How could i make him fall in love again without getting him hurt ?

i met this guy a year ago , and i had a huge crush on him since that day , this year or like a week ago we started talking once again and everything went great between us , he knew how i wanted a serious relationship and everything ..

we dated like 3 times , so he came to my house , we started talking , i asked him what are we exactly , he said goin out together ? i said yeah :) .. but he told me u know i dont want a serious relationship right now and i dont want to take a risk to get hurt once again ( he fell in love once and he felt like he was choking with her) i got deeply mad and didnt know what to say , my friends tells me u can make him fall in love with u , even though he told me when ill start to have feelings towards u,i will walk out ,and i guess its hard to make him change his mind ..we both are so stubborn , i think that i can change his mind and he is sure that nothing will make him change ...

what can i do ? even though he likes me so very much ...but its not enoughHow could i make him fall in love again without getting him hurt ?
Sam, i think you just need to be your own person and let him sort things out in his head. If he can't love all the wonderful things he now likes about you, then you deserve somebody who will. Be confident in yourself and know that you shouldn't try and actually can't make somebody fall in love with you. Trying is in effect disrespecting yourself. i wish you luck.How could i make him fall in love again without getting him hurt ?
wow thats a story well um im not quite sure but you can try talking 2 him more and if that does not work give him some time then try again
well just try to be there for him and don't hurt him
How could i make him fall in love again without getting him hurt ?



let him be on top, u don't know what ur doin
You need to move on! You may end up getting hurt!!
just have him come over alot more often and try to make ur self look o so sexy and were sexy outfits and try and seduct him that would make me fall in live but make sure its not just a booty call
dont be in a relationship with him and if he wants u enough he will make the commitment
well girl i've been in same stage.nd coming from a girl who has experienced it you minds well take things slow with him and wait till he come to his senses to tell yo that he want to be wit you 4eva...im not saying that you should wait 4eva but if he continue to do this nd your hurting like this then maybe ya'll should break-up an think about it so you minds well start now nd wait or move on............
well i guess he is just not ready for a serious relationship. maybe his ex did really hurt him . but if that was a year ago it is time for him to move on .. if he like you so much like you say why cant he just trust you. tell him your not his ex and that if he never gives you a chance then he will never know the things he will miss out on .. get him thinking .. thats the way to do it . i hope i helped good luck
jus keep being his frend.eventually he'll see that he really enjoys ur company and wants to be sumthin more, and before u know it he'll be askin u to be his chick, without u even having a clue.
You are in a difficult situation because you are talking to someone that you like a lot, but right now he could care less whether it's you or the next girl. ANYTHING you do that is not normal to your personality to try to make him fall in love with you will ultimately be detrimental to your relationship.



I started talking to this girl at a time when I REALLY did not want a relationship. I told her I didn't trust girls after what happened in my last relationships. She spent the next 3 months going out of her way to make me trust her and fall in love with her and it worked! The next month after that she was pregnant, while she was pregnant I catered to her needs. After our son was born, the girl from the first 3 months no longer existed. It was like I was stuck in the Twilight Zone and this is a different girl then the one I fell in love with. If you want an update on our relationship, read the post, ';How do I help my son?';



I know it hurts and it's hard when you love someone and they don't feel the same about you, but in the end, it's not worth it to try to ';make'; someone fall in love with you, because if you have to ';make'; them, it's not real.



There's plenty of guys out there, don't try to force anything because in the end, you won't be happy.