a new man and we are very happy, I just wish he could do the same.
try not to meet up with him anymore, in case u give him wrong signals. Decline any invitation for meals, etc. Maybe even change your fone or cell nbrs. Don't worry about what others say .......
Or maybe you are still actually in love with him, you might need to consider that as well...


Good luck
Just tell him his dick is too small and he doesn't satisfy you, that should shatter any illusions he may have about you wanting him, then maybe he'll move on, shamefully.
Standing up in a crowded space and say something like this....





I have an Announcement to make.





''I had a relationship with '_____________' and now I no longer feel the same as I did. He knows this and yet is trying to make life difficult for me through the spread of gossip that comes back to me.''





''I've tried being straight, and kind, but now it seems I just need to be straight, with everyone who seems concerned about how I have been treating him. Sorry, but it's over.''








Of course, you use your own words and find your own space / place to make this announcement, because it seems as if you need to simply get 'your message across' - to all.





Good luck.


Sash.
Kick him in the nuts.....





On a more serious note...it sounds like you should completely ignore him. Just by talking to him it sounds like he thinks there is a hope you're still interested.


If he still persists in trying to talk then tell him you will complain to your teachers of harrassment if he carries on. That's basically what he's trying to do...
You couldn't make it clearer! some of the civilise answers given are the best course. i.e. changing your mobile/cell number. Or kindly speaking with him. But it's true, you can't make somebody fall out of love with you! in fact it's quite flattering that you have somebody who's into you. But at the same time, you want it within sanity boundaries ...which will not spill into emotional conflict of any sort. What is your respected age and his? Has he had a lot of fail relationships in the past. Is he insecure and sometime possessive. Was he bullied or trouble in some sort of way, he may have disclose to you, in the time you was with him? It all stems from somewhere? It could be well the fact that he hasn't had somebody given him that affection he longs for in his life...so therefore he envisions you ...as you treated him good etc?
Forget what other people think. Just tell him it won't happen if he still doesn't get the message ignore him and he will eventually get the message unless he is a stalker then you will have to get a restraining order.

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How do I make myself fall OUT of love with this guy?

It's been 2 years and I still think about him. And I still love him. He doesn't deserve it though. Because he has moved on. I'm still stuck in a rut. I can't forget him because he was so special to me. And the good times we had..



But I can't see him again, and I know I need to move on. But to me there is on-one that comes close to him. I'm not interested much in anyone else because they don't make me feel the way he did....What should I do?

How do I make myself fall OUT of love with this guy?
stay busy and make sure you take the best possible care of yourself. How do I make myself fall OUT of love with this guy?
just try to forget him and move on...there is no way to make yourself fall out of love...';you dont just stop loving someone, either you never did or you always will';
Take some time alone before dating- If you are gonna keep comparing it will be harder to get over it,



Just take it easy and in time you know when its right to move on
Make yourself get out and meet new people. You might be surprised to find someone better, but you have to give them a chance.
omg this is just like my friend...



what you have 2 to is just forget, don't talk to him, don't see him, don't think about him



you will never Truly get over him, you just got 2 live one day at a time...
find a new guy and have sex with him!
The best I can offer is fill your time with other people, flings and such.



The Pain will never go away but the least you can do is drown it out with pleasures of the flesh or other bouts of ecstasy.
Feelings will go away on their own after you find something that will fill the void.



Love is the only thing that can cure a broken heart.
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Beat him with a wooden spoon.
Sadly, we can't turn our feelings on and off like light switches. I've been stuck in a rut for a little bit too. Find a man that loves you and move on.
good question

How do I make myself fall OUT of love with this guy?

It's been 2 years and I still think about him. And I still love him. He doesn't deserve it though. Because he has moved on. I'm still stuck in a rut. I can't forget him because he was so special to me. And the good times we had..



But I can't see him again, and I know I need to move on. But to me there is on-one that comes close to him. I'm not interested much in anyone else because they don't make me feel the way he did....What should I do?How do I make myself fall OUT of love with this guy?
i was kindof in the same situation as youu. i couldnt get over this guy because it was like everybody was silver and he was gold, and even though we never really expriienced an amazing relationship together, what we had was still very special to me because just who he was and the way i felt about him. so i think i can relate to you.. but getting over someone takes a lot and you first need to UNDERSTAND that you should move on. someone that isnt willing to take your love isnt worth it. someone who deserves your love is worth it, but you also cant make yourself be with someone just to get over someone else. you have to cherish the good times and take it as an expirience and not look back into the past, and just hope for the best in your future. if this guy doesnt know how special you are or how special you could make him feel, or even if he does and doesnt want to take it, dont even be thinking about giving it to him. think of what you and him had as an expirience and learn from it, and just cherish it and think of it as something that was beautiful and that you will remember forever and everyone has a first love, if this guy is your first love. and just realize that what you two have is broken, and its lost. and why try to fix something that is broken? you'll never forget someone that you love, you just have to recognize that moving on is something you may just have to do in order to be happy, youc ant change the past but you can ruin your present by dwelling on it. goodluck :)How do I make myself fall OUT of love with this guy?
Well if you honestly love him you won't fall out of love

Otherwise just see and meet new people and try your hardest to forget about him.

Don't do anything just so you do fall out of love with him though, let it occur properly.
It seems that you are lost without this guy of yours. I suggest you look into your self even more, and see how special you are. He is not the only guy that can make you happy. Hang on to your friends and meet new people. You are just thinking that he is the 'only' person that can make you feel the way he did because you WANT him to be the only one. Open up to other people and do what you enjoy. Who knows- you might meet the person who will make you feel even better.

How do you make a guy fall in love with you when you kiss him?

I know it's a dumb question but I make out with this guy all the time and I want to show him that the kiss is actually meaningful to me. What can I do to show him that I really care about him when we kiss?How do you make a guy fall in love with you when you kiss him?
Cup his balls.



EDIT: Seriously. Cup his balls!How do you make a guy fall in love with you when you kiss him?
You have to tell him! You need to find a bf and stop letting boys use you.
Do it slow and don't think of anything other than the kiss. And hold it a little longer than usual. Hold his neck and bring him closer and deeper into the kiss. Put passion into and he should get the idea at least
go on a nice date, even to the movies, or out for dinner or something, or maybe just for a nice walk by the river or lake or something(thats what i did lol) and sit down....just talk to him and tell him how much you really care for him, and how you hope he cares the same way you do, and leave over and give him a gentle kiss. It works ;)
From the words of ville valo

Give him a kiss worth dieing for...

Obviously i'v swapped her for him so yeah

make it a good one! good luck
sounds corny, but give him a sweet yet simple kiss. back off a little bit and see how he reacts to it. then just kinda lean back in and pretend you're gonna give him another but instead whisper something sweet in his ear. see how he reacts to that. =D
Just tell him that it means a lot to you and that you enjoy it. You must communicate with him and let him know how you feel. Also, you cannot make someone fall in love with you, they are going to feel the way they feel no matter what you do. It is the human condition, you either love someone or you don't, it isn't something you decide to do. Good luck!
Just tell him! How hard can it be?
If you really want him to fall in love with you, go kiss something else for about 5 minutes.
You can't make a guy fall in love with you. Kiss with passion and also tell him that you have fallin in love and was wondering did he feel the samething... If he isn't in love with you and he just there to be kissin u then u need someone better..
its not a dumb question!! just kiss him next time and cut off the kiss saying i love you thats what i did with my bf and he said it back and i really felt like we were in love
When you kiss him, you want to hug and gently caress his body. you might want to grab his chest first and then his arms and maybe it will happen
be honest and passionate rather than prudey and holding back and all nervous

How do you make a guy fall in love with you when you kiss him?

I know it's a dumb question but I make out with this guy all the time and I want to show him that the kiss is actually meaningful to me. What can I do to show him that I really care about him when we kiss?How do you make a guy fall in love with you when you kiss him?
Cup his balls.



EDIT: Seriously. Cup his balls!How do you make a guy fall in love with you when you kiss him?
You have to tell him! You need to find a bf and stop letting boys use you.
Do it slow and don't think of anything other than the kiss. And hold it a little longer than usual. Hold his neck and bring him closer and deeper into the kiss. Put passion into and he should get the idea at least
go on a nice date, even to the movies, or out for dinner or something, or maybe just for a nice walk by the river or lake or something(thats what i did lol) and sit down....just talk to him and tell him how much you really care for him, and how you hope he cares the same way you do, and leave over and give him a gentle kiss. It works ;)
From the words of ville valo

Give him a kiss worth dieing for...

Obviously i'v swapped her for him so yeah

make it a good one! good luck
sounds corny, but give him a sweet yet simple kiss. back off a little bit and see how he reacts to it. then just kinda lean back in and pretend you're gonna give him another but instead whisper something sweet in his ear. see how he reacts to that. =D
Just tell him that it means a lot to you and that you enjoy it. You must communicate with him and let him know how you feel. Also, you cannot make someone fall in love with you, they are going to feel the way they feel no matter what you do. It is the human condition, you either love someone or you don't, it isn't something you decide to do. Good luck!
Just tell him! How hard can it be?
If you really want him to fall in love with you, go kiss something else for about 5 minutes.
You can't make a guy fall in love with you. Kiss with passion and also tell him that you have fallin in love and was wondering did he feel the samething... If he isn't in love with you and he just there to be kissin u then u need someone better..
its not a dumb question!! just kiss him next time and cut off the kiss saying i love you thats what i did with my bf and he said it back and i really felt like we were in love
When you kiss him, you want to hug and gently caress his body. you might want to grab his chest first and then his arms and maybe it will happen
be honest and passionate rather than prudey and holding back and all nervous

How do I make the guy to fall in love with me?

There is this guy I met after breaking up with my ex after I found out about him cheating on me. I really like him. We went out twice, I've been to his place once, no sex, we were just kissing for a very long time. He seemed to enjoy it and didn't try to take it futher to sex. He was kind of shy. What do I do to make him fall for me?How do I make the guy to fall in love with me?
ignore them and treat them like crap lolHow do I make the guy to fall in love with me?
Actually, you can't really makes someone to love you. Unless, you have a magic wand to spell it. If you want the guy to love you, you have to earn it. You have to show a lot of supportive, understanding, trustworth, responsible and opened. When you show all the love you have given to him....he'll realized it......the more you know it....he will tell you that he loves you. When a guy loves you...they will tell. But if they don't loves you, they don't speak out. Especially, a shy guy will speak out when they are ready to say it out. For the guys who is just a player.....they just say it out as a full of liars.
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How do you make a guy fall in love with you when you kiss him?

I know it's a dumb question but I make out with this guy all the time and I want to show him that the kiss is actually meaningful to me. What can I do to show him that I really care about him when we kiss?



I dont even know if he is just using me or not. We've had to keep the whole thing a secret because he is my older brother's best friend.How do you make a guy fall in love with you when you kiss him?
Well lol if it's a secret to begin with he might just like making out b/c if he really liked you he wouldn't care who knows. but if you really want him to know just tell him....if you have to face rejection then he might not be looking for the same thing that you are. Worse then you can do is chase someone who isn't chasing you.... I would say try to distance you self from him and see how he reacts. and of course like I said before just come out and talk to him about itHow do you make a guy fall in love with you when you kiss him?
You really can't make a guy fall in love with you. If it's the right guy he will automatically or slowly over time fall in love with you. You can't make a guy love you, like you, wanna be with you all that stuff. It just comes natural. It's a type of feeling that sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't. You can kiss him all you want it won't change anything if he truly doesn't like you as much as you think he does. That just makes a guy want to be with you so he can get some.

How can i make my self fall in love with him?

Theres taht guy that really likes me but i odnt feel that way. i know that he would be always there for me and he would not ever hurt me or cheat on me ... how can i fall in love with him? what do i have to say to myself to start doing itHow can i make my self fall in love with him?
Don't doll. I've been there and tried that, and it didn't work out so well. I'm talking about my first boyfriend and I spent a good month trying to make myself like him. I did start to develop feelings but by month 3 I realized it was a mistake because my feelings completely died and I spent the last 3 months of our relatioship trying to gently break up with him. It ended in a mutual breakup but then we had an argument several months afterwards and didn't speak to eachother for about a year. We are on good terms now but it still never would have worked out between us. If there's no initial attraction, don't force it, and don't feel bad about it. He's just not right for you. I'm now very happily married to the real man of my dreams. You will too.How can i make my self fall in love with him?
if you believe in the stories of arranged marriages....



you will apparently grow to love someone after you have spent alot of time with the regardless of how you really felt at the beginning
You shouldn't try to make yourself fall in love with someone, love comes naturally.
if that is what you really want, it will happen, it's true, if it is not meant to happen it won't
If you don't love him, you don't love him..what's the point in trying to force yourself to? That won't make you happy. You'll find other people who like you as much as this guy does, and you'll eventually find one you like back, so just be patient. This obviously wasn't meant to happen.
u juss can't make ur self fall in love wif someone! ya juss can't! mk........if ya really didn't love him then ya don't need to make ur self! mk
Its not as easy as it sounds.



If you dont like him.....then you cant FORCE yourself to ';love'; someone you dont even like! Love should come natural.
You can't force yourself to fall in love with him it as to come out naturally. I quess you just have to tell him the truth that you only want to be friends.
Sorry to say, but you can't force yourself or trick yourself into liking him.



He sounds like a nice guy but if you don't like him it's gonna be hard to work.



If you spend more time with him and feel nothing, you shouldn't have a relationship with him, it'll only hurt him.
You can't force your self to fall inlove. Love just grows over time. It starts out in a relationship that is built with trust and respect. With in time it grows into so much more. Mean Love.



So if you don't love him then you don't feel that way. But you can't force it.
you shouldn't have to make yourself fall in love with him

if you dint like him dint go for him

but fallow what your heart says
Listen to your hear you should not have to force yourself to like a guy! He sounds like he would be a great friend though!
first of all....you cant make yourself fall in love or it wont be genuine.......it just has to come. naturally....get to know him and then it all should fall in place ...dont pressure your self becuz maybe he isnt in God's plain for your relationship
you cant make yourself love anyone , and he is not the only man that will not ever cheat or disrespect you, stop trying to make your-self love him , you don't want to be stuck in a relationship and unhappy
Sweetie...you cant make yourself fall in love with someone. Maybe its too early for you to be in love with him. Maybe he isnt the right one.



When I was 19 I was asked to marry this guy. I knew I didnt love him. But he loved me. My friends kept telling me it will come in time...just give it time. I married him and 11 years later I divorced him. Guess what...11 years later, I still didnt love him. To add to all this, he was the perfect gentleman while we were dating. But turned very controling and abusive after we were married. He had me exactly where he wanted me.



People change over time. If you dont love him now, you can give it time or maybe you have had time and its just not there. Dont make yourself love someone your not completely happy with. If he says I love you, it doesnt mean you have to say it back. Be sure when you tell the man you fall head over heels for that you love him...that you say it from the bottom of your heart. And if he doesnt say it at first, just know he isnt ready yet. Give him that time...give yourself that time. Its something you want to say when you mean it.
Don't make yourself fall inlove with him. There's plenty of sweet guys out there that will treat you nice. But if the feelings aren't there then you shouldn't force them. Just be patient and some1 else will come along.



Good Luck,

*girlygirl* 24/7
If you are able to see the goodness in this guy.....you will fall in love with him soon........but don't wait too long to fall in love coz good man is always a hot cake....other girls might take this hot cake, at that time,,,,don't regret!! Give yourself and him a chance...even if it doesn't work out...at least you can tell yourself you have dated a great guy!!
you may not be able to fall in love with him......... i wish every girl would think about giving the sweet guy a chance. just get to know him and slowly develope a freindship which blooms into a loving relationship

Good Luck!